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The Public Education System Sucks (Especially for Queer Black Femmes)

If the Dean positions are largely dominated by men, guess who the most punished group in school is.

Syd May 12, 2020 26 Comments
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How We Feel About Dating During The Coronavirus Pandemic

“It feels like dating is all of the bad parts with none of the good parts.”

Vanessa May 12, 2020 19 Comments
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Stepping Out Of Silence

When love is a matter of desperation, how do you even begin to know what it is you desire? It doesn’t matter what shape love takes. Or does it?

himani May 12, 2020 15 Comments
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Breakups Love + Sex

18 Reasons Why You Might Be Breaking Up In Quarantine

11. For some alone time with the sex bench.

Ryan Yates May 12, 2020 1 Comment
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Extra! Extra!: How the Pandemic Is Disproportionately Harming the LGBTQ Community and More

In this week’s Extra! Extra! COVID-19 we see how the pandemic taps into existing discrimination and continues to deepen divisions the world over.

himani May 11, 2020 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 518 Recap: Bridge Over Troubled Water

Alex and Kelly run into road blocks at work, Nia confronts Brainy, and Lena and Kara’s feud comes to a head.

Valerie Anne May 11, 2020 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “The Baby-Sitters Club” Trailer Is All Friendship and ’90s Nostalgia

Villanelle’s most personal murder, Aidy Bryant and Kate McKinnon go to quarantine prom, more reasons to love Alice Wu, Queen Latifah’s Equalizer reboot is a go, Janet Mock drops hints for Hollywood season two, and more!

Heather Hogan May 11, 2020 4 Comments
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Tell Us All About Your Weird Pandemic Sex Dreams!

We’re entering month 567 of a global pandemic, and you may be having some weird sex dreams! Here at autostraddle dot com, we’d love to hear about them in a respectful manner, for journalism.

Rachel May 11, 2020 4 Comments
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Topping From the Bunker: Tips for Long-Distance Kink

Good news: there are no geographic limits to being a kinky slut, and I’m willing to lend you my perverted imagination.

Ro White May 11, 2020 1 Comment
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“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 407: Lesson Number One With Lianna Carrera!

Get your ass into The Ask and Tell Helicopter, it’s time to get schooled about lezzing out!

Riese May 11, 2020 4 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Pays Queer Tribute to Little Richard, the G.O.A.T.

Hey babes, it’s Sunday, we’ve got so much music from Erykah Badu, Jill Scott, Ariana Grande, and a queer tribute to Little Richard that you’ve gotta read! Also, queer southern archives, some Brooklyn Nine-Nine humor to get you through, Lebanese LGBTQ rights, and so much more! Let’s get into it!!

Ari May 10, 2020 2 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Orgasming Like a Glint of Light

Orgasming with chronic pelvic pain, breaking up in quarantine when you have to stay there together, masturbation as part of mental health and more.

Ryan Yates May 10, 2020
Culture

Country Queers Documents the Myriad Experiences of Rural LGBTQIA Americans

“Community is a very complicated and roomy word. Rural queer people also have other layers of identity that inform their realities.”

Lauren Parker May 9, 2020 6 Comments
Recipes

The Dyke Kitchen: Spicy South Asian-ish Biscuits

There are a lot of different ways to go out on a limb and make a biscuit really pop: does it need toasted pumpkin seeds, does it need fish sauce, does it need bbq sauce, does it need weed? Today, I made a spicy South Asian-ish biscuit, meant to upstage and compliment an egg.

Kamala Puligandla May 9, 2020 4 Comments
Webcomics

The Lakeview Crew #4: Taurus Surprise!

Maya and Max prepare a social distance surprise that will make you cry, in the good way.

Emma Rust May 9, 2020 2 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “Station 19” Continues Shondaland’s Legacy of Hot Gay Sex (And Drama)

Plus updates on: Harley Quinn, How To Get Away with Murder, In the Dark, Motherland: Fort Salem, Tommy, Roswell, The Baker and the Beauty, 911, Top Chef, and Siren.

The TV Team May 8, 2020 15 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: VEEPSTAKES Edition

In this week’s Extra! Extra!, we take a break from our usual fare and instead offer commentary on some of the women who are on the short list to be Joe Biden’s Vice President.

Natalie May 8, 2020 22 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #310: Eight Minutes Of Scream-Talking The Coolest Things You Can Think Of

Topics include nannies during COVID, The Chive’s “bro bait” website, Val Kilmer, Shaker Heights, Sesame Street, making adult friends, women in criminal justice films and so much more!

Riese May 8, 2020 8 Comments
Food and Drink

#Dykes4Roman, Explained

An interview with Alison Roman.

Vanessa May 8, 2020 27 Comments
Food Lists

35 Alison Roman Recipes Ranked In Order of Lesbianism

Get familiar with her and her recipes in this handy ranked list.

Ari May 8, 2020 18 Comments
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