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Lesbian Sex

My Girlfriend and I Got High and Came Up With Role Plays for You To Try With Your Girlfriend

The scattered concepts we devised were a combination of erotic and nonsensical and now I have tasked myself with turning these notes into full scenes for your enjoyment.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 22, 2024 4 Comments
8 across / 4 letters / clue: Audre Lorde, June Jordan, or Sappho
Puzzles

Mini Crossword is Riding in Cars with Bois

I tell dad jokes but I have no kids.

Kate Hawkins March 22, 2024 1 Comment
Chappell Roan Tiny Desk: Collage of two close up images, one where Chappell is singing with her mouth open and one where she's clutching her hands to her chest.
Music

Chappell Roan and All-Pink Band Turn NPR’s Tiny Desk Into the Pink Pony Club

There is nothing casual about our love for Chappell Roan after this performance!

Drew Burnett Gregory March 21, 2024 3 Comments
Close ups of Jackie and Lou in Love Lies Bleeding with the stars as a background.
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Movie Features

What Are the Astrological Charts of the Toxic Main Gays in “Love Lies Bleeding”?

Love Lies Bleeding, for all its many attributes, fails to tell us the birth charts of either main character. But maybe we can figure it out!

Drew Burnett Gregory March 21, 2024 4 Comments
Movie Lists

If You Loved the Grit, Gore, and Grime of “Love Lies Bleeding,” Watch These Gay Movies

Here are 20 queer films full of blood, sweat, and revenge.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 21, 2024 2 Comments
a protester holds a sign that says SAY GAY
Politics + Activism

Florida’s Latest Ruling Against “Don’t Say Gay” Law Isn’t Enough

While the ruling does help make working in schools for teachers and going to school for students just slightly easier, the material realities for trans people in Florida continue to deteriorate as a result of these laws.

Stef Rubino March 21, 2024
Florida Man: Poems, Revisited by Tyler Gillespie
LGBT Book Reviews

This Recently Expanded Poetry Collection Touches on the Ambivalence of Being Queer in Florida

I’m still learning how to be queer in Florida.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 21, 2024
a collage of lesbian actors including rosie o'donnell, keke palmer, fortune feimster, jodi foster, stephanie beatriz, queen latifah, elviara, jane lynch and jodie foster
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

The 60 Most Prolific Lesbian and Bisexual Women Actors

These are the lesbian and bisexual actors who have appeared in the most television shows and cinema film movies and major theater — and some of these names might surprise you!

Riese March 21, 2024 27 Comments
16 contests in the Brainiacs region
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness 2024: “The Kids Are Alright” Round One — Brainiacs

One Day at a Time’s Elena Alvarez, The L Word: Generation Q’s Angelica Porter-Kennard, Skins’ Naomi Campbell, Buffy’s Willow Rosenberg, Derry Girls’ wee lesbian, and so many other gay nerds are looking for your vote!!

Natalie March 20, 2024 6 Comments
kristen stewart and katy o'brian in bed being hot in a photo by Luke Gilford for THem Dot Us
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Lesbian Entertainment Ranked By Tank Tops and Kristen Stewart Without Pants

Kristen Stewart and Katy O’Brian’s very hot cover shoot, moving on from “Love Lies Bleeding” with a list of other ways to watch lesbians in tank tops, Kristen Stewart using “naked dressing” to make a point, Drew on NPR, Tig Notaro on her new special, Elliot Page’s new project and more!

Riese March 20, 2024 2 Comments
Zoe Lister-Jones' Band Aid: a recent picture of Zoe Lister-Jones with an image from Band Aid behind her in blue.
Movie Features

Seven Years Ago, Zoe Lister-Jones Made the Straightest Movie Ever — Now It Feels Super Gay

Knowing that Lister-Jones will divorce her husband and come out as queer, completely recontextualizes what’s on-screen.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 20, 2024 1 Comment
Liv Hewson in a red vest at the GLAAD Awards
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Liv Hewson Is Happy To Be Gay on Television

Plus, here’s what other queer celebs wore to the GLAAD Awards.

Christina Tucker March 20, 2024 2 Comments
Love and Hot Chicken by Mary Liza Hartong
LGBT Book Reviews

Two Women Find Love in a Quirky Southern Town in “Love and Hot Chicken”

Slow burn romance in a small Southern town gives this queer novel its heat.

Sa'iyda Shabazz March 20, 2024 2 Comments
4 down / 4 letters / clue: WNBA All-Star Game team
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Has Much at Stake

After dinner my wife asked if I could clear the table.

Emet Ozar March 20, 2024
Meryl Streep, Nicole Kidman, and Julianne Moore in The Hours
Movie Reviews

“The Hours” Welcomed Me Into a Lineage of Sapphic Suffering

I watch The Hours whenever I’m sad.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 19, 2024 5 Comments
Health

10 Things That Surprised Me After Top Surgery

I’m six weeks post-op from Top Surgery, and I’m learning a ton. I’m learning more about my body and my dysphoria, my goals for transitioning, and most importantly, life without boobs.

Motti March 19, 2024 8 Comments
two Black women are smiling while asking each other questions on a first date
Dating

50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date

Have you ever seen a ghost or experienced a haunting?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 19, 2024 4 Comments
lesbian with fingers pointed at them and fire and so much
Gender

You Need Help: Everyone Thinks I’m Lying To Myself About My Gender

“If you were to ask me my gender, I’d say ‘lesbian.’ The problem is people in my life will not stop asking me if I’m nonbinary or trans. Everyone keeps asking if I have new pronouns.”

Riese March 19, 2024 8 Comments
Who's Afraid of Gender? by Judith Butler
LGBT Book Reviews

Judith Butler Elucidates Dangers of Anti-“Gender Ideology” Movement, Doesn’t Sufficiently Answer What To Do About It

Why does Butler spend so much time trying to refute these illogical suppositions in the first place?

Stef Rubino March 19, 2024 7 Comments
JoJo Siwa being like HEEEYYYYY
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: So, JoJo Siwa’s Getting Tattoos For Her Already-Named Future Children

A plethora of updates on JoJo Siwa’s future children and new music, Devery Jacobs discusses queer Native representation, Derry Girls’ “wee lesbian” talks mental health and more pop culture news!

Valerie Anne March 18, 2024 1 Comment
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