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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Is Anything Gayer Than a Mullet?

Ranking the best queer mullets in pop culture, a little Lizzo and Whitney Houston, happy anniversary “Love & Basketball,” and here’s what to know about the how far-right media is weaponizing the Coronavirus.

Carmen Phillips April 21, 2020 7 Comments
TV Reviews

“Mrs. America” Is a Feminist Triumph and a Cautionary Tale

Don’t worry, even Cate Blanchett won’t compel you to be attracted to Phyllis Schlafly.

Heather Hogan April 21, 2020 11 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: Practice Career Cocooning

Inspired by a caterpillar, cocooning describes a time when you are forced to wait and prepare for the transformation that is taking place inside you. Thanks to Covid-19, many of us are dealing with career cocoons right now. Here’s how to cope.

Tiara Dee April 21, 2020 13 Comments
First Person Health

How to Quit Smoking

Tell yourself that you’re not like one of those chain smokers, that you can stop whenever you want. Start smoking American Spirits, so it’s like, not even that bad for you because it’s natural, or organic, or something. You forget.

Abbie Jones April 21, 2020 11 Comments
Two Animal Crossing neighbors, one who is brown and wearing a beanie, and one who is white wearing a red beanie, fish together while smiling.
Lesbian Dating Apps

IRL Dating Is Canceled, but Animal Crossing Is Perfect for Cute Queer Dates

Sweetly enough, it’s possible to have a shocking number of cute ass dates on Animal Crossing. I’m lucky to be quarantined with my girlfriend, but we’re running low on date opportunities.

Rachel April 21, 2020 7 Comments
Breakups Love + Sex

You Need Help: Will I Ever Get Over My First Ex or Is Closure a Myth

Closure is a choice — often one you have to make on your own. And it’s absolutely okay to not be friends with an ex.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 21, 2020 8 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box: Quarantine Special Edition

Help! Your girlfriend is quarantined three hours away, your roommate’s partner moved into the apartment during the shut down without your consent, dying your hair before that next work Zoom call, handling an overwhelming group chat, and what to do when you are so alone!

The Editors April 20, 2020 4 Comments
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Autostraddle’s Future Is Your Future, So Let’s Make Plans?

Instead of preparing for doom, I can’t help myself from planning for the utmost beauty and enjoyment, for pleasure and laughter, for sharing stories and connections, regardless of whatever else is happening. Here are the near-future plans I’m inviting you to invest in with me on Autostraddle, during this final stretch of our fundraiser!

Kamala Puligandla April 20, 2020 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: The Risk of Social Distancing, the Risk of Reopening

This week’s Extra! Extra! COVID-19 looks at what’s happened with the stimulus package and protests against social distancing in the US, and how countries the world over are thinking about reopening.

himani April 20, 2020 10 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Watch The Alternate Ending to Kristen Stewart’s Sea Monster Movie and Enjoy it Way More

The trailer for Monica Raymund’s queer murder mystery series is here, Michelle Obama and Julie Andrews will read comforting stories to you, Queen Latifah’s chatting about her lady crushes, and Atomic Blonde 2 is in the works.

Heather Hogan April 20, 2020 10 Comments
Music

Every Fiona Apple Song, Ranked by Existential Despair

“Every single verse of this is like getting clocked in the side of the head with a Yankee candle.”

(Now including new, fresh rankings from “Fetch the Bolt Cutters”!)

Rachel April 20, 2020 27 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes: Taurus Season Offers Comfort, Power, and Deliberate Movement

It may be tempting to cling to familiar habits and routines, to find comfort in the ways we’ve always done things — but don’t be afraid to adapt, to learn, to grow. We have an opportunity, both with this challenging pandemic and this new season of Taurus, to find creative solutions and new ways to work, play, and rest.

meg April 20, 2020 3 Comments
Food Lists

14 Cookie Recipes For Baking a Whole Batch Of Cookies, Then Eating Them All In Two Days

It’s time to stress bake!!!

Riese April 20, 2020 15 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 404: Layup With Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

Here comes the showdown, what goes around comes around dooo doooo doo

Riese April 20, 2020 12 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Hosting Socially Distant House Parties!

Just because we’re socially distant doesn’t mean we can’t party! Support a small queer business and get a cloth facemask, throw a Houseparty, watch a Meryl Streep movie, dance! It’s Sunday!

Ari April 19, 2020 5 Comments
Ruby Riots and Zoie Blackheart
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Supporting Local Sex Shops

How the pandemic is impacting sex shops, what does horny on main even mean anymore, advice on breaking up in quarantine and more.

Ryan Yates April 19, 2020 1 Comment
Webcomics

Reine #7: What Your Quarantine Cut Says About You

It’s been about a month and now your hair has grown. With all the barber shops and salons closed, and with nowhere in public to go, we’re busting out new looks. Here’s what your new choice says about you.

Ren Strapp April 18, 2020 37 Comments
Hattie and Ida kiss under a blanket of nightfall.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “Twenties” Finally Gives Us The Problematic Hookup We’ve Been Waiting For

Plus, Lisbeth is back on Nancy Drew; Scylla wants Raelle to run away with her on Motherland; Rin and Maddie tackle tech on Siren; and Natalie concedes that Shondaland wins again.

The TV Team April 17, 2020 5 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: What the New Normal Means for Voter ID, Democracy and More

This week’s Extra! Extra! takes a look at the state of democracy, the use of the pandemic as an excuse for discrimination and harassment, climate change and more.

the team April 17, 2020 2 Comments
Music

Fetch Those Bolt Cutters, Emotionally Intense Weirdos: It’s Fiona Apple Album Day

Where to begin, really, with this emotional juggernaut during one of the most emotionally intense periods of our collective lives?

Rachel April 17, 2020 22 Comments
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