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TV Lists

The 25 Best Lesbian and Bisexual Dates in TV History

How about a little Valentine’s Day inspiration from your favorite fictional couples?

Heather Hogan February 5, 2019 30 Comments
Issues

Our Father, Who Art

You see, my father was going to Heaven. He was raised an Orthodox Jew, the only child of Victor and Dorothy, but becoming Catholic, this was the way forward for him. He would be saved.

Elizabeth Bird February 5, 2019 20 Comments
Book Features

For Your Consideration: Revisiting The Books You Loved in Middle School

You’d be surprised the kind of memories that can be sparked by a simple phrase or even by the look and feel of a book.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 5, 2019 48 Comments
Breakups Sex

Ex Confessions: A Real-World Guide to Sleeping With Your Ex

This is probably not a good idea. BUT! The body wants what it wants and it’s okay for us to make mistakes sometimes and gosh darnit, if we’re going to do this thing we might as well do it as consciously as we can.

Courtney February 5, 2019 12 Comments
LGBT History

The Rumors Were Enough: Josephine Baker, Frida Kahlo, Their Romance and Me

Maybe Josephine Baker and Frida Kahlo were actually lovers? Maybe they weren’t. What always mattered most was the idea that they even could.

Carmen Phillips February 4, 2019 15 Comments
TV Reviews

“Steven Universe” Saves the World by Facing Trauma, Abuse and Mental Illness With Hope and Heart

“I don’t need you to respect me, I respect me. I don’t need you to love me, I love me.”

Heather Hogan February 4, 2019 10 Comments
Book Lists

68 LGBT YA Books to Get Excited for in 2019

Can you even believe this list has 68 (!!) upcoming 2019 queer YA books? WOW. No matter what kind of LGBT YA you’re into, there is something on this list for you.

Casey February 4, 2019 19 Comments
Issues

Monday Roundtable: What’s Your Age Again?

“I used to lie about my age to get deals off the kids’ menu. Like, why would we pay an extra five dollars when we all know I’m about to get chicken tenders and it’s only an appetizer if I’m over twelve??”

the team February 4, 2019 44 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into One Night Stands

How to have a good one night stand, the shift to yes means yes, queer erotica and more.

Ryan Yates February 3, 2019 2 Comments
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Sunday Funday Is Celebrating the Black Queer TV Takeover

Plus: Queer food culture, Generation Z knows so many nonbinary people, King Princess on our secret history, Pride at Disneyland Paris, and New Jersey becomes the second state to require LGBT-inclusive materials in schools.

Ari February 3, 2019 9 Comments
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Femme Brûlée: Not My Aunt’s Sweet Potato Pie

Given that it’s Black History Month and we’re doing a lot of talk about celebration here since Autostraddle is turning ten, I thought it was only fitting to share a recipe for this pie that’s such a tradition in Black American celebrations.

Reneice Charles February 2, 2019 18 Comments
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Baopu #56: Best Friends

What do best friends do together?

Yao Xiao February 2, 2019 11 Comments
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Boobs on Your Tube: “Charmed” Gets Real With Its Witchy Lesbian Lovebirds

Plus: Gal pals smooching on Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, near queer makeouts on Siren, soft butches in space, Chelsea Handler channeling Bette Porter, and a very sad Shondaland elevator.

The TV Team February 1, 2019 13 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #282: A Couple of Misfit Queer Kids in Matching Black Leather Biker Jackets

Topics include Bryan Singer, toxic YA twitter, Chirstopher Pike, the tell-tale fan, Oscars for racial reconciliation fantasies, sexual assault as male bonding, Lil Tay, Soundcloud rap, sunscreen and more!

Riese February 1, 2019 22 Comments
Politics + Activism

Black Queer Resiliency Will Guide Us Through Black History Month

“I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.” – Audre Lorde

Carmen Phillips February 1, 2019 10 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Crushing On Carmen SanDiego

“I’ve had a crush on Carmen SanDiego’s femme badassery since before I knew what crushes were, and long before I knew I could have them on women.”

Darcy February 1, 2019 14 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I Came Out in a Minivan on the Way to New York, How About You?

Sometimes when we come out, especially after that first time…it’s kind of hilarious.

Valerie Anne February 1, 2019 146 Comments
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Queer Horoscopes for February 2019: Time to Get Romantic with Yourself

February can really hurt. It’s a time when we all need a little extra love. Luckily for all of us lucky queers, we’ve got each other.

Corina Dross February 1, 2019 8 Comments
Issues

What If This Was a Celebration

“I knew if I could exert most of my energy in the painful icy parts of life, I could certainly make my way back to celebrating the good.”

Reneice Charles February 1, 2019 27 Comments
Love + Sex

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Religion & Queerness, Slowly Transitioning, and a New Kitten!

Get in here and get the goods on Kristin’s revamped series! (Get it? Vamped? Like Buffy the Vampi—oh, just get in here.)

Kristin February 1, 2019 2 Comments
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