• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
Nicole, the A+ director, smiles in their garden inside of a triangle design for this feature image. feature image reads: editor's notes
AF+

Editor’s Notes: On 2021’s 13 Days of A+

If anyone ever retrieves the sheet music for “I’m Gonna Sit Right Down and Write My Butch a Letter,” you’ll tell me, right?

Nico December 27, 2021 5 Comments
Yellowjackets 107 screencap of teen Taissa Turner cutting her own hair while looking at the camera
TV Show Recaps

“Yellowjackets” Episode 107 Recap: While Taissa Was Sleeping

A suburban Jersey caper keeps the adult Yellowjackets busy, Lottie sees more of the future, Taissa cuts her own hair, and the woods get wilder.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 27, 2021 84 Comments
Three black and white line drawings of fat bodies enjoying sex appear in white swirls against a background of black and multicolored swirls.
Sex

Positions for Fat Sex in All of Its Holiness

In short, if you know, you know: fat sex is church. Here are some of the positions that have taken me there when I knew I needed to be lifted in prayer.

Cat L. December 27, 2021 11 Comments
Eight photos that represent results from the quiz: Batwoman, Sentinel, The Question, Wonder Woman, Poison Ivy, Thunder, She-Ra, and America Chavez
Quizzes

QUIZ: What Gay Superhero Energy Do You Need for 2022?

Time waits for no pandemic, and so we must march on into January 2022. But I thought maybe you, like me, could use a superheroic reminder of what kind of energy you should be carrying with you.

Heather Hogan December 26, 2021 17 Comments
a group of the first people to create autostraddle, including riese, smiling at the camera from way back in 2009
AF+

Back To The Queer Future #10: Crack The Queer Code!

Can you crack the passcode so Autostraddle can come into existence?

Sally December 26, 2021 5 Comments
Ashley Paige and Ava D'Amore
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is a Love Letter to Queer Sex

Today is the last-ever NSFW Sunday – and a love letter to building a life around queer sex.

Ryan Yates December 26, 2021 46 Comments
Mya the dog, Quasar the Cat, and Carol the Dog are each collaged into this lavender colored feature
AF+

16 ADORABLE Pets of Autostraddle: A 13 Days of A+ Gallery

Well hello there and a happy December 25th! What’s so special about today, you ask? It’s the day we publish fluffy cuties to warm your hearts and eyeballs.

the team December 25, 2021 10 Comments
ARCANE: HAILEE STEINFELD as VI in ARCANE Cr. NETFLIX © 2021
TV Reviews

Netflix’s “Arcane” Is Full of Queer Badasses and Emotional Gut Punches

Arcane was surprisingly deep, surprisingly stunning, surprisingly surprising, surprisingly gay.

Valerie Anne December 25, 2021 10 Comments
Two friends share a bowl of soup and talk about how good t is to catch up together before the new year. The color palette is warm and cozy.
Webcomics

Reine #29: See You Next Year

Getting together at the end of the year over a cozy bowl of soup.

Ren Strapp December 25, 2021 2 Comments
Many illustrated envelopes.
Identity

The Letter I Wrote to Santa This Year

When I was five years old, I knew what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wanted to be a boy. So I decided to write to Santa Claus and ask him to turn me into one for Christmas that year.

zaynksingh December 24, 2021 9 Comments
Desna and Ann stare each other down at the door to the Nail Artisans salon.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: Merry Christmas, Niecy Nash and “Claws” are Back!

Plus an update on Hightown and a run-down of everything our TV Team’s been up to this week!

Natalie December 24, 2021 1 Comment
JoJo Siwa and Katie Mills smiling and laughing
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

JoJo Siwa and Gal Pal Katie Debut Matching Christmas Outfits

JoJo Siwa and Katie Mills have had a big week, from almost getting trampled at an NBA game to wearing matching “Elf” t-shirts.

Riese December 24, 2021 15 Comments
An illustration of a fish-shaped platter holding fish salad
First Person Holigays

Fishy Christmas Eve Traditions

I put a lot of pressure on myself to learn and revel in the customs of “our people,” which meant that I always included a small scoop of the fish salad on mine and then tried to avoid it the rest of the night.

Stef Rubino December 24, 2021 6 Comments
a festive clean but not museum style clean apartment
House & Garden

Notes for a Queer Homemaker: When Company Comes Over

Hopefully these tips make hosting feel more accessible to more people (although, please heed the guidelines of your local health authorities right now about hosting because Miss Omicron is truly everywhere).

Ari December 24, 2021 16 Comments
AF+

Back To The Queer Future #9: Find The Fire Filcher

Can you help root out the mole and ensure the Lesbian Avengers have a successful fire-eating protest in front of the Whitehouse!?

Sally December 24, 2021 2 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Going on a Gay Date with Krampus

“My daily announcement that ‘MARISA TOMEI’ is an anagram of ‘IT’S A ME, MARIO.'”

Darcy December 24, 2021 6 Comments
gorgeous tarot spread on a wood table, includes a notebook and pen, a tarot deck, multiple crystals, and three pulled cards: six of bells, death, and eight of vials
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Simple, Quiet, Personal: An End of Year Tarot Ritual for Forgiveness

I want to invite you to a ritual that’s just for you: one of reflection, illumination, and ultimately, forgiveness.

meg December 24, 2021 7 Comments
Graphic of our most popular posts if the year: L Word recaps, horror trope quiz, basketball romance, masturbation image, he-man, Tig Notaro, March Madness and Olympics
Straddleverse

The 30 Most Popular Autostraddle Posts Of 2021

Believe it or not, there are a lot of quizzes and a lot of gay sports and a lot L Word Generation Q Content on our list of the most popular new Autostraddle posts of 2021!

Riese December 23, 2021 1 Comment
Miranda and Dr. Nya Wallace wait for their table on their dinner date
TV Show Recaps

And Just Like That… Sex and the City Realizes People of Color Exist

YIKES.

Heather Hogan December 23, 2021 7 Comments
A man in a santa suit holds up a rainbow flag in one hand and a balled fist of triumph with a rainbow bracelet in the other
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Santa Really Said 🗣 Stonewall Was a Riot, Never Be Quiet

When Santas stormed Macy’s at the height of the AIDS crisis, the cure for holiday blues, the best sapphic bops of the year (including a playlist!), and congratulations to Gabrielle Korn on her big lesbian elopement!

Carmen Phillips December 23, 2021 5 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 … 1,433 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • Lindsay’s Team Pick: Photographer Alix Smith’s “States of Union”
  • You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Says Offensive Stuff and You Aren’t Sure How to Deal
  • Kaki King Giveaway: Win Two Tickets To Kaki’s Brooklyn Concert

Latest Comments

  • Dana On ‘King of Drag’ Nothing Is Scarier Than Trauma "This is the first time I disagree with you about this show! The content around trauma and the way it…"

  • Dana ‘King of Drag’ Teaches Drag History In Its Best Episode Yet "I love this show so much! I love your recaps too!"

  • Best Salesforce Training in Noida Why Are Straight Christian Modesty Influencers Claiming “Tomboy Femme” Like It’s a New Fashion Trend? "Salesforce has become a time-tested leader in the CRM industry. It is a tool for the comprehensive development of any…"

  • Chase 25 Lesbian Movies on Hulu That You Can Watch Right Now For Fun If You Want "Films like “Blue Jean” and “Carol” beautifully depict not just romance but also the challenges and triumphs within queer communities.…"

Latest Posts

  • A Queer Guide to BDSM Restraints for All Experience Levels
  • ‘I’m Bisexual but Sex With My Boyfriend Makes Me Wonder if I’m Actually a Lesbian’
  • All Aboard, Gays! Gabby Windey Will Host a Reality Dating Show Set on a Yacht
  • Rosie O’Donnell In Blazers, 1992 – 1999
  • Why Are Straight Christian Modesty Influencers Claiming “Tomboy Femme” Like It’s a New Fashion Trend?

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA