Getting in Bed With Kristin: Advice About Meeting New Friends, Falling for Friends and More!
Happy Thanksgiving from Sam the Cat!
A+ Members: Jumpstart Holiday Shopping With 20% Off Autostraddle Merch
We’ve got huge markdowns all over the Autostraddle store right now and if you’re an A+ member, you are REALLY in luck because you’re getting yet another markdown that’ll last all week!
When You Wear An Agbada
“To understand my relationship with this symbol of masculinity, we’ll have to start with my journey of queerness I had no idea I had embarked upon until I was turning 28, the sleeves of my buba — the tailored Agbada shirt — all rolled up to my elbows and my fingers rubbing down on the clit of a girl I had only met a couple of times prior to that moment.”
No Filter: Emily Hampshire and Teddy Geiger Got Engaged So At Least There’s That
Also, Evan Rachel Wood visited an escape room and the Vapid Fluff News Team need your help solving a blind item MYSTERY.
“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 404 Recap: Camp Crush OF DOOM
Sara and Ava go back to summer camp together to try to save missing kids and give Ava some childhood memories of her very own.
Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #22
“All horror is queer culture, as is Halloween as you correctly stated, and the 1970s in general, AND all final girls are queer culture in a very specific way that can only be discussed when you’re extremely high during a full moon.”
“Can You Ever Forgive Me?” Review: Lesbian Biographer Lee Israel’s Story Is Safe in Melissa McCarthy’s Hands
Amazingly, director Marielle Heller doesn’t seem to care if the audience is willing to forgive Israel. She has a better question, one we never ask about lesbians on TV and in film.
For Your Consideration: Weekly Karaoke
Once you start going to karaoke every week, you can process your emotions in real-time via song just like a character in a movie musical.
Nancy Meyers But Make It Gay: Wearing a Chunky Beach Sweater When Your Life Is Falling Apart
Sometimes you just have to let out your inner Connecticut divorcée on a beach.
This Is Literally How We Do It: Lesbian Sex Positions 101
Sex isn’t one thing. It’s a million things. There’s a million ways to have it and there’s a million ways to enjoy it. So get creative, mix things up, and focus on what feels good. Also, scissoring is real. Get over it, haters.
“Supergirl” Episode 405 Recap: Healing Hearts and Taking Names
Alex works with Col. Haley to stop Jensen, while Kara works with Nia interviewing an alien healer.
86 Truly Innovative Ways You Gays Described Your Haircuts
“Occasionally I wake up looking like a teen heartthrob on the cover of Tiger Beat circa 1997, like a Home Improvement-era Jonathan Taylor Thomas”
HBO’s “Sally4Ever” Is Hilarious, Horrifying, Tries to Make Lesbian Toeing Happen
Our Chief Sally Consultant is also here to weigh in on HBO’s new comedy.
Lesbians Got Tattoos First But Now Everybody’s Doing It
Also, watching “The L Word” multiple times makes you significantly more likely to have multiple tattoos. Don’t @ me, it’s math.
Monday Roundtable: Our Worst Haircuts
“I’m adult and I’ve never cried over a haircut before and I don’t usually call my mom when I’m sad or frustrated or mad. She asked to see a photo of it. I sent her one and she asked me if the man hated queers, because this was clearly a hate crime.”
Sunday Funday Is Glad Missy Elliott Is Getting the Praise She Deserves
Missy Elliott is nominated for the Songwriters’ Hall of Fame, King Princess is queer pop royalty, more about that rainbow wave ??, She-Ra, Beyoncé and more!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Up Too Late
Being conscientious makes you better at lesbian sex or any sex; what commitment-phobia is actually about; and cuffing season is cancelled, sorry not sorry.
Femme Brûlée: Balsamic Pomegranate Pumpkin Wedges
Thanksgiving in the US is just under two weeks away which means it’s almost crunch time! Gotta finalize those side dishes, decide how many pies to bake, and start mentally prepping for the moment you confront your problematic family members and hold them accountable for upholding white supremacist structures.
Baopu #53: Blossom Without Shame
I want to be safe and free.
Korean-American Bestselling Author R.O. Kwon Is Bisexual, Has Flawless Signature Eyeshadow
Bestselling author of The Incendiaries is out as bisexual, proud, and giving us big feelings about eyeshadow and representation.