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Into the A+ Advice Box #34: I’m in Love But My Sex Drive Has COMPLETELY Disappeared!

The AS team tackles advice for entering your 30’s (and we’d love to see yours in the comments), as well as advice for a member who’s found their sex drive has disappeared shortly after moving in with a partner, advice on coming out and labels, untangling trauma while exploring sex with your partner, finding boots that don’t make your feet hurt, and more!

the team May 7, 2021 10 Comments
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Society + Culture

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Book Lists

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If you’d like more backstory on the real-life story of Sister Benedetta that inspired this film while you wait for its wide release, or just want more to read about real-life lesbian nuns, this is where to get started.

Rachel May 6, 2021 11 Comments
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TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe “Friends” Was The First Time I Saw Myself On-Screen

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Drew Burnett Gregory May 6, 2021 27 Comments
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Lez Liberty Lit: Cultivate Weirdness

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Ryan Yates May 6, 2021 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Like You, Kate McKinnon Makes Jokes to Deal With Her Own Anxiety

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Heather Hogan May 5, 2021 4 Comments
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Webcomics

Foolish Child #95: Muscle Memory Lapse

My PTSD brain has been evicting memories left and right, I just never thought that would include my muscle memory.

Dickens May 5, 2021
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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 606 Recap: Raining (Meteors) On Prom Night

In Chyler Leigh’s directorial debut, we have a queer woman directing her own lesbian character when she was just a baby gay. You love to see it.

Valerie Anne May 5, 2021 8 Comments
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LIVE QUEER SEX 101 WORKSHOP: Register for How to Have Gay Sex for the First Time with Luna Matatas

This month we have pleasure coach and experienced workshop leader Luna Matatas to teach you everything you need to know about how to have great gay sex for the first time.

The Editors May 5, 2021 8 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Janelle Monáe Posts for “Flysexuals Who Love Tubs Only”

Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris are literally dedicated to ruining my life, the powerful lesbian energy radiating from a midday L Word reunion, and stars are just like us! They also take increasingly silly photos with their cats on their couches!

Christina Tucker May 5, 2021 12 Comments
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Carmen Phillips May 4, 2021 2 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

Tegan and Sara’s “High School” Series from Clea DuVall Is a Go! Scream Loudly If You Must

“No one is more shocked than us, that after a VERY difficult couple of years in high school, doing copious amount of drugs, skipping school, lying and being all around degenerates that we made it this far in our musical journey.”

Carmen Phillips May 4, 2021 5 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Pose” Episodes 301 & 302 Recaps: Coming Home One More Time

Pose has always felt like home; family. So I started this episode in my bedroom, with my roommates who, in true queer tradition, are my family. I thought it was going to feel like it did, two years ago, but it didn’t. I don’t know if it’s the show or me that’s changed, probably both.

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LGBT Book Reviews

“The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend is My Girlfriend” Is a Goddamn Delight

“The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend is My Girlfriend: Advice on Queer Dating, Love, and Friendship” is helpful, funny, aesthetically pleasing, and very very queer. In short? This book is a goddamn delight!

Vanessa May 4, 2021 3 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: How Do I Feel More Connected to the Lesbian Community?

This community would be so boring if we all had the same stories. And there’s no such thing as the “right” queer story.

Valerie Anne May 4, 2021 21 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Hysterical” Focuses Almost Exclusively on Cis White Women in Comedy, and Misses the Mark

Hysterical operates under the assumption that the experiences of women in comedy are universal. But in a documentary that overwhelmingly features white cis women, there’s little room left to explore what comedy is like for women who hold multiple marginalized identities.

Ro White May 4, 2021 4 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Gal Gadot’s Gonna Star in a Queer Sci-Fi Movie Adaptation of “Meet Me in Another Life”

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Heather Hogan May 3, 2021 10 Comments
Legends of Tomorrow recap: Ava Sharpe looks hungover in her punk look.
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 601 Recap: Close Encounters of the Gay Kind

The Legends are back and gayer than ever with a lesbian clone on a mission to save her bisexual assassin girlfriend who was kidnapped by a queer alien.

Valerie Anne May 3, 2021 16 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 212 Recap: It’s the Batsignal, Not a Pager

At Crow headquarters, Sophie is doing that thing you do when you have a crush on someone and you can’t stop thinking about them so you stare at their photo and compare it with a masked vigilante’s and wonder how you never realized they had a secret identity and somehow that makes you love them more.

Nic May 3, 2021 9 Comments
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Relationships

#PolyamoryProblems: How Can I Make My Primary Partner Have More Fun?

Stop trying to make your vanilla partner more kinky!

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