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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Here To Make Friends

Staying friends with an ex, to keep a sluttish house, figuring out sex history, what your sex dreams mean and more.

Ryan Yates April 7, 2019 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

Be The Change: The Art of the Ultimate Letter to the Editor

A letter to the editor can be an effective tactic to get the word out about an issue, show support for a bill, speak up about something in your community, or to get free publicity for your activist work!

KaeLyn April 6, 2019 4 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Sweet 16

You have 48 hours to get your faves to the Elite 8!

Natalie April 5, 2019 19 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: “Charmed” Has More Fully Realized Queer Women of Color Than Any TV Show Ever

Plus updates on episodes of This Is Us and The Good Fight that you’re not going to want to miss.

The TV Team April 5, 2019 23 Comments
TV Reviews

Karen Erases Her Own Bisexuality, Comes Out as Straight in Will and Grace’s Reverse Puppy Episode

It’s Ellen’s iconic coming out episode from 1997. Except the opposite of that.

Heather Hogan April 5, 2019 45 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy National Poetry Month, Let’s Share Our Favorite Poems!

“That’s how I participate in other people’s work. I carry it. The most important poems for us are the ones we carry.” – Ocean Vuong

A. Tony Jerome April 5, 2019 90 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Carolstraddling Into the Sunset

“Don’t c@ me.”

Darcy April 5, 2019 31 Comments
TV Reviews

“Derry Girls” Celebrates Clare’s Lesbianism in One of the Best Prom Episodes Ever

Humor infused with hope is a real gift in 2019.

Heather Hogan April 4, 2019 19 Comments
TV Feature

“Sex Education” Taught Me How to Masturbate

“I wanted to be single so I could explore my sexuality. Instead I was exploring other people’s.”

Drew Burnett Gregory April 4, 2019 21 Comments
TV Reviews

Tara Chambler’s Death on “The Walking Dead” Is More Than Just Another Buried Gay

“Tara Chambler wasn’t just the first openly LGBTQ character on The Walking Dead; she was the first gay woman I had ever seen in any form of zombie horror in my life.”

Jessica Vazquez April 4, 2019 25 Comments
Dating

10 Queers on What’s Made Them Go for the Second Date

“It didn’t work out, even on that second time, but she was really fun and I thought the haiku was inspired.”

the team April 4, 2019 15 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: CBS All Access Wants “One Day At a Time” But Might Not Get It, So You Have That In Common

Topics include the fate of “One Day at a Time,” is Ariana Grande bisexual, finding queer rep on a telenovela, the queerness of Cersei Lannister’s aesthetic transformation, Lisa Simpson is maybe poly now I guess and other pressing stories!

Riese April 3, 2019 4 Comments
Sports

It’s 2019 Women’s Final Four Time — Who You Got?

If this year’s Final Four is half as exciting as last year’s, we’re in for a great weekend of women’s basketball.

Heather Hogan April 3, 2019 20 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 113: Vitamin C

The end of Alice’s season one arc will make you cry, in such a good way, the way The Fosters always did. Plus, the return of The Men Are Trash (But Sometimes Not) Leaderboard!

Natalie April 3, 2019 4 Comments
Music

Songs to Make You Cry in the Grocery Store, as Ranked Compared to “Fast Car”

A selection of emotionally devastating songs I live in fear of having to emotionally process in public without warning at CVS.

Rachel April 3, 2019 172 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Issues

Autostraddle’s Birth Chart, as Interpreted by Chani Nicholas

For the last week of this issue, beloved astrologer Chani Nicholas has graced us with a reading of Autostraddle’s birth chart, looking at what the stars were doing the minute we came into the world and what they’re telling us now.

Chani Nicholas April 3, 2019 10 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Samira Wiley Is Here to Service Your Engine

Also, Hayley Kiyoko is the life of the party, King Princess is serving strong Mommi energy, and lots of your favs do the GLAAD Awards.

Stef April 3, 2019 12 Comments
Politics + Activism

Lori Lightfoot Makes Herstory as the Newly Elected Black Lesbian Mayor of Chicago

Tonight out lesbian Lori Lightfoot was elected as Mayor of Chicago, making her the first black woman and first openly LGBTQ+ person to hold the position. Still, local activists worry she may not lead a new progressive vision for the city.

Carmen Phillips April 2, 2019 19 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Round 2

You have 48 hours to vote for your faves to advance to the Sweet 16!

Natalie April 2, 2019 15 Comments
Dating Pets & Animals

The Truth About Cats and Dogs and Gay Dating

We’re here today to talk about dealing with your crush’s pets, and also dealing with your own pets in the context of your crush!

Rachel April 2, 2019 35 Comments
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