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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #12: I Owe Everything To Being Queer

This week in literature: reading writers you hate, choosing your own adventure, evolving libraries, an interview with Eileen Myles, Gertrude Stein and more.

Ryan Yates January 24, 2013 19 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Kid Appreciation Edition

Teenager comes out to high school class, Boston teens of color stand up to homophobia, 11-year-old girl writes to Obama about trans exclusion and more. By more I mean one other video about kids.

Brittani January 24, 2013 7 Comments
Music

Hear Tegan & Sara’s New Album, ‘Heartthrob’ In Its Entirety

I know, I know, I know.

Crystal January 24, 2013 30 Comments
Queer Fashion

The Style Manual: Fashion Council On Call

Who do you turn to when you know everything there is to possibly know about shirts but STILL can’t find one to fit you? How about the editor of Qwear, two writers from DapperQ and a chick with a fashion degree?

dapperq January 24, 2013 14 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: The Most Beautiful Song in the World

“I just want to know the song that made you say ‘Holy shit… I could die to this.'”

Laura January 24, 2013 247 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Things We Like: Customized Journaling with ‘Bound For Anything’

A travel journal, recipe journal, design journal, whatever you want journal cause you can customize the interior pages journal and I love it.

Alex January 23, 2013 5 Comments
Politics + Activism

“We Support At-Risk LGBT Youth” Deemed “Offensive Language” By Youth Festival

In news from Australia, the City of Parramatta council has deemed a banner promoting Twenty10’s support services for LGBT youth to be “offensive.” What the hell.

Crystal January 23, 2013 7 Comments
Life

Going Down (South): Profiles In Southern Queerness

Being queer is a lot like being Southern. Both identities refuse to be contained by border or stereotype.

fonseca January 23, 2013 48 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Tegan & Sara Hit Magazine Stands While Clea Duvall Hits That And Other Stories We Missed This Week

Karl Lagerfeld says it’s official – we are so in right now!

Carmen January 23, 2013 39 Comments
Food and Drink

Here Are Some Cute Grandmas Showcasing Their Favourite Foods

Italian photographer Gabriele Galimberti carried out my dream job before I even managed to dream it: he travelled around the world visiting cute grandmas and asked them to make him their favourite foods.

Malaika January 23, 2013 24 Comments
Queer Fashion

The Style Manual: The Dress Shirt

Darts and plackets and yokes? You can’t get what you want if you don’t know how to ask for it! We’ve got everything you need to get yourself looking dashing.

dapperq January 23, 2013 14 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: AG

Features a genderbending Beatles cover and an adorable dog named Bowie.

Crystal January 23, 2013 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Gays and Lesbians Rule Las Vegas In New Ad Campaign

Las Vegas: the new gay and lesbian utopia of America.

Hansen January 22, 2013 9 Comments
LGBT History

More Than Words: Drag It Out Of Me

“We’re born naked and the rest is drag”

Cara January 22, 2013 11 Comments
Parenting & Family

Modern Babies Totally Know How Gay And Drunk You Are

Personally, I blame the hit sequel “Heather’s Two Mommies Have Two Kegs Of Miller Lite.”

Riese January 22, 2013 22 Comments
First Person

You Know You’re A Queer Catholic School Survivor If…

22. You can’t decide if you want to be or do your Confirmation saint.

Kate January 22, 2013 149 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Puzzle Pieces and Book Necklaces

Making things tiny and wearable is a recipe for adorable success.

Hansen January 22, 2013 14 Comments
Parenting & Family

Choosing Jonah: A Family History of Abortion, Choice and Love

Sometimes the gulf between my own experience and “typical” parents is the same as that between parents and non-parents. And yet, on a fundamental level it’s also the same joy and the same challenge that we all face.

Kristen January 22, 2013 97 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: No One’s An Expert on Orgasms Right Away

“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”

A.E. Osworth January 22, 2013 44 Comments
Hair

We Were There: Phresh Cutz Pop-Up Barbershop Chopped Some Locks

We did a thing, and people are paying attention, because we deserve it like that. And more importantly: so do you. In case you don’t believe that, here’s a gallery of perfect pictures to prove it.

phoenix January 21, 2013 15 Comments
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