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Book Features

The Book That Made Me A Slut: Andrea Lawlor’s “Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl”

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Drew Burnett Gregory October 7, 2021 9 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Liminal Spaces

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Ryan Yates October 7, 2021 1 Comment
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Webcomics

Foolish Child #105: The Elephant in the Room

Do not the change the subject.

Dickens October 6, 2021 4 Comments
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Dating Podcasts

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Drew Burnett Gregory October 6, 2021 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 614: This Magic Moment

Kara helps Lena embrace her magic and Nia helps her learn it, while the lesbian superduo Guardian and Sentinel team up to protect little Esme.

Valerie Anne October 6, 2021 19 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Weird, My Last Name Translates to “Wife of Chef Melissa King!”

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Christina Tucker October 6, 2021 3 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Black Lightning’s Nafessa Williams Wants to Dance With Somebody (Whitney Houston) in New Biopic

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Nico October 6, 2021 18 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: JoJo Siwa Did Britney Spears on DWTS Last Night, Which Is JoJo’s Gayest Thing Yet

Inside the secretly vibrant business of Porn MP3s, on being queer and Palestinian, and the new dangers of being addicted FaceTune on Instagram

Carmen Phillips October 5, 2021 14 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: I’m A Teen And I’m In Love With My Best Friend

The line between friendship and romantic relationships is very thin, especially for queer people.

Abbie Jones October 5, 2021 9 Comments
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How To Do Fall in Florida (Or Any Other Seasonless, Hot Place)

Making seasonal change in a place where the seasons shift subtly or not at all.

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Heather Hogan October 4, 2021 5 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Titane” Is a Boundary-Pushing, Binary-Breaking Work of Queer Body Horror

Flesh is just another binary.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Wait, “The Morning Show” Got Gay?

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Christina Tucker October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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Movie Features Sponsored

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Abbie Jones October 4, 2021 10 Comments
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First Person

Coming to Terms With My Asexuality as a Black, Non-Binary Lesbian

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Ashleigh-Rae Thomas October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Horror Movie Stock Character Are You?

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NSFW Sunday

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Ryan Yates October 3, 2021 7 Comments
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First Person

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