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House & Garden

The R Word: Advice On Sharing A Space With Other Humans

If you learn to get along with your roommates this’ll never happen to you.

Kristen September 11, 2012 45 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Birmingham, United Kingdom

It’s the second largest and second most populous city in the United Kingdom (the first being London) with over three and a half million people. So obviously it can’t be too bad here!

Sophie September 11, 2012 50 Comments
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Playlist: It Takes Two To Tango

We can duet!

Laura September 11, 2012 17 Comments
Music

New T&S Collaborations to Get Your Quin Fix!

Kristen’s Team Pick: This song will make your pre-A-Camp Tuesday a bit more bearable.

Kristen September 11, 2012 16 Comments
Book Features

Malinda Lo and Behold: The Autostraddle Interview

Malinda Lo spoke with Autostraddle about her new book Adaptation, diversity in YA, gay girls making out, and how much she loves us (spoiler alert: a lot).

Ryan Yates September 11, 2012 28 Comments
First Person

Holding People Up: How An All-Female Acrobat Troupe Saved Me

“There is no better feeling than knowing you can’t do something, just knowing it to the core, and then surprising yourself because you can.”

A.E. Osworth September 10, 2012 36 Comments
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What If? Takes Thought Experiments To The Next Level

Laura’s Team Pick: What if xkcd got just a little nerdier?

Laura September 10, 2012 14 Comments
Geekery

A Whole New World (of Warcraft)

Ladies and gentlebois, this is my coming out: I am a proud, gay, level 85 warlock. And I am here to recruit you.

Tami September 10, 2012 87 Comments
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Real L Word 309 Recap: Perfect Day For This Show To End With A Bang Bang Bang

This week on “The Real L Word,” everybody got married to dolphins!

Riese September 9, 2012 229 Comments
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Sunday Funday Has Never Felt Gayer

Holy shit what a good week.

Carmen September 9, 2012 27 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Just Can’t Wait Six Months

This week on NSFW Sunday: orgasms, casual sex, euphemisms, and dominatrixes.

Ryan Yates September 9, 2012 22 Comments
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Autostraddle Raises $116,645 In 45 Days, What A Wonderful World!

We just wanted to say a few things before taking your money and running off to a tropical island to do some offshore trading and margarita-drinking with the ladies.

the team September 9, 2012 61 Comments
Politics + Activism

Once Upon A Time in Charlotte: The Democratic National Convention Recap

“But we also believe in something called citizenship citizenship, a word at the very heart of our founding, a word at the very essence of our democracy, the idea that this country only works when we accept certain obligations to one another and to future generations.”

Rachel September 8, 2012 26 Comments
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Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: For Shorties And Butch Bridesmaids

How to decide who wear heels when neither of you is The Tall One and break the news that you won’t be wearing a dress.

the team September 8, 2012 41 Comments
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Video Game Roundup: Five New iPhone And iPad Games For Your Gaming Pleasure

I love being able to play games while waiting on line at the DMV.

Whitney Pow September 8, 2012 17 Comments
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Cover Your Naked Walls: DIY Calendar

Craft a calendar to combine your love of counting, colours and being ridiculously cheap.

Kristen September 8, 2012 23 Comments
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32 Hours Of Autostraddle Fundraising Remain, We Hit $100K, Let’s Talk About It!

Laneia, Alex, Laura, Rachel and Bren on what this means to them and lots of overall happiness about reaching $100,000!

Riese September 7, 2012 63 Comments
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Playlist: On Public Transportation Late at Night

You had better not listen to this till it gets dark and you’re going somewhere.

Cara September 7, 2012 8 Comments
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Sophia Wallace Wants The World To Get Cliterate

Vanessa’s Team Pick: Sophia Wallace believes “the world is illiterate when it comes to women’s bodies” but she’s decided it’s time for us all to get Cliterate.

Vanessa September 7, 2012 6 Comments
Friendship

Oh Gay Cupid! Your New Best Friend Awaits

The first installment in Autostraddle’s OkCupid Series! Take a chance, meet some people who simply want more queers in their lives.

Kristen September 7, 2012 107 Comments
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