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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #330: Titanic, Top Chef, Jeopardy, Libraries, Marvel, BookTok and the Fake Sherlock

Topics include a Top Chef oral history, the fake Sherlock, lost Jeopardy tapes, the Costa Concordia disaster, libraries, Bridget Jones, re-watching Titanic, the Marvel Cinematic Universe, fictions from the lesbian archive and so much more!

Riese June 23, 2023 5 Comments
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Beauty Shopping

Sun’s Out, Toes Out: My Favorite Nail Polishes for Summer Pedicures

If you’re looking for some new polish colors for the summer, look no further!

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 23, 2023 4 Comments
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Politics + Activism

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Carmen Phillips June 22, 2023 5 Comments
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Music

“Age of Pleasure” Has a Track For Each Summer Sexy Mood

It feels like fingertips brushing down a jaw or a back; pure seduction.

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 22, 2023 4 Comments
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AF+

Interview With My Ex: MR

“I, too, was a hedonist. I think we still are.”

ashni June 22, 2023 4 Comments
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Sex

Try These Exercises for Better Strap-On Sex

It’s pride month! Let’s get jacked for our favorite sex act with exercises for strap-on sex!

Ro White June 22, 2023 8 Comments
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AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

RIGHT NOW! Log Onto Discord to Chat With Samantha Allen

Ask the author of “Patricia Wants to Cuddle” all about her book!

Nico June 21, 2023 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Megan Thee Stallion Shouts Out Megan Rapinoe in USWNT World Cup Roster Announcement

Aubrey Plaza is a WNBA stan, We Baby Bears nonbinary Pride episode, the trailer for Brandi Carlile’s In the Canyon Haze, and more!

Heather Hogan June 21, 2023 3 Comments
L Word Gen Q, Genera+ion and Willow
TV Lists

17 LGBTQ+ TV Shows Removed From Max, Disney+, Showtime and Hulu

It’s tragic when queer shows get cancelled — but a second layer of tragedy emerges when a streaming network then erases the show from our lives altogether.

Riese June 21, 2023 21 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: The Pickleball Craze Sweeping the Nation Has Found the Gays

Is it because I was raised emotionally by the Slave 4 U music video that I think SLAY every time a photoshoot concept is “wet”?

Christina Tucker June 21, 2023 4 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Blue Jean” Is a Painful and Hopeful Story of a Queer Teacher

There’s a reason teachers have long been a battleground for queer progress — in fiction and in real life.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 21, 2023 12 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: For Lena Waithe, Queen Latifah’s Cleo Was a “Queer Awakening” (Get in Line)

To be Black & queer during Juneteenth, having hot sex during the writers’ strike, and the national monument at Stonewall keeps getting vandalized during Pride month.

Carmen Phillips June 20, 2023 4 Comments
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Recipes

Chocolate Strawberry “Just Because I Can” Cake

An hour. That’s all the time that stands between you and a fudgey, chocolatey, cake that’s just this side of a brownie and a strawberry frosting that tastes like summer itself was bottled into a Barbie pink tube.

Carmen Phillips June 20, 2023 16 Comments
Billie and Ivy sit in a circle in The Lake season two, with Ivy strumming a guitar.
TV Reviews

Already Very Queer Comedy “The Lake” Gets Gayer in Season Two

Billie finds herself in a love triangle full of queer tension.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya June 20, 2023 7 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

TOMORROW! A+ Book Club Chats “Patricia Wants to Cuddle” with Samantha Allen

Queers! Reality TV dating! Sasquatch!

Nico June 20, 2023
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Relationships

You Need Help: How Can I Make Long Distance More Bearable?

Long distance will always be challenging; here are the ways you can strengthen the way you navigate those challenges.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya June 20, 2023 1 Comment
Pageboy by Elliot Page
LGBT Book Reviews

In “Pageboy,” Elliot Page Gets Vulnerable About Gender Dysphoria, Trans Joy, and Much More

Like a lot of millennials my age, I grew up watching Elliot Page’s films and his ascent to stardom

Stef Rubino June 19, 2023 4 Comments
Arike Ogunbowale #24 of the Dallas Wings drives to the basket against Courtney Vandersloot #22 of the New York Liberty at the Barclays Center on June 11, 2023 in the Brooklyn borough of New York City.
Sports

WNBA Week 4: Who’s Hot? Who’s Washed? Who’s the Best Dressed Gay of the Week?

Also, we still need answers on how the league is going to protect BG. Actual answers.

Natalie and Heather Hogan
June 19, 2023 16 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Watch the First Scene of Heartstopper Season 2 Right Now!

Gillian Anderson is happy to have made you gay, checking in with Cheryl Dunye, reintroducing Che Diaz, and more!

Heather Hogan June 19, 2023 2 Comments
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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: There’s No Manual for Navigating Co-Parenting

I know I write about our experience as a two mom family, but here’s the thing: My son has a dad. And he has been sleeping on my couch on and off for the last four months.

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