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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2021: “Knocking” Finds Horror in Gay Grief and Isolation

One of the pleasures — pains? — of consuming art right now is that everything seems to be filtered through our current lens. And it makes this thriller all the more effective and difficult.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 30, 2021 6 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: Vintage Lesbian Poems to Match Vintage Lesbian Kisses on “Dickinson”

Plus updates on: Legacies, S.W.A.T., and All American!

The TV Team January 29, 2021 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: What We’re Seeing on COVID-19 and Accountability So Far from Biden’s Administration

This week’s Extra! Extra! continues to unpack the insurrection while also looking at some of Biden’s actions these last two weeks as president. We look a little more closely at the latest on police accountability, immigration and COVID-19, as well as a smattering of international news.

the team January 29, 2021 16 Comments
Movie Reviews

Sundance 2021: “4 Feet High” Is a Monumental Work of Queer Disabled Media

How can you watch this series and not feel angry with how deprived we are of stories about queer people with disabilities? How can you watch this series and not be delighted with what’s finally on-screen? How can you watch this series and not be excited about all of the possibilities fulfilled and all the possibilities still to come?

Drew Burnett Gregory January 29, 2021 11 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Feeling All Bubbly

“No compensative effervescence is really a pandemic mood.”

Darcy January 29, 2021 10 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Halsey Is Gonna Have a Baby Halsey!!

How tarot cards and queer love are inspiring couture fashion, notes on nonbinary Blackness, poems for the new year, and the pandemic is erasing entire categories of friendship.

Carmen Phillips January 28, 2021 4 Comments
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S L I C K: Raincheck Part 2

Naomi is leaving scratches on my chest, grasping for anything to hold onto while she sits on my face.

Jasmine January 28, 2021 1 Comment
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So You Want to Try Somatic or Movement Therapy

The wisdom of your body is uniquely your own.

Christina Tesoro January 28, 2021 13 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 502 Recap: Is It Just Me Or Were There More Murders Than Usual?

Things I was reminded of while watching this episode: the serial killer gene, cannibal meat pies, and Andy Cohen existing in the Archieverse.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 28, 2021 4 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Inefficient Writing

Trans writing for trans people, “Everybody Else (Is) Perfect” is perfect, your dream job is dead and more.

Ryan Yates January 28, 2021
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Parenting & Family Webcomics

Foolish Child #89: Child’s Play

“What is Gay/Straight Alliance?”

Dickens January 28, 2021 8 Comments
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Lesbian Dating Apps

Dating Download: Three Lesbians Try Bumble and Date On a Deadline

“Bumble gives you two free filters. Usually filtering paidbut I def liked picking and choosing which ones to turn on and off. I fucked around a lot with the star sign and height — I can no longer allow Libras to disturb my peace.”

the team January 27, 2021 10 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Well and Here’s Kristen Stewart as Princess Diana

Ruby Rose will replace Elliot Page in the gamer comedy 1Up, Demi Lovato’s new NBC comedy, Jo Ellen Pellman says Kate McKinnon is her role model, Coronation Street’s Lucy Fallon and Doctor Who’s Peal Mackie star in a new lesbian thriller, and more!

Heather Hogan January 27, 2021 10 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: We Must Look at Sarah Paulson With No Eyebrows Every Time, It’s Gay Law

Hayley Kiyoko nails the gayze, happy birthday to Ariana DeBose, and POV: You are on a bike ride with Sara Ramirez.

Christina Tucker January 27, 2021 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Elliot Page Is Getting Divorced, Another Day in the Books for Love Being a Lie

Yes, some thoughts about Elliot Page’s divorce. And also: Black Sign Language, Andra Day on Billie Holiday (we can’t wait for the movie next month!), and breaking up with white supremacy for good.

Carmen Phillips January 26, 2021 21 Comments
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Breakups Friendship

You Need Help: How Do I Survive My First Breakup to Stay Friends on the Other Side?

Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting the past, but it does require some space to let your brain and heart breathe.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 26, 2021 7 Comments
Movie Reviews

Dee Rees’ “Pariah” Will Still Break You Open and Let the Light Shine Through

Alike is a chameleon, disappearing in the light of her surroundings — purple in the club, green on the bus, pink at home — only ever showing you her profile when she’s forced to be less than her authentic self.

Natalie January 26, 2021 3 Comments
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Take Care of Yourself with 9 Toys Under $50 and $75

Wet For Her has plenty of toys that can take your partnered sex to the next level, but they also have lots that are fantastic for solo play — here are 9 under $50 and $75!

Guest January 26, 2021 3 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

“Everybody (Else) Is Perfect,” Gabrielle Korn’s Debut Essay Collection, Examines the Media World She Helped Create

“Everybody (Else) Is Perfect” is a bold and complicated meditation on media, feminism, and the internet, written from the perspective of a thoughtful and deeply honest insider. It is also very, very gay.

Vanessa January 26, 2021 4 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Batwoman” and “Queen Sugar” Preview Their #BlackLivesMatter Storylines

Lily Singh explores her impact on the internet, the trailer for Black Lightning season four, the highest paid queer celebs, JoJo Siwa is happier than she’s ever been, and more!

Heather Hogan January 25, 2021 3 Comments
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