NSFW Sunday Is Obsessed With Dream Daddy
No surprises there. Plus: how to take perfect thirst-trap selfies, nipple piercing, my mind is blown by the idea of talking to someone on the actual phone, and more.
VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kate Leth: Bisexuality II
Queen of Bisexuality Kate Leth joined me in bed this week and talked about coming out as bisexual at age 11 via Sailor Moon (!!), feeling like you “aren’t gay enough,” bringing straight, cis partners to pride celebrations, and soooo much more. Plus, kittens.
Femme Brûleé: Vegan Chocolate Icebox Pie
I hope I don’t have to tell you to lick the whisk once you’re done.
Some Things: Family
“As a kid, I was always really confused about who my family was…”
Boob(s On Your) Tube: “Queen Sugar” Breaks the Bordelons and Our Hearts
It’s also time to catch up with the women of Claws!
Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #14
“I am so glad I joined A+ (even though it led to me drinking literal vodka water)”
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: The Sunset Is a Lesbian
How was your week? How are your wrists doing? How’s your sleep hygiene? I hope you’re doing swimmingly (and are swimming!) and I want to hear all about it in the comments!
The Comment Awards Have Mia Hamm Above Their Beds
So tell me what you want, what you really really want.
Things I Read That I Love #242: One By One I Am Letting Go Of The Things That Killed Me
Topics include murder, Uber, R Kelly, people getting lost and dying in National Parks, the child molestation scandal on the isolated Pitcairn Island, fast fashion, how Gotham gave us Donald Trump and so much more!
Six Places to Shop for Super Cute Gender-Neutral Kids Clothing
A list of stores that are amazing resources for dressing a gender neutral child.
This Lesbian Made Her Own Dating Website and It Will Blow You Away
Heather says: “I am a good communicator, I have a lot to offer a potential partner/wife and I would love to share my amazing life with someone equally amazing, kind and compassionate.”
Beyond Self-Care Bubble Baths: A Vision for Community Care
If I and other people with certain disabilities are going to survive, we need care — and not from ourselves. Because when it gets really bad for me, self-care is literally impossible. In those moments, I need community care.
Legendary WNBA Superstar Sue Bird Is Gay and Also Dating Megan Rapinoe
Bird, who has remained pretty quiet about her personal life throughout her career, simply told ESPN: “I’m gay. Megan’s my girlfriend.”
Queer Crip Love Fest: Love Is Showing Up
For the final installment of Queer Crip Love Fest, we turn the cute up to 11.
“Daytime Divas” Inspires Happy Tears With Its 8-Year-Old Trans Character and Also Janet Mock
“Just wait, as soon as the cameras start rolling, she’s gonna go all right-wing on her ass.”
Lez Liberty Lit: Dinosaur Flowers
The museum that texts you modern art, What We Lose, what to read, burning your work and more.
Let’s Get Weird: Shapes and Colors
I thought I’d talk on a granular level about living in my particular body. And then, if you wanted to, you could do the same.
Pop Culture Fix: Does This Mean Doctor Who Is a Lesbian?
River Song and Thirteen sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g. Also let’s talk about: That Wrinkle in Time trailer, Wonder Woman’s continued domination at the box office, and American Horror Story: Bees.
Let “New Black Swing” Hypnotize You with Smooth Summer Vibes
“Vibes. It’s all about the energy I share, the energy we share with one another. Whether in public or in private, in romance or otherwise. I think about the deepest times in my life and how I dealt with them through music with a bounce, catchy melodies and poetic sentiments.”
Vivek Shraya’s New Album “Part-Time Woman” Is a Binary-Breaking Love Letter
Shraya’s lyrics tease apart the ways in which trans girls’ emotional lives are drawings rendered in chiaroscuro, the play of light and shadow: The power and relief of discovering one’s identity in private intertwined with the pain of objectification and sexual violence.