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BREAKING: Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson Bought a Sex Bench, Excuse Me, Coming Through!!

“Making Ashley be the one who carries the bench backwards is such a dom move.”

Stef May 29, 2019 29 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Womanizer Premium

Almost everyone I have spoken to who has tried the Womanizer Premium agrees on two things: the name is fucking awful and the device is fucking fantastic. I would agree.

Guest May 29, 2019 17 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Cara Delevingne and Halsey Perform HYSTERICAL Trust Fall In Baggy Menswear!

Also: Ellen Page and a cute dog, Desiree Akhavan channels Bette Porter, Samira Wiley on a throne, Ari Fitz in mesh, Kate Moennig not at The Planet, King Princess in your daddy’s blazer and other pressing dispatches from queer celebrity instagram.

Riese May 29, 2019 17 Comments
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Janelle Monáe Is This Week’s Modern LGBTQ Trailerblazer #WCW

Janelle Monáe is, quite simply, peerless.

Heather Hogan May 29, 2019 9 Comments
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Remembering Stonewall Was a Riot: It’s Time To Meet Up For Autostraddle Pride 2019!

Happy Pride Month, loves. There is no better time than now to care for and about each other, and there is also no better time than now to organize.

Vanessa May 29, 2019 10 Comments
Issues

The Great Angling Lesbian Society: A History of Chicago’s Lesbian Fishing Club

For one group of Chicago lesbians in the mid-1990s, building a queer community meant sitting around a barrel fire in the freezing, rainy April night, casting smelting nets and awaiting a barrage of tiny fish.

Lindsay Eanet May 29, 2019 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix: Booksmart’s Beanie Feldstein is Queer IRL, FYI

Plus: New trailers for new seasons of Claws, Pose, and Jessica Jones; stabby Killing Eve news and interviews; Amber Benson’s playing gay again; Gentleman Jack has been renewed; that murdery lesbian cello Netflix movie, and more!

Heather Hogan May 29, 2019 11 Comments
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Chill or Be Chilled: 10 First Date Ideas for When You Want to Keep It Casual

Coffee and drinks are easy, but why stick to what’s easy? Get creative, but not so elaborate that your date thinks you’re madly in love with them and about to propose.

Courtney May 28, 2019 19 Comments
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“She’s Gotta Have It” Season 2 Finally Gives Nola Darling The Bright Light She Deserves

“If Nola Darling is one of the most famous, even if uncomfortable, black queer women in pop culture – what does it mean for us that nearly everything about her is so closely tied to the man who created her?”

Carmen Phillips May 28, 2019 6 Comments
Issues

On the Hunt

My hunting experiences from youth to adulthood, in relation to my life as a black, queer woman of color.

Taylor M. May 28, 2019 7 Comments
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Kristen Arnett’s ‘Mostly Dead Things’ Is a Funny, Dark Story of Messy Queer Love (also, Taxidermy)

Mostly Dead Things is the story of what happens to a young woman when her life is torn open and reset in a different pose, and how she deals with herself — and her queerness — as a part of that confusion soup.

Molly Priddy May 28, 2019 9 Comments
Food and Drink

For Your Consideration: Eating Seafood With Your Hands

Over the past four years, I fell in love, traveled many places, had my heart broken, unraveled. I also ate a lot of seafood platters. Here are some of them.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 28, 2019 22 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 57, May 2019

“can we call lesbian visibility day lesbian brigadoon”

Riese May 27, 2019 34 Comments
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Queer Your Ears May 2019: New & Upcoming Releases from Queer & Trans Artists

I feel like we have some deeper, more interesting, more contemplative stuff here at Queer Your Ears this month.

Abbie Jones May 27, 2019 10 Comments
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“Killing Eve” Is Going to Keep Murdering Us

The season two finale came the closest the show ever has to giving us what we want. But what do we want?

Drew Burnett Gregory May 27, 2019 27 Comments
Book Features

The Perfect Queer Poem: For Defining Your Boundaries

The line breaks are hard to take. They make the poem feel like a fight: not knowing when to stop, talking over one another, losing your thread, gasping for air through tears.

Natalie May 27, 2019 7 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 108: L’Ennui

Y’all, Jenny is about to take her tights off and we are so here for it!

Riese May 27, 2019 13 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Celebrating Lizzo’s Hallelujah Moments

We’re settling into Gemini season with gay rodeos, news about the Aladdin remake, trans commercials to make you weepy, Pride collabs, gay rodeos, and more!

Ari May 26, 2019 5 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Practicing French Kissing

A French kissing refresher, censored queer sex ed, ballon fetishes, masturbating without using your hands and more.

Ryan Yates May 26, 2019 3 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Rainbow Sugar Cookies

How about a sugar cookie-filled Pride?

Reneice Charles May 25, 2019 14 Comments
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