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Sarah Fonseca can't-stop-won't-stop rambling about the intersection of queer and Southern identity. Her work has appeared in Diverse Voices Quarterly, The Q Review, Off the Rocks, and Other Lesbian Entertainment Sites that we don't talk about here. Fonseca is a 2k12 Lambda Literary Fellow in nonfiction.

Why Grey's Anatomy's New Story Arc Is A Pretty Big Deal

Because lesbian and bisexual characters now have longer shelf lives, network TV is beginning to go beyond the same trope-tastic story arcs.

January 30, 2013

Going Down (South): The Gospel of The Southern Divas, Part I

I’m about to take ya’ll to church, where — every once in awhile — everything is gospel and nothing hurts.

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January 23, 2013

Going Down (South): Profiles In Southern Queerness

Being queer is a lot like being Southern. Both identities refuse to be contained by border or stereotype.

January 16, 2013

Going Down (South): On Taking Your Sweet Time

Everything is slower in the South. I’m (slowly) realizing that this includes progress.

January 15, 2013

Read A F*cking Book: Laura Szumowski's 'Tip of the Iceberg'

This tiny book is anything but your mother’s health education book.

January 14, 2013

The Guardian Impressively Talks About Gay Sex By Not Talking About It

In a recent Guardian article, British journalist and author Nick Cohen put on his whimsical ally cap and attempted to tackle an age-old question: Why are straight people so darned invested in what gays do in bed?

January 04, 2013

'The Lives They Lived' Includes Sally Ride And Other Legendary Queers

The exhaustive list of legends lost in 2012 includes many American artists and scientists, as well as one Costa Rican you’ve probably never heard of (but will be glad you did).

January 02, 2013

Going Down (South): The Sass Manifesto

Sticks and stones may break your bones, but good sassin’ will knock you out for a week.

December 26, 2012

Going Down (South): Strapping It On

Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is only an effective strategy if you have boots to begin with.

December 19, 2012

Going Down (South): Midnight in the Garden of Marriage Equality and Hate Crimes Laws

Georgia’s got a hot new lesbian in her legislature and she’s at the helm of some pretty progressive policies.

December 14, 2012

Movie Night: My Girl

This week, we are celebrating all things awkward and charming, like middle-aged morticians, make-up artists with drag sensibilities, adolescent tomboys and their wimpy male partners-in-crime, not to mention the overprevalence of denim button-downs in the 1970s.

December 12, 2012

LGBT Retirement Homes Step Up in Response to Homophobia and Mistreatment of LGBT Elders

With support for gay equality at an all-time-high and the focus on an aging generation of baby boomers, our LGBT predecessors are finally getting the much-needed care they deserve.

December 12, 2012

Going Down (South): Here Comes Honey Boo Boo Child, Southern Progressive Icon

Actually, I love the image that comes from being from the same state as the Honey Boo Boo Child herself.

December 04, 2012

Going Down (South): Home Is Where The (Queer) Heart Is

What can we stand to learn from a self-described ‘misfit’ living in rural Louisiana in the 1950s?

November 28, 2012

Four Spring/Summer 2013 Runway Trends That Are Worth Following (Right Now)

It’s not 2013 yet, but you’re gonna want it to be when you see what’s just pranced down the runway.

November 26, 2012

Poetry is Dead's Queer Issue Speaks Directly To Your Heart

Despite its tongue-in-cheek name, Poetry is Dead Magazine’s Queer Issue is pleasant evidence to the contrary.

November 14, 2012

Your Parents Might Need This: Advice on Coming Out Over the Holidays

It’s likely that your parents are mulling over their own special set of holigay related dilemmas.

November 11, 2012

Laurent Cantet's Foxfire Adaptation Looks Great (Even Without Angelina Jolie)

16 years after the original film, Foxfire is getting a reboot at the hands of French director Laurent Cantet. Think riot grrrl, but with saddle shoes.

November 07, 2012

In God We Trust: Gay Kids, Religion, and Group Homes

A gay man in Florida reports being abused at the hands of his Christian group home. However, this is only the start of Florida’s problems with religion and the foster care system.

November 02, 2012

Playlist: Swedehearts

There must be something in the lingonberry jam and kaffebröd, as Sweden has given us so much great pop music in the last four decades.

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October 26, 2012

Fonseca's Team Pick - Leah Horlick

Leah Horlick is an ass-kicking, award-winning Canadian poet who is taking the queer literary world by storm.

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October 25, 2012

Queer Girl Hairstory: Our Hair's Not So Straight Either Part 3

Remember what it felt like to finally stop wishing you were straight? Well, we’re in the same boat. Only this time it’s not us we’re talking about, it’s our hair.

October 22, 2012

Queer Girl Hairstory: Our Hair's Not So Straight Either Part 2

Remember what it felt like to finally stop wishing you were straight? Well, we’re in the same boat. Only this time it’s not us we’re talking about, it’s our hair.

October 17, 2012

This Is A Melissa Harris-Perry Appreciation Post

Raised in Virginia by a formerly Mormon White mother and a Black father employed in academia, Harris-Perry’s life is as layered as the points she’s so damned good at making.

October 16, 2012

Queer Girl Hairstory: Our Hair's Not So Straight Either Part 1

Remember what it felt like to finally stop wishing you were straight? Well, we’re in the same boat. Only this time it’s not us we’re talking about, it’s our hair.

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