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Comedy Health

F*ck It All Fall

Let’s do it, queers. Let’s embrace our seasonal chaotic energy and manifest it into long-term, healthy decisions!

Em Win October 16, 2023 6 Comments
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Vegan Protein Powders, Ranked From Vulgar to Chuggable

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Mey October 9, 2023 20 Comments
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Be the Queer Aunt You Wish to See in The World

My relationship with my nibling made me understand how important it is to continue living my queer life out loud.

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 9, 2023 6 Comments
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Riese October 8, 2023 15 Comments
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How to DIY an “A League of Their Own” Halloween Costume

With some creativity and planning, you can put together a Rockford Peaches costume that’s fun and versatile.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 6, 2023 9 Comments
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Halloween

How to DIY a “Yellowjackets” Halloween Costume

A little fake blood goes a long way with these cannibalistic gay group costume ideas.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 3, 2023 9 Comments
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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: Why I Never Put Anyone in My Family “First”

To me, the concept of anyone being “first” in a family feels weird. We all have a hierarchy of needs, right?

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Halloween

Spirit Halloween Animatronics, Ranked By Lesbianism

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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: 10 Things I’ve Learned in My 10 Years of Motherhood

9. There will never not be laundry.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 18, 2023 8 Comments
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I’m Queer, Single, Uncertain About Kids, and Freezing My Eggs

We can’t have it all at the same time. Feeling grief doesn’t mean you made a wrong decision. It means you made a decision.

Julia Smith-Eppsteiner September 7, 2023 8 Comments
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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: Tips for Navigating Back-to-School Time for LGBTQ+ Parents

Establishing a good relationship with your child’s school when you’re a queer parent is incredibly important.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 6, 2023 7 Comments
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10 Gay Things to Do to Warm-Up For Halloween

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Heather Hogan August 30, 2023 1 Comment
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Queer Mom Chronicles: How Do We Engage With Queer Mom Influencer Culture?

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Sa'iyda Shabazz August 21, 2023 6 Comments
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Book Features Queer Pregnancy

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Endometriosis No Longer Keeps Me From My Best Queer Sex

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Guest August 15, 2023 11 Comments
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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: What’s Up with TV for Kids?

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Parenting & Family

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Parenting & Family

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“Mom, why do people have s-e-x?” my son asks, stopping me dead in my tracks.

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