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Valentine’s Day Cards For Queer Women, Pt. 2

Send a little cutie to your cutie.

Erin February 14, 2018 19 Comments
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You Need Help: Is It Normal to Feel Sexy When You Gain Weight? (Yes)

“There’s nothing better than finding out the way you love your body the most, and you’ve done that. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or weird for that.”

Mey February 14, 2018 24 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T-Rex: My Mom Says We’re Exactly The Same

I wasn’t at all ready for the feelings I’d have about being adopted and queer and raising a toddler who still isn’t as old as I was when I came to the United States on an airplane.

KaeLyn February 13, 2018 64 Comments
Valentine's Day

Kristen Kish’s New Cookbook Helped Me Wine and Dine My Valentine and So Can You

“I almost fainted when I tasted it. Do I really need to say more? Go get this book, make everything in it, and proudly display your new membership to the Kristen Kish fan club this Valentine’s Day.”

Reneice Charles February 12, 2018 12 Comments
Parenting & Family

Y’All Need Help #20: First Admit That You Don’t Know Yet

What should you do about a baby’s pronouns, how do you and your girlfriend both propose to each other, and how do you stop holding a candle for an idealized past? Come on in!

Laneia February 10, 2018 41 Comments
Travel

Weekender: Jamestown, CA and Big Trees State Park

In and around Jamestown you can see 2000-year-old trees, llamas, an allegedly haunted B&B, and a lot of stuff that’s generally cute as fuck — it’s a great place to do the lesbian thing of taking a weekend trip with someone you’ve been dating for five days!

Abbie Jones February 9, 2018 14 Comments
First Person Travel

Why I Got Off the Pacific Crest Trail After 454 Miles Instead of Walking All the Way to Canada

I stopped hiking the Pacific Crest Trail in 2017 because of toxic masculinity and bro culture in the hiking community. It exists, it’s shitty, and it fucked me up.

Vanessa February 5, 2018 111 Comments
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Health

Winter Gym Class: CrossFit, for Those Who Want It All

This workout has it all—cardio, weightlifting, rowing, kettlebells, and more—and you can do it indoors. It’s the perfect activity to get you through the winter weather and beyond!

Katrina February 5, 2018 14 Comments
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Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Gift Guide For Even Hotter Lesbian Sex, If You Can Believe It

Sometimes Valentine’s Day is a patriarchal capitalist scam and sometimes you just want to eat some candy hearts and buy balloons and make out and unironically get into it.

Guest February 1, 2018 10 Comments
Health

9 LGBTQ People Speak Out About Pre-Menstrual Dysphoric Disorder

The following are stories from LGBTQ people living with PMDD — how it manifests for us, what helps and what doesn’t help, and any challenges or opportunities we have found in seeking help. 

Creatrix Tiara January 31, 2018 24 Comments
Beauty Health

6 Over-the-Counter Eczema Treatments I’ve Tried, Ranked From Worst to Best

A rundown of the more effective products I’ve tried, plus some common treatments that just did not work.

Siobhan January 26, 2018 27 Comments
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Health

Winter Gym Class: Learn to Play Basketball, the Gayest Sport of All

Yes, basketball is fun to watch (it helps that so many WNBA players are just dreamy). But it’s also fun to play! This edition of Gym Class will help you figure out which position you’re best suited for, learn the proper set up for shots, and try out some practice drills solo or with a partner.

Katrina January 22, 2018 11 Comments
Health

Winter Gym Class: Get In, We’re Going Snowshoeing

Welcome to the Winter edition of Gym Class! Get outside and enjoy the season with snowshoeing. It’s suitable for most fitness levels and it’s best to snowshoe with a partner, so it makes a great winter date!

Katrina January 15, 2018 2 Comments
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Health

Gym Class: A Beginner’s Guide to Gym Workouts

This Gym Class will help you get comfortable at your local fitness center. Read on for information on weight machines, free weights, bodyweight work, and combining all three in a workout tailored just for you.

Katrina January 8, 2018 28 Comments
Holigays

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD & ROUNDTABLE: It’s Gonna Be A Happy New Year!

We’re over New Year’s resolutions – here’s what we’re looking forward to in 2018. What about you?

the team December 30, 2017 98 Comments
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POST-HOLIDAY MERCH SALE: 20% Off Everything In the Autostraddle Store

You deserve it.

Sarah December 26, 2017 5 Comments
Holigays

OPEN THREAD: Another Year, Another Christmakwanzakah

Can we just put on holiday themed pajamas, sit by the fire place, and open gifts together? The gift can be a conversation or a hug or a puppy, I’m not picky.

Vanessa December 24, 2017 70 Comments
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Holiday Gift Guide: Last Minute Subscription Boxes for Last Minute Babes

If you’re a last minute giver, give the gift that keeps on giving with these groovy subscriptions!

Ari December 19, 2017 4 Comments
Holigays

Four Things We Can All Learn from Queering Kwanzaa

Spend the last days of the year with queer community celebrating Kwanzaa this year.

Ari December 19, 2017 4 Comments
Christmas Shopping

Holiday Gift Guide: For the Queers in the Kitchen

It would be the sweetest thing to gift your culinarily skilled loved ones with new swag for their kitchen.

Reneice Charles December 17, 2017 6 Comments
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