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Can I PURR-SWADE you???

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I’m really excited to talk about much of a total babe you are all weekend long.

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“Own it, grrl. The world is getting queerer and queerer, and all the big businesses that refuse to acknowledge that are in their death throes. Your time is coming. Follow your heart. Do what you love. Start now.”

Beth February 11, 2016 6 Comments
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10 Love Poems by Queer Poets for Your Queer Valentine’s Day

Have some love poems by queer & lesbian poets along with your Hallmark cards and chocolates.

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“First everybody chews spaghetti really loud.”

Riese February 5, 2016 39 Comments
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Riese February 3, 2016 16 Comments
Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: Plumber Hattie Hasan and Her Army of Female Tradespeople

“About half our plumbers are lesbian or bisexual, but that is by accident, not design. We think that women living outside the dominant box are probably more likely to also work outside of it.”

Beth January 28, 2016 36 Comments
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Itty Bitty Valentine’s Day Gift Committee: Small Things for Your Gal or Your Pal

Enamel pins, yes, but also so much more! Come get some ideas for tiny small Valentine’s Day gifts for your little heart thief and/or best friendo.

Laneia January 26, 2016 45 Comments
Money + Work

You Need Help: You Want the Job, But Don’t Feel Qualified

I’ve been on both sides of the hiring table. I’ve been the one applying for a job and the one interviewing job applicants. Here’s what I’ve learned.

KaeLyn January 25, 2016 46 Comments
Money + Work

This Business Of Art Fix #20: A Headline With The Word “Naked” In It

Topics include celebrity clickbait, the National Magazine Awards, the truth about the public interest in quality journalism, the end of Al Jazeera US, foods that boost productivity and more!

Riese January 20, 2016 15 Comments
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“I’ve got anxiety, and lots of it. When my grandma sends me a Facebook message asking me to call home, I know everyone I love is dead. I know at least three serial killers live under my bed.”

Heather Hogan January 14, 2016 79 Comments
Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: Hot Tips From Queer Entrepreneurs to Inspire Your Business in 2016

Will this be the year you finally quit that job and launch your own project? Or the year you plan to up your game in your existing business and outshine all of your competition? Wherever you’re at, let these awesome queer entrepreneurs inspire you to follow your own arrow in 2016.

Beth January 14, 2016 15 Comments
Community Travel

Get Out There: Ramble On, ‘Straddlers

I really hope that these challenges have helped inspire you to love your city and to realize that it’s a growing, ever-changing location.

Melissa Langley January 8, 2016 5 Comments
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NEW YEAR’S OPEN THREAD: What’s 2016 Gonna Be All About For You?

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Community Holigays

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Riese December 26, 2015 5 Comments
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I Made Tamales With My Mom for Christmas; Here’s How You Can Too

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Mey December 21, 2015 23 Comments
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