9 Sensual Gifts You Can Get for Your Own Damn Self This Valentine’s Day
Whether you’re single or partnered, you’re allowed to get yourself the gift of a little Valentine’s Day treat.
How To Make Valentine’s Day Cards for Your Friends
We’ve been through shit, and sometimes we need to thank the people who got us through it.
New Guidelines on Childhood “Obesity” Represent Latest Big Pharma Attacks on Fat Kids
The weight loss industry — not necessarily the act of weight loss in and of itself — is extremely fatphobic and anti-fat.
Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
Practical Magic: How to Take a Decolonial Approach to Educating
We must build a world in which the model for education is holistic, liberating, and guarantees that each student is valued.
8 Coping Hacks For the Neurodiverse Baddies
Needless to say, I own a few slimes.
What Brought You Joy This Year?
This is a New Year’s Eve Roundtable and Open Thread Situation!
Practical Magic: How to Nourish Your Body When Executive Dysfunction Has Other Plans
There’s a saying they mention when feeding babies: “fed is best.” That principle’s not just for babies, my friends!
Holigay Quiz: Which Christmas Monster Should You Date?
Listen. We can’t *all* date Krampus.
Eight Queer Cozy Baking Mysteries I Wish Existed
So I made them up.
Christmas Traditions, Ranked by Lesbianism
Caroling is gay.
Actually, These Are Christmas Movies, Too!
Think of these movies more as a cozy fireplace with stockings hung on them, rather than a Christmas tree lit up in the center of the room.
Hanukkah Lights From the Disabled Community
Creating new rituals and ways of expressing and celebrating Judaism is nothing new within our tradition — all that’s needed is some creativity and care.
Three Stages of Never Ever Doing Holiday Meals the “Right” Way
Holiday meals have always been mired in conflict for me.
Eight Ways To Spell ‘Hanukkah,’ as Regulars at Your Local Bar
There are many ways to spell Chanukah, and they’ve all got their own personality. Just for kicks, I imagined eight of them as people at an LGBTQ bar.
Quiz: What Should You Do When Your Family Stresses You the F*ck Out Over the Holidays?
Don we now our gay apparel, for we! Can! Do! This!
10 Cute Couple Things I Imagined Javicia Leslie and Jojo Gibbs Doing in “Something From Tiffany’s”
Sapphic wives in a new Christmas movie? Yes! Now make them the main characters!
So You Want To Go to a Holiday Party
We’re gonna close out the year and wrap up our new romcom protagonists, all in one!
A Quest for the Perfect Gingerbread Bake To Serve This Holigay Season
I chose four new to me recipes — a gingerbread cake, gingerbread rolled cookies, gingerbread drop cookies, and gingerbread bars — and am here to report back.
Quiz: What Queer Holiday Romance Should You Read?
We have been blessed this year with so many queer holiday romances that I just had to make a quiz to help you decide which one to read.