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Health

You Need Help: After Sexual Assault

“How do I deal with an assault that wasn’t rape? How can I keep from feeling like my assault is being minimized?”

Kate December 3, 2012 31 Comments
Christmas Shopping

Holigay Gift Guide 2012: History Buffs, Campaign Nerds and Political Junkies, Oh My

Not everyone’s sick of politics just because the election’s over. Here’s what to get those people who aren’t to hold them over until 2014.

Rose December 3, 2012 20 Comments
Christmas Pets & Animals Shopping

Holigay 2012 Gift Guide: Animals and The People Who Love Them

It’s gifts for your pet, gifts for your friends’ pets, gifts for your friends who love pets and even a gift for your imaginary future girlfriend (who will have a pet)!

Carmen December 1, 2012 39 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: “Things I Read That I Love” Edition

Books and magazine/journal subscriptions for people with a special affection for longform journalism!

Riese November 30, 2012 14 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Bookworms and Thrift Shops

Maybe you met a cute girl at the vegan feminist potluck, and you’re hoping you two can go on a worm-compost shopping date followed by a discussion on our fossil fuel addiction over a nice kale salad. Maybe you want to give her a gift. We have suggestions for you!

Malaika November 30, 2012 8 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Music Lovers

We love music lovers, and probably you do, too. Here are some musical gifts you can give them that aren’t actually music!

Crystal November 29, 2012 13 Comments
Health

How About We Stop Criticizing Amber Riley’s Body, My Body, Your Body

“Hollywood is a very hard place to be in. It really is. Being the person I am, you know, the size I am, being a woman, being a black woman, there’s not a lot of roles for us.”

Malaika November 27, 2012 43 Comments
Christmas Shopping

Holigay Gift Guide: Funny Grrl

A gift guide for people that like to laugh but aren’t presented with the opportunity nearly enough.

Brittani November 27, 2012 22 Comments
School

College Lesbianage Class of 2016: Halloween, Snow and Elections, Oh My!

The lesbianagettes are as busy as ever. This time, they’ve got rugby, crazy weather, trips to new york, and a bunch of pictures from Halloween parties.

Lesbianage November 26, 2012 20 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: 59 Awesome Gifts For Book-Lovers (Besides Books)

An epic assortment of games, accessories, totes, posters, notes, gizmos, housewares, kitchen things, apparel and so much more for the bookworm on your list.

Riese November 26, 2012 47 Comments
Coming Out Thanksgiving

You Don’t Have To Come Out On Thanksgiving: On Going Home and Being Quiet

My grandma shoved 30 dollars in my hand once and told me, “Always tell the truth about who you are and know we’ll love you anyway.”

Carmen November 24, 2012 74 Comments
Christmas

10 Black Friday Deals You Can Get In On Without Getting Off Your Ass

Skip Best Buy and relish in cool deals from retailers like ModCloth, OpenSky, Torrid, Babeland, Topman, Utrecht Art, Autostraddle and Love & Pride.

Riese November 23, 2012 7 Comments
First Person Holigays

I Hate Black Friday: This Queer Is Staying Home

The exploitation of love, anxiety and poverty are the driving force behind another made up moneymaking holiday. ‘Merica!

gabby November 23, 2012 48 Comments
First Person Thanksgiving

The Secret Diary of a Turkey-Fister

“As it turned out, stuffing turkeys on the graveyard shift was a bonding experience that could not be transcended.”

Crystal November 22, 2012 27 Comments
Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving OPEN THREAD: Feel And Eat Your Heart Out

I mean, not literally. But tell us about your heart and tell us about what you’re eating, you know?

the team November 22, 2012 119 Comments
Thanksgiving

Please Don’t Volunteer On Thanksgiving: A Former Shelter Worker Tells All

“On the day before Thanksgiving, the day after and the 362 other days of the year (including Christmas) hardly any volunteers, well known or not, showed up to help.”

Ren November 21, 2012 81 Comments
Food Lists Thanksgiving

19 Horrifying Thanksgiving Dinner Ideas From Vintage Food Ads

It wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without Frozen Jellied Turkey Vegetable Salad!

Riese November 21, 2012 56 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Get Baked: Thanksvegan Extravaganza

This year we decided to skip the Tofurkey and try a few new things, with delicious results.

Stef November 21, 2012 14 Comments
Thanksgiving

25 Awesome Gay Things To Be Thankful For This Year

Eleven months ago, there was still a possibility of Rick Santorum becoming President, so don’t say 2012 never gave you anything.

Hansen November 21, 2012 14 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Get Baked: Vegan Pumpkin Cheesecakes and Vegetarian Tofurkey For Thanksgayving

Who doesn’t love a tiny pumpkin cheesecake that fits in the palm of your hand and smells like autumnal bliss? Plus a delicious buttery tofurkey!

the team November 20, 2012 17 Comments
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