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Itty Bitty Valentine’s Day Gift Committee: Small Things for Your Gal or Your Pal

Enamel pins, yes, but also so much more! Come get some ideas for tiny small Valentine’s Day gifts for your little heart thief and/or best friendo.

Laneia January 26, 2016 45 Comments
Money + Work

You Need Help: You Want the Job, But Don’t Feel Qualified

I’ve been on both sides of the hiring table. I’ve been the one applying for a job and the one interviewing job applicants. Here’s what I’ve learned.

KaeLyn January 25, 2016 46 Comments
Money + Work

This Business Of Art Fix #20: A Headline With The Word “Naked” In It

Topics include celebrity clickbait, the National Magazine Awards, the truth about the public interest in quality journalism, the end of Al Jazeera US, foods that boost productivity and more!

Riese January 20, 2016 15 Comments
Health

The Top 11 All-Natural Things That Help Me Calm The F*ck Down

“I’ve got anxiety, and lots of it. When my grandma sends me a Facebook message asking me to call home, I know everyone I love is dead. I know at least three serial killers live under my bed.”

Heather Hogan January 14, 2016 79 Comments
Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: Hot Tips From Queer Entrepreneurs to Inspire Your Business in 2016

Will this be the year you finally quit that job and launch your own project? Or the year you plan to up your game in your existing business and outshine all of your competition? Wherever you’re at, let these awesome queer entrepreneurs inspire you to follow your own arrow in 2016.

Beth January 14, 2016 15 Comments
Community Travel

Get Out There: Ramble On, ‘Straddlers

I really hope that these challenges have helped inspire you to love your city and to realize that it’s a growing, ever-changing location.

Melissa Langley January 8, 2016 5 Comments
Money + Work

This Business Of Art Fix #20: Those Early Days Were Terrifying

Stories include Gawker’s affiliate marketing payout, Vice Media maybe being a bunch of lies, the early days of Vox, why pageviews won’t die despite being useless, a new podcast from Issa Rae, a robust Businesswomen’s special and more!

Riese January 6, 2016 12 Comments
Holigays

NEW YEAR’S OPEN THREAD: What’s 2016 Gonna Be All About For You?

In 2016, we’re giving ourselves permission to do stuff we wanna do, on our terms, for ourselves. How about you?

the team December 31, 2015 233 Comments
Community Holigays

POST-HOLIDAY AUTOSTRADDLE MERCH SALE BLOWOUT! TREAT YOURSELF!

EVERYTHING IS ON SALE! Discounts of 20% – 60% store-wide! We’ve got ‘zines, flasks, sweatshirts, hoodies, t-shirts, crop tops and so much more!

Riese December 26, 2015 5 Comments
Christmas

OPEN THREAD: Get In Here and Spend Christmakwanzakah With a Bunch of Queermos

HAPPY HOLIGAYS TO ALL, AND TO ALL SOME REPLIES!

Carmen December 24, 2015 320 Comments
Money + Work

This Business Of Art Fix #19: In The Future, Everybody Will Be Famous For 15 Dollars

Topics include being both YouTube famous and broke, Nieman Lab’s predictions for journalism in 2016, the year’s funniest media corrections, productive things to do while job-hunting, a new website for conservative women, LGBT folks and people of color, and moar!

Riese December 23, 2015 6 Comments
Christmas Recipes

I Made Tamales With My Mom for Christmas; Here’s How You Can Too

For me, making tamales is a way for me to connect with my mother, to feel like her daughter, and to take parts of herself that she’s passing down and make them a part of myself.

Mey December 21, 2015 23 Comments
Money + Work

Top 12 Corporations Who Lured Us In With Their LGBT Ads in 2015

The 1% really pulled on our heartstring with these ones.

KaeLyn December 18, 2015 38 Comments
Holigays Shopping

Big Primpin’: Faux Fur Toppers To Keep You Warm and Fabulous

Some might say that faux fur gets a little… flamboyant but I say f**k the haters.

Lydia O December 17, 2015 13 Comments
Christmas

10 Imaginary Lesbian Christmas Films to Grow Your Holigay Heart Three Sizes

“Janeane Garafalo stars as Helen, who considers herself a witch first and lesbian second.”

Erin December 17, 2015 47 Comments
Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: Artist, Activist and Academic Miyuki Baker Wants to Do It All

In this inspiring and hilarious interview, Miyuki introduces us to her life as a continuously-evolving process of creation and discovery, and what it’s like to live solely off your art. (She also shares pictures of the tiny house she built, which are amazing!)

Beth December 17, 2015 4 Comments
Community Travel

Get Out There: Looking for Brunch, Coffee, and Queers In All the Right Places

“The drinks were flowing, the fake snow machine was blowing and I was giving my dollars away for a good cause. All was right in the world.”

Melissa Langley December 17, 2015 2 Comments
Christmas

19 Best Subscription Boxes For Last Minute Gifts That Continue Giving At Periodic Intervals

We’ve got so many boxes! Boxes for geeks, beauty queens, chefs, pet-owners, spa-lovers, artsy folks and those in need of more toilet paper.

Riese December 16, 2015 38 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide 2015: Movies, Books, Music & Media with Quality Trans Representation

We still have a long way to go when it comes to trans representation in pop culture, but the gifts in this guide are a solid step forward for trans equality.

Mey December 15, 2015 5 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Stylish Gifts for Fashion-Forward Friends

You’ve hit that spot on your list. The one friend/sibling/significant other who is so goddamn fashionable it hurts. Together, we’ll find the perfect “I can’t BELIEVE you knew!” present.

Lydia O December 15, 2015 10 Comments
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