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Holigays

Alex’s Team Pick: FoxDesignBrooklyn’s Gay Valentines Day Cards

Valentines Day is lame, but these cute (AND GAY!) cards from Susanne Fox at FoxDesignBrooklyn (via Etsy) save the day.

Alex February 4, 2011 7 Comments
Health

Healthcare Reform Update: Well, Sh*t, I Guess We’re Going To The Supreme Court

Healthcare reform goes to Washington! Because a judge in Florida ruled it unconstitutional, and you know what that means.

Rachel February 1, 2011 22 Comments
Money + Work

Professionally Queer: Good News/Bad News About Gays and Lesbians in the Workplace

Times are hard, but no one knows better than the gays that if you work for it, things can get immeasurably better. Here’s a snapshot of what the job market looks like for us right now, and why we feel better about it than straight people do.

Rachel January 25, 2011 22 Comments
Health Shopping

What’s Good At Walgreens

Rite-Aid ate my heart. Also part of my head for real. It’s time for a beauty bar / medicine cabinet overshare and open thread!

Riese January 24, 2011 241 Comments
Travel

Rachel’s Team Pick: GOGO Festival Looks F*cking Fantastic, You Should Go

Hey UK Autostraddlers, what are you doing in June, roughly the weekend of the 17th? Because, just saying, the answer could be “partying with Uh Huh Her and Heather Peace and basically every other lesbian ever.” Just wanted to throw that out there.

Rachel January 24, 2011 17 Comments
Health

Oh My God What Just Happened With Obama’s Healthcare

In which we try to understand what is going on with healthcare/Obamacare/caring in general, and conclude that it is generally advisable to make sure we take our multivitamins and wash our hands frequently.

Rachel January 21, 2011 57 Comments
Travel

Advocate Ranks Gayest US Cities , F*cks Up, Excludes NYC & LA, Upsets the Internet

US Cities that are gayer than New York City, Los Angeles, Provincetown, and about 50 other gay cities include “Vancouver, Washington,” Orlando and Pittsburgh!

Riese January 13, 2011 82 Comments
School

Lily’s College Lesbianage #11: Life Plans, Cuddling – A Jedi Craves Not These Things

“Also, my brother has a haircut that makes him look like a lesbian. He looks like a lesbian who looks like Justin Bieber. It’s pretty exciting.”

Lily January 12, 2011 49 Comments
School

Science For A Brighter Future: Research On Bullying and Gay Teen Suicide

We all know that bullies and homophobes, from the locker room to the Senate, are part of why gay and lesbian teens (and adults) have such ridiculously high rates of suicide. But when a panel of 26 leading researchers back it up, we may finally be on the way to changing things.

Rachel January 10, 2011 17 Comments
Health

Let’s Not Be Shy: How to Feel Better About Talking to Other Humans

“When you’re feeling shy, it’s easy to think that everyone else is a total master of social interaction whose life is basically a neverending parade of back-slapping and bonhomie. But, about 40% of people say they’re shy.”

Jezebel January 7, 2011 72 Comments
Holigays

New Year’s OPEN THREAD and “Resolution” Party

Are you (thinking about maybe) changing your life in 2011? Tell us about it.

the team December 31, 2010 248 Comments
Holigays

Christmakwanzakah Open Thread: For All Your Homo-Holiday Feelings

Really hope I get a fingerbox for Christmas.

the team December 24, 2010 554 Comments
School

How to Deal with Dropping Out of College Or Other Non-Traditional Life Courses

From one in-between half-adult trying to figure out “the real world” to another, here are ten steps to coping with being a college dropout.

phoenix December 21, 2010 105 Comments
Christmas Food and Drink

Get Toasted with Autostraddle: A Very Special Holiday Drinking Edition

Eight holiday drinks! One for each night of Hanukkah! Which is already over but don’t let that stop you from celebrating. Later on we can hunt for Easter eggs. What? I don’t know. Aren’t excerpts fun? I learned how to say ‘cheers’ in German!

Laneia December 20, 2010 60 Comments
School

Why Did Someone Spill Urine on 40 LGBTQ Books in the Harvard Library?

Someone poured urine over nearly 40 LGBT books in a library in Harvard. First it was classified as a hate crime, then it was classified as an accident, and either way, it’s weird.

Ryan Yates December 16, 2010 43 Comments
Holigays

Lessons Learned: How a Jewy Lesbian Can Enjoy a Pleasant Chanukah with Her Uncharacteristically Bigoted Parents

Dad: Let’s light the candles.
Me: Let’s light your face.

Amy York Rubin December 14, 2010 47 Comments
Parenting & Family

My Two (Lesbian) Mums

Look at the cute British lesbian couples and their children! Also, do you have two moms or two dads? We care. More inside.

Riese December 13, 2010 51 Comments
Christmas Shopping

Best Headphones for the Holidays: Headphone Shopping Guide #2

Quality headphones make an excellent gift, either for yourself or someone else. Here are a few that we can recommend with complete confidence. Hmm what’s that? I can’t hear you I’m listening to Kaki King ON MY FANCY HEADPHONES.

Crystal December 7, 2010 41 Comments
Jewish Holidays

8 Hot Lesbian Jews: On The… Fourth? Night of Hanukkah, It Was Sunday Funday

Did we remember to spell Hanukkah consistently throughout this post? There’s only one way to find out!

Rachel December 5, 2010 30 Comments
Health

How to Find a Therapist

FEELINGS. We have them. You have them. We often need to talk about them, with a professional. Here’s how you can, too.

Jezebel December 3, 2010 53 Comments
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