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Pluribus Episode 4 Recap: AI Doesn’t Know What Makes Art Good

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She Thinks We Should Leave Brooklyn for Our Kids

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We’re approaching the final days of 2025, and somehow that finish line feels like the end of five years rather than a single one.

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The Mighty Nein’s Lesbian Monk Is Just One Great Reason To Watch

No one will be able to walk away from this season not knowing Beauregard Lionett is gay as hell. She’s also COOL as hell.

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Quiz: Which ‘Wicked’ Character Are You?

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54 Christmas Movies With Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer or Trans Characters

In a world once lacking Christmas movies with lesbian, bisexual, queer women and non-binary characters, the tides of the North Pole are shifting, and we’ve got a great list of LGBTQ+ Christmas movies for you!

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‘My Girlfriend’s Anxiety Around Intimacy Is Killing the Vibe’

“I feel like she’s putting pressure on herself bc she’s more masc, but I’ve told her I’m not expecting anything and just want to have fun together whatever that looks like.”

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