Queer Women and Leather: A Culture Clash That Has Nothing to Do With Veganism
An understanding of the leather community can help us co-exist, share spaces and celebrate all of the different ways to live queer lives.
Mutual Masturbation Is a Very Underrated Lesbian Sex Act and You Can Too
Mutual masturbation isn’t a sexual cop-out — it’s actually a truly fantastic sexual activity.
How to Have Strap-On Lesbian Sex
You’ve got your harness. You’ve got a dildo to use with it. So what happens next?
Shibari 101: Hogtie
Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!
A+ Sex Diary: Fucking and Napping
Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature for Silver & Gold members in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: A single, soft butch writer openly dating multiple people. Lesbian, 32, the American west.
25 NSFW Sex Collages Inspired By Your Queer Erotic Imaginations and/or Lesbian Sexual Fantasies
You came to “Sexing the Collage Cherry” and boi are your arms tired.
Shibari 101: Leg Tie
Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!
Juno Roche’s Queer Sex Is an Argument for Erotic Empowerment
Queer Sex, a collection of interviews with trans and non-binary folks on sex, love and intimacy, is a map to erotic empowerment. In this excerpt, author Juno Roche explores her fears, hopes and erotic potential.
Shibari 101: Basic Chest Harness
Here’s a tutorial for how to make a basic shibari chest harness!
How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman
Sex between someone with a penis and someone with a vagina gets a lot of representation, but not when the penis-haver is a woman. Here’s everything you need to know about lesbian sex with trans women who have penises.
Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
Why Lesbian Shower Sex Is Like Dante’s Inferno (And How to Make It Suck Less)
Everything you need to know about how to have lesbian shower sex, including positions, tips, how to avoid falling into the ninth circle of Dante’s Inferno and more.
“The Gift” Is Young M.A’s Gift to Lesbian Porn
Young M.A directed a porn and well, it’s porn!
You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated
You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have sex while respecting your history of trauma, here are some tips!
How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Do With Your Clit
Every body has a history; yours doesn’t preclude you from pleasure. Go forth and jam!
10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting
Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.
How To Eat Ass
Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.
How To Have A Lesbian Threesome
Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.
You Need Help: Is It Normal to Feel Sexy When You Gain Weight? (Yes)
“There’s nothing better than finding out the way you love your body the most, and you’ve done that. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or weird for that.”