How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Do With Your Clit
Every body has a history; yours doesn’t preclude you from pleasure. Go forth and jam!
10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting
Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.
How To Eat Ass
Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.
How To Have A Lesbian Threesome
Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.
You Need Help: Is It Normal to Feel Sexy When You Gain Weight? (Yes)
“There’s nothing better than finding out the way you love your body the most, and you’ve done that. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or weird for that.”
How To Have Lesbian Period Sex
Here’s how to live your patriarchy-smashing lesbian period sex vampire dreams.
Lesbian Fisting 101
Fisting is my number one favorite penetrative queer lesbian sex move. Fisting is AWESOME. Here’s how to do it right.
25 Pictures Technically Not of Lesbian Sex According to Stock Photography
“I realized all the lesbian sex photos were hiding where they usually do: in Close Female Friendship City.”
How To Give (Or Get) a Strap-On Blow Job
Strap-on blow jobs are subversive and super hot. Learn how to give or get one right here.
You Need Help: When Strap-On Sex Leaves (Accidental) Bruises
Strap-on sex shouldn’t leave any bruises unless you want it to.
What Are Dental Dams, and How Do They Work?
Why dental dams are the safer sex tool no one gives a shit about, and why it’s time to start.
How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)
It took be months to bring myself to ask the question I’d wanted to ask since coming out: How am I supposed to have sex if I hate my genitals?
A+ Roundtable: Misconceptions About Lesbian Sex
There was a time before time, in the yawning abyss of darkness and starfire that is the infinite and ever-expanding universe — a time before any of us had had lesbian sex. Most of us thought about it, though, or tried to imagine how it would work! We were not always correct.
You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain
The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.
How I Learned to Navigate Vaginismus as a Lesbian
“This is what happened for me: I started crying as soon as I put my legs into the stirrups.”
“Do Fingers Count?” Vulvodynia, Medical Heteronormativity and Me
Doctors agreed about what kind of sex I should want to have, and how much pain and inconvenience I should be willing to endure to have it.
You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants
Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.
You Need Help: What To Wear To A Kink Party
What to wear when you don’t want to channel Leather Mommi Barbie.
A+ Roundtable: What Makes You Good In Bed?
“I’m a Scorpio, this is kind of what we… do.”