“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”
Gather ’round, queers, and let me tell you the tale of The Christmas Flogger. It is a tale of how my girlfriend and I negotiated, bought and learned to use our very first flogger.
“When there are so many of these unhealthy ideas floating out there, it can be really challenging for many of us to fully understand and embody healthy sex, which from our perspective, relies on consent, equality, respects, trust and safety.”
“Sex education should tell people how to explore what they want, not just that they should explore.”
“She is often horny after working out. I’m often horny after drinking while she is working out, so we are a perfect match.”
Safer oral sex is healthier, sexier, and is likely to improve the quality of your life in general.
There is a “New York Magazine” issue dedicated entirely to boning. Did you know? And guess what? It’s not entirely about heterosexuals in missionary position–there are so many more perspectives than that.
“Sex with a woman for me has involved pressing mound of Venus against mound of Venus on each other’s leg.”
Your parents don’t know what to say, your girlfriend wants to take things slow, and also you’re a virgin who can probably drive.
Nikki Hearts loves Mötley Crüe, her girlfriend, and taco trucks. Also, she’s really cute and makes porn!
“I keep asking her for more, more, more, until her fist is 98 percent inside of me. I’m not happy with myself for not being able to take the last 2 percent.”
Lesbian sex in bathrooms brought to you by heterosexism.
As part of NSFW Sunday’s All-Tied-Up Month, Autostraddle talks with ridiculously prolific bisexual erotica author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel on writing, editing, and BDSM.
Straight BFF wins Straight Girl of the Year Award, we discuss vulvas, strap-ons and your girlfriend’s flaws. With special bonus feelings from MKO and Riese!
Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!
In which we discuss sleeping with a girl who’s never had an orgasm before.
This Just In: I’m a Lesbian Pillow Princess, I Married a Lesbian and “My First Time”!
Want to check the mimicry between you and your romantic interest? There’s an app for that.
“Sleeping Around: a new column documenting my sexual conquests, emotional bitch-slaps, carnal fumbles, and relationship follies.”
For when you ‘like her’ like her.