Top Five Ways To Restrain Your Sex Partner (NSFW)
If you’re into that kind of thing, restraining people is a super-fun sexual activity! Here are five ways to do it.
This is What Sex Ed Looks Like in My Queer Feminist Utopia
“We’re all normal, as long as we are having sex in ways that are consensual, risk-aware and injury free. Our bodies? They’re normal too. Beautiful, even. That should be the core concept in any comprehensive sex education, in my opinion.”
You Need Help: So You Want To Try Being A BDSM Top
“It’s like a magic confidence talisman, that blindfold is.”
OPEN THREAD: Give Us The Gif That Describes Your First Queer Sex Experience
Let’s get Monday off to a triumphant start by gaying the fuck out with some gifs, you sexy beasts.
Five Crash Pad Episodes To Help You Celebrate This Queer Feminist Porn Sale
Get 18% off at Crash Pad today and then watch these five videos!
Listling Without Commentary: Very Unsexy Things We’ve Said Or Heard During Sex
“You’re like my little fetus.”
You Need Help: Vulvas Taste Like Vulvas
If you’re nervous you won’t like vulva taste, this post is for you.
Moving Beyond “Lesbian Bed Death” And Bridging The Libido Gap
Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?
8 Chapstick Combos Guaranteed To Make Making Out Even Better
I think I have something you can do that will be fun, tasty and get you hella made out with. It involves flavored chapstick. I have your full attention now, right?
5 Fisting Tips For A Happy (Belated) International Fisting Day!
Because every day should be International Fisting Day.
Listling: Most Hilarious Synonyms For “Vagina”
“4. Beaver cake.”
Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up
How to tie someone up when you don’t know how to tie someone up.
The Single Queer’s Guide To Meeting Someone To Have Sex With
Where to go and what to do when you want to ditch that vibrator and find a good helping hand.
How To Have Lesbian Sex 102: Cunnilingus Edition
We are going down… on vaginas.
Team Pick: “All About Anal” Video Series
The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health has your back.
Mira Bellwether and “Fucking Trans Women” Zine: The Autostraddle Interview
“When one of my lovers said that she wished she had an instruction manual for my body, I took that and responded to it pretty literally.”
Unchained NYC: Flogging, Spanking, and Dommes, Oh My!
“I just need to hit you with this,” said the woman at the door. She held up a rubber stamp and I held out my hand. “Well, not hit you hit you. But it is that kind of party.”
You Need Help: Telling Someone How To Sex You Up
Fortunately, people DO come with a user manual, you just have to verbally speak it into existence.
Erotica: Handcrafted Bamboo
There was a small pile of sex toys already on the bed, but the drawer was far from empty. “This is a flogger that I made from reclaimed bike tubes,” she said, pulling out a wicked little thing and tossing it onto the bed beside me.
On Sex Positivity: My Weirdo Feelings About Lesbians Reacting to “Lesbian” Porn
There is not a right way to have lesbian sex. There is not a queer hierarchy. There is simply safety and the things you like to do in bed.