Moving Beyond “Lesbian Bed Death” And Bridging The Libido Gap
Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?
8 Chapstick Combos Guaranteed To Make Making Out Even Better
I think I have something you can do that will be fun, tasty and get you hella made out with. It involves flavored chapstick. I have your full attention now, right?
5 Fisting Tips For A Happy (Belated) International Fisting Day!
Because every day should be International Fisting Day.
Listling: Most Hilarious Synonyms For “Vagina”
“4. Beaver cake.”
Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up
How to tie someone up when you don’t know how to tie someone up.
The Single Queer’s Guide To Meeting Someone To Have Sex With
Where to go and what to do when you want to ditch that vibrator and find a good helping hand.
How To Have Lesbian Sex 102: Cunnilingus Edition
We are going down… on vaginas.
Team Pick: “All About Anal” Video Series
The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health has your back.
Mira Bellwether and “Fucking Trans Women” Zine: The Autostraddle Interview
“When one of my lovers said that she wished she had an instruction manual for my body, I took that and responded to it pretty literally.”
Unchained NYC: Flogging, Spanking, and Dommes, Oh My!
“I just need to hit you with this,” said the woman at the door. She held up a rubber stamp and I held out my hand. “Well, not hit you hit you. But it is that kind of party.”
You Need Help: Telling Someone How To Sex You Up
Fortunately, people DO come with a user manual, you just have to verbally speak it into existence.
Erotica: Handcrafted Bamboo
There was a small pile of sex toys already on the bed, but the drawer was far from empty. “This is a flogger that I made from reclaimed bike tubes,” she said, pulling out a wicked little thing and tossing it onto the bed beside me.
On Sex Positivity: My Weirdo Feelings About Lesbians Reacting to “Lesbian” Porn
There is not a right way to have lesbian sex. There is not a queer hierarchy. There is simply safety and the things you like to do in bed.
Super Girly Top Secret Erika Moen: The Autostraddle Interview
In which Erika Moen, the mastermind behind DAR! and Oh Joy, Sex Toy, tells us to go have a wank.
The Kink Panel Has Some Kinky Resources For You
The Kink Panel wanted to give you guys all the resources so you can follow along at home.
Erotica: The Story of Two Girls In Like With Each Other
How dare I fall for the signature move when I’ve heard about it countless times over Chinese food?
Masturbation Memory Lane: Roundtable and Open Thread
Autostraddle staff talks anonymously about when they started masturbating, among other things. Join us, won’t you?
You Need Help: Let’s Talk About (Having More) Sex
“Am I allowed to tell my girlfriend that I would like to have sex more often? If so, how?”
You Need Help: The Quest For Awesome Queer Feminist Porn
“I’d like to see if porn does anything for me, would you have any (ethical, lesbian) recommendations for the first try of a young adult with an eye for the femmier?”
You Need Help: Real Talk About Your First Strap-On
“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”