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Happy International Fisting Day! Here’s Some Willfully Misinterpreted Lesbian Poetry

Because every day should be celebrated with sexy lesbian poetry.

Ryan Yates October 21, 2014 17 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has Body Issues And You Want to Initiate Sex

If you wait until your girlfriend with body issues is feeing just really attractive and good about herself to approach the idea of sex, you are, sooner or later, going to stop having sex together. Period.

Ryan Yates October 16, 2014 33 Comments
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Rebecca Kling and Chicago’s Early to Bed Say “Trans Women + Sex = Awesome”

Chicago’s feminist sex shop has published a well-written guide to getting down for trans women and their partners, written by Rebecca Kling.

Mari Brighe September 15, 2014 21 Comments
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The Kind of Sex We’re Talking About Today, Part Two: Toeing

“Then you think, ‘It’s so funny. We’re toeing.’ It’s funny and then you laugh and feel happy. “

Laneia September 5, 2014 32 Comments
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How To Have Lesbian Sex: Anal Edition

The only barriers I want when I have anal sex are safety related.

Yana September 3, 2014 36 Comments
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It Appears I Have Joined A Special Masturbation Society

“Almost immediately Linda is convulsing, and getting red in the face, and moaning in a way I’ve never heard a lady moan before. Little short bursts of air. She is making spirit fingers in the way I imagine they are meant to be done.”

Hannah Hodson August 21, 2014 49 Comments
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When It Comes To Orgasms, Research Shows Lesbians Are Tops

A new report from the Kinsey Institute shows that lesbians are more likely to have orgasms than straight women, and less likely to be unable to orgasm.

Mari Brighe August 20, 2014 28 Comments
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Only The Truest Thing You’ll Read All Day: Lukewarm Girl-On-Girl Action

“Suddenly, her interlaced hand is being shaken up and down and all around, causing her snap-button Western shirt not to slide off her shoulder at all because it’s all buttoned up.”

Laneia August 4, 2014 23 Comments
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The Kind Of Sex We’re Talking About Today, Part One: Sploshing

Wherein we further discuss the sex we were already discussing today.

Laneia July 28, 2014 51 Comments
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You Need Help: She Is Going Down For 15+ Minutes

Making love means never having to say you’re sorry.

Riese July 16, 2014 37 Comments
Sex

5 Ways To Try Out Kinky Headspace for Beginners, Experts, and Everyone In Between

How to play with that kinky infinite-floaty space that seems boundless and fills our heads with the same thing as chocolate and wine.

Sinclair Sexsmith June 27, 2014 44 Comments
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You Need Help: Here Is A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex

Download it, print it out and go bananas.

A.E. Osworth June 19, 2014 40 Comments
Sex

Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up By The Ankles

How to tie someone up by the ankles when you don’t know how to tie someone up.

Ryan Yates May 23, 2014 8 Comments
Sex

Let’s Talk About Sexting: A Roundtable

Sometimes a sext is just a sext, and sometimes it’s something else entirely.

Ryan Yates May 22, 2014 40 Comments
Sex

16 Food-Related Euphemisms For “Female Masturbation”

Sometimes a peach is not really a peach.

Ryan Yates May 6, 2014 21 Comments
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16 Animal-Related Euphemisms For Cunnilingus

“8. Anything to do with clams, really.”

Ryan Yates April 29, 2014 18 Comments
Sex

30 Sexy Dinosaur Facts For When You Can’t Think of What to Say in Bed

If you’ve ever thought, “I really wish I knew some super sexy dino facts,” this is definitely the list for you.

Mey April 19, 2014 50 Comments
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Scarleteen and Its Awesome, Inclusive Sex Ed Are At Risk, But You Can Help

Scarleteen has been a trusted resource for all things sex and relationships for 16 years, but they need to be paid for their work to keep going.

Maddie April 14, 2014 6 Comments
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Top Five Ways To Consensually Hit Your Sex Partner (NSFW)

What to use to slap, spank, flog, paddle, hit and more.

Ryan Yates March 30, 2014 10 Comments
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“Porn Studies” Is Fucking Rad

The first academic journal about porn just launched and it’s pretty important.

Ryan Yates March 27, 2014 8 Comments
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