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Issues Sex

Listling Without Commentary: Things Women Said About Lesbianism In The 1976 Hite Report on Female Sexuality

“Sex with a woman for me has involved pressing mound of Venus against mound of Venus on each other’s leg.”

Riese June 26, 2012 87 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Possible Pube Panic, Taking It Slow, and Parents Just Don’t Understand

Your parents don’t know what to say, your girlfriend wants to take things slow, and also you’re a virgin who can probably drive.

Laneia June 26, 2012 53 Comments
Sex

Queer Porn’s Nikki Hearts Is Living Her Dream: The Autostraddle Interview

Nikki Hearts loves Mötley Crüe, her girlfriend, and taco trucks. Also, she’s really cute and makes porn!

Mila June 24, 2012 19 Comments
Sex

NY Mag’s Queer Poly Lady Sex Diarist Has A Lot Of Actual Sex, Goes There

“I keep asking her for more, more, more, until her fist is 98 percent inside of me. I’m not happy with myself for not being able to take the last 2 percent.”

Riese June 18, 2012 24 Comments
Sex

Public Sex is My Radical Sex

Lesbian sex in bathrooms brought to you by heterosexism.

Isabelle Nastasia March 11, 2012 274 Comments
Sex

Writing Dirty With Rachel Kramer Bussel: The Autostraddle Interview

As part of NSFW Sunday’s All-Tied-Up Month, Autostraddle talks with ridiculously prolific bisexual erotica author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel on writing, editing, and BDSM.

Ryan Yates February 12, 2012 5 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Four Special Questions

Straight BFF wins Straight Girl of the Year Award, we discuss vulvas, strap-ons and your girlfriend’s flaws. With special bonus feelings from MKO and Riese!

Laneia December 27, 2011 38 Comments
Sex

How Many Girls Want Girl-on-Girl Action?: A Sophisticated Statistical Analysis

Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!

Riese December 22, 2011 34 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: So She’s Never Had An Orgasm

In which we discuss sleeping with a girl who’s never had an orgasm before.

Rachel December 19, 2011 38 Comments
Sex

Much Ado About Having Sex With Lesbians

This Just In: I’m a Lesbian Pillow Princess, I Married a Lesbian and “My First Time”!

Riese December 13, 2011 54 Comments
Sex

The Language of Getting You Laid

Want to check the mimicry between you and your romantic interest? There’s an app for that.

Brittani December 8, 2011 30 Comments
Sex

Sleeping Around #1: “Why I’m So Easy”

“Sleeping Around: a new column documenting my sexual conquests, emotional bitch-slaps, carnal fumbles, and relationship follies.”

Cosette October 30, 2011 136 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Sex Meets Feelings, Has Feelings About It

For when you ‘like her’ like her.

Laneia October 21, 2011 19 Comments
Sex

You Need Help (ON VIDEO!): You Want to Want Her But You Don’t

Haviland Stillwell and Riese answer your wanting to want sex with her question on video, with special guests Marni & Ashley!

Riese October 3, 2011 16 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Fake Orgasms and Potato Soup, Sorta

How to stop faking orgasms and start being honest about how you like your damn soup.

Laneia September 27, 2011 37 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: Autostraddle is Legally Sexy

“This week’s topic is a smorgasbord of the law and sexuality inspired by Autostraddle!”

Queerie Bradshaw September 3, 2011 12 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Being a Chick Who Wants to Bang Her Co-Worker

Advice about dating your co-worker.

Laneia August 29, 2011 32 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: On the Legality of Stripping and Burlesque

This week we focus on scantily clad people inside strip clubs and burlesque halls.

Queerie Bradshaw August 28, 2011 15 Comments
Sex

How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent

I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.

Carmen August 26, 2011 66 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: All About Scantily Clad Women

“The laws surrounding what you can and cannot show of your own body in public are so complex and convoluted that I could not even begin to cover them all in a single blog post.”

Queerie Bradshaw August 21, 2011 55 Comments
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