You Need Help (ON VIDEO!): You Want to Want Her But You Don’t
Haviland Stillwell and Riese answer your wanting to want sex with her question on video, with special guests Marni & Ashley!
You Need Help: Fake Orgasms and Potato Soup, Sorta
How to stop faking orgasms and start being honest about how you like your damn soup.
Ethics of Lust: Autostraddle is Legally Sexy
“This week’s topic is a smorgasbord of the law and sexuality inspired by Autostraddle!”
You Need Help: Being a Chick Who Wants to Bang Her Co-Worker
Advice about dating your co-worker.
Ethics of Lust: On the Legality of Stripping and Burlesque
This week we focus on scantily clad people inside strip clubs and burlesque halls.
How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent
I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.
Ethics of Lust: All About Scantily Clad Women
“The laws surrounding what you can and cannot show of your own body in public are so complex and convoluted that I could not even begin to cover them all in a single blog post.”
Do Women Like Sex, Or Just Sexual Economics?
Debate is raging about the economics of sex versus women’s desire — but what does it mean for lesbians?
I Spoke to 2,500 Sluts on Saturday: Why We Need to Start Talking About Consent, Sex Ed, etc.
Slutwalk DC: “I was standing right in front of the Washington Monument. My name tag said “Carmen (Fucking) Rios,” and I had cut my shirt into a crop top tank top, and I was still wearing my aviators. Then I gave a speech and I want to share it with you.”
The Ethics of Lust: Your Dildo Might be Illegal
“With all these dildos piled high around me, I think it’s a good time to discuss the laws surrounding the purchasing of sex toys.”
You Need Help: Bottoms Up and Helping Your Girlfriend
Can a top be a bottom without selling her soul? And how to talk to a partner who isn’t what she used to be.
How to Have Lesbian Sex Tips from NSFW Sunday
~6-7 of you think you know a thing or two about lesbian sex, the rest of you probably do too, everyone should read this
The Politics of Lesbian Sex: Before, During, After
Before sex, during sex and after sex. Sex, sex, sexy sex.
Courtney Trouble Wants to Turn You On: The Autostraddle Interview
Where the hell had Courtney Trouble been all my life?
Effing Dykes Presents: What Lies Beneath (Her Fingernails)
Krista from Effing Dykes has a cautionary tale of lesbian sexy for you. Are you ready? I don’t think you’re ready.
Gay Sex is More Evolved Than Everything Else, Ever
You think that’s hard? You know what’s hard? Being a lesbian-sex-machine ten thousand light years ahead of science, culture, society, my family and the law. Waterboarding is also hard, but that’s a bit off topic.
Lesbian Safe Sex 101: The Doctor Is In (Also, the Cartoonist)
It’s hard out there for a sexually active lesbo — how do you get the safe sex info you need when you’re afraid of the gyno and lesbians are ignored in sex ed? WELL WE’VE GOT A DOCTOR IN THE HOUSE. Also; a cartoonist. Really you have to see the cartoons.