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You Need Help: Four Special Questions

Straight BFF wins Straight Girl of the Year Award, we discuss vulvas, strap-ons and your girlfriend’s flaws. With special bonus feelings from MKO and Riese!

Laneia December 27, 2011 38 Comments
Sex

How Many Girls Want Girl-on-Girl Action?: A Sophisticated Statistical Analysis

Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!

Riese December 22, 2011 34 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: So She’s Never Had An Orgasm

In which we discuss sleeping with a girl who’s never had an orgasm before.

Rachel December 19, 2011 38 Comments
Sex

Much Ado About Having Sex With Lesbians

This Just In: I’m a Lesbian Pillow Princess, I Married a Lesbian and “My First Time”!

Riese December 13, 2011 54 Comments
Sex

The Language of Getting You Laid

Want to check the mimicry between you and your romantic interest? There’s an app for that.

Brittani December 8, 2011 30 Comments
Sex

Sleeping Around #1: “Why I’m So Easy”

“Sleeping Around: a new column documenting my sexual conquests, emotional bitch-slaps, carnal fumbles, and relationship follies.”

Cosette October 30, 2011 136 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Sex Meets Feelings, Has Feelings About It

For when you ‘like her’ like her.

Laneia October 21, 2011 19 Comments
Sex

You Need Help (ON VIDEO!): You Want to Want Her But You Don’t

Haviland Stillwell and Riese answer your wanting to want sex with her question on video, with special guests Marni & Ashley!

Riese October 3, 2011 16 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Fake Orgasms and Potato Soup, Sorta

How to stop faking orgasms and start being honest about how you like your damn soup.

Laneia September 27, 2011 37 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: Autostraddle is Legally Sexy

“This week’s topic is a smorgasbord of the law and sexuality inspired by Autostraddle!”

Queerie Bradshaw September 3, 2011 12 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Being a Chick Who Wants to Bang Her Co-Worker

Advice about dating your co-worker.

Laneia August 29, 2011 32 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: On the Legality of Stripping and Burlesque

This week we focus on scantily clad people inside strip clubs and burlesque halls.

Queerie Bradshaw August 28, 2011 15 Comments
Sex

How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent

I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.

Carmen August 26, 2011 66 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: All About Scantily Clad Women

“The laws surrounding what you can and cannot show of your own body in public are so complex and convoluted that I could not even begin to cover them all in a single blog post.”

Queerie Bradshaw August 21, 2011 55 Comments
Sex

Do Women Like Sex, Or Just Sexual Economics?

Debate is raging about the economics of sex versus women’s desire — but what does it mean for lesbians?

Jamie J. Hagen August 16, 2011 37 Comments
Sex

I Spoke to 2,500 Sluts on Saturday: Why We Need to Start Talking About Consent, Sex Ed, etc.

Slutwalk DC: “I was standing right in front of the Washington Monument. My name tag said “Carmen (Fucking) Rios,” and I had cut my shirt into a crop top tank top, and I was still wearing my aviators. Then I gave a speech and I want to share it with you.”

Carmen August 15, 2011 23 Comments
Sex

The Ethics of Lust: Your Dildo Might be Illegal

“With all these dildos piled high around me, I think it’s a good time to discuss the laws surrounding the purchasing of sex toys.”

Queerie Bradshaw August 14, 2011 47 Comments
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Sex

You Need Help: Bottoms Up and Helping Your Girlfriend

Can a top be a bottom without selling her soul? And how to talk to a partner who isn’t what she used to be.

Laneia August 8, 2011 33 Comments
Sex

How to Have Lesbian Sex Tips from NSFW Sunday

~6-7 of you think you know a thing or two about lesbian sex, the rest of you probably do too, everyone should read this

Riese June 19, 2011 165 Comments
Sex

The Politics of Lesbian Sex: Before, During, After

Before sex, during sex and after sex. Sex, sex, sexy sex.

Sarah H June 18, 2011 107 Comments
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