How Often Do Queer Women Have Sex?
We’ve got all the numbers on how often you have sex from our Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey — and some of them might surprise you!
You Need Help: Two Bottoms, One Relationship
The thing about being a top or a bottom is that it’s all in your head.
Ela Darling On The Future Of Virtual Reality Porn: The Autostraddle Interview
“If people have a way to view entertainment, they’re going to want to jerk off with it.”
You Need Help: Getting Better At Feeling Good
“My body does not seem to be able to handle being aroused for more than 5–10 minutes at a time… Is there any way I can retrain my body to be better able to maintain arousal?”
5 Ways to Make the Most of Your Masturbation Staycation
Staycationers ahoy! Are you pumped for the Staycation Spectacular, but feeling like maybe you want something a little more stimulating out of your day?
5 Ways To Support Ethical Porn (Even If You Can’t Afford It)
Ethical porn can exist, but it needs your help.
26 Bits Of Solid Sex Advice You Gave Us On Autostraddle’s Lesbosexy Sex Survey
20. WASH YOUR HANDS IF YOU ATE BUFFALO WINGS BEFORE GETTING LAID, OMG.
You Need Help: When Doing [This Sex Act] Makes You Want To Lie Down and Curl Into The Tiniest Ball
“I want to fulfill her sexually and sensually and I want to help her explore her various interests and fantasies. But I can’t even think about hitting her without conflating it with my own memories of abuse.”
Autostraddle Writers Share Their WEEK THREE Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Journals
“Did some naked housework today like that episode of Friends when Rachel was trying to get comfortable with her own body. Luckily, unlike Friends, Ross didn’t come over and ruin it.”
Autostraddle’s Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Week 4: Your Action Plan To Get Lots Of Action
The final week! Time to put all the pieces together.
You Need Help: You (Want to Be) Too Sexy for Your Shirt
You can do a super hot striptease for your girlfriend even if you are not, in fact, a Pussycat Doll.
Autostraddle’s Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Week 3: Get Naked and Ask Questions
Getting naked at home alone, taking a field trip, spontaneous sex, doing some research and more.
Autostraddle Writers Share Their WEEK TWO Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Journals
“Masturbated while watching porn. The orgasms were decent, possibly because I saw my super hot ex today who could almost make me come with just a smirk.”
Autostraddle’s Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Week 2: You Doing You
If you’re just starting now, welcome! It isn’t too late to catch up!
Autostraddle Writers Share Their Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience Journals
“Met some friends for drinks after work. Too tipsy and sleepy to think about sex or masturbating tonight. Will rectify the masturbation-less week over the weekend. Or at least take another one of those magical sexy baths.”
Announcing The Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey (For Women Who Sleep With Women)
TELL US EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE.
Introducing Autostraddle’s Masters Of Sex Cure Month Experience
Because sometimes the revolution is in your pants.
25 Pictures of Lesbian Kink According To Stock Photography
Fuzzy handcuffs, matching outfits, unsafe play and more.
9 Totally Normal And Not Gross Things That Happen During Sex We Promise It’s Normal
Definitely don’t worry about it you’re fine everything’s gonna be fine.
Bedroom Bloodsport: Navigating Unexpected Blood in Sexy Situations
Dating is a bloodsport unto itself, but for me it’s gotten too real — two too many times. Here’s some advice from my bleeding heart to yours on how to deal if you ever find yourself in a sexy bloody situation.