How To Kill Lesbian Bed Death
Read stories from other folks experiencing periods of no sex in relationships to start killing lesbian bed death at the root.
Why Are So Many Trans Mascs Pups?
When a couple trans masc friends are into pup play, it’s a coincidence. When half of the trans men I know are into it, it’s a pattern. I began to mentally set up a bulletin board with red string to solve one question: why are so many trans mascs pups?
How Do I Approach Sex With My Partner of Six Years While We’re Both Navigating Trauma?
The lack of sex that resulted from our wildly differing needs has had a lasting impact.
You Need Help: How Do I Get More Comfortable With Dirty Talk?
We learn so much about how people act during sex from TV and movies, and those people always seem to know exactly when to moan or how to say the right thing during sex. Of course they do — it’s been written for them!
My Girlfriend and I Got High and Came Up With Role Plays for You To Try With Your Girlfriend
The scattered concepts we devised were a combination of erotic and nonsensical and now I have tasked myself with turning these notes into full scenes for your enjoyment.
What’s a Nudes Protocol and Why You Should Have One
A nudes protocol (or whatever you wanna call it) is a personalized framework of rules about how your digital sexual data should be handled.
Lesbian Sex: Your 15 Favorite Ways To Have It
How do lesbians have sex? Well, we have an actual answer for you: here are the 15 sex acts we consider a regular part of our sex lives.
How To Handle Traumatic Resurgence During Sex
Trauma has a way of resurfacing in vulnerable moments. It can happen even if there’s no relationship between that trauma and sex.
Anonymous Sex Diary: A Couple Rekindles Their Sex Life with “Intimacy Boot Camp”
We’re both trying to avoid the lesbian bed death trope, hoping to be remembered in history as lovers, not “really good friends.”
How To Make Sexual Consent Sexy
Many people (myself included) love clear and direct communication. But not all of us lean into that style of sex. Thankfully, we can fold check-ins into sex without separating people from what they find fun.
I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else
“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”
You Need Help: How Do I Ask My Girlfriend To Freshen Up Before Sex Without Killing Our Sex Life?
Your girlfriend is putting a lot of trust in you, and that trust should be honored and celebrated.
29 Pictures Of Lesbian Sex According To Stock Photography
Dressing up like nuns, tying our t-shirts together, braiding each other’s hair, making omelettes, wearing hats, wearing leg-warmers upside-down — the lesbian sex photography fun NEVER ENDS!
Things I Do To Feel Submissive Even Though My Partner Isn’t Super Dominant
There’s room for ‘incompatibilities’ if we find mutually supportive ways to manage them.
I’m a Trans Woman, and This Is What’s in My Sex Bag
I have the profound misfortune of being a germaphobe who is very into anal sex.
How To Please a Pillow Princess, by a Pillow Princess
The term pillow princess has its roots in 90s lesbian circles.
The Cozy Under-The-Covers Sex You’re Having This Fall, According to Your Zodiac Sign
Wondering what kind of queer sex your sign’s going to be having this fall? I’m going to tell you, don’t worry.
Queer Audio Erotica Changed My Life, Helped Me Connect My Mind and Body
I was a late bloomer when it comes to all things sex and sexuality.
What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.
Remembering Deborah Sundahl, Lesbian Porn Pioneer
Two months ago, we lost Deborah Sundahl — a fierce, compassionate, and prolific queer elder.