Try These Exercises for Better Strap-On Sex
It’s pride month! Let’s get jacked for our favorite sex act with exercises for strap-on sex!
How to Have Sex With a Transmasculine Partner
Transmasc people have our own unique desires and boundaries in bed, just like everyone else.
How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed
Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.
Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
How Black Queer and Trans Folks Can Get Involved in the Kink Community
In the hands of Black queer and trans folks, kink can be deeply healing and transformative.
How to Finger Your Partner When You Have Chronic Pain in Your Hands
A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.
You Need Help: How Can I Deal With My Own Sexual Shame?
I want you to know that your shame is not uncommon and you’re not alone in feeling it. While it does take a long time to undo, you’re on the right track by acknowledging it verbally.
She/Her/Sir: Finding My Home in Kink as a Black, Queer, Masc of Center Dom
Kink can be a profound space of healing, which is something that Black people — and especially Black women — deeply deserve.
How I’m Navigating Play Parties as a Disabled, Immunocompromised Kinkster
I knew they taught about safety in BDSM culture, and I assumed that this ethic would carry through in their COVID safety. I was wrong.
The Gay B C’s of Sex: S Is for Stone
Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.
The Gay B C’s of Sex: G Is for Gold Star Lesbian
Put on your lesbian hard hats — we’re about to enter dangerous territory.
What If, Lube?
Lube. Just lube. Lube for regular sex, with or without toys. Lube anytime, for anything. It’s lube!
The Gay B C’s of Sex: D Is for Daddy
The queer community played a special role in shaping how the word is used today. Are you ready to learn more? Say, “Yes, Daddy.”
Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of Two Tongues
Then I feel something wet…but not in a place where I’m supposed to feel something wet. Also, it’s kind of rough.
Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of the Bloody Foursome
I was having my first group sex experience AND my first queer experience in one night?!
Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of the Dirty Dildo
We both froze as we heard what can only be described as…a queef of confusion.
Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of the Lost Butt Plug
I had them lean over my bed, and that’s when I saw it: My submissive’s hungry hole had swallowed the butt plug.
The Gay B C’s of Sex: T Is for Tribbing
Rubbing your bits against another hot bod is both physically and visually pleasurable, no matter what you call it.
The Gay B C’s of Sex: P Is for Power Bottom
Perhaps the power bottom is in the eye of the be(hole)der.