We Sat On Cakes to Find Our Joy
After months of holding ourselves back in order to keep ourselves and others safe from COVID, we were chasing abundance.
Intimate Geographies: An Old-Fashioned Lesbian Melodrama
This is a story where I’m not the protagonist.
Intimate Geographies: I Didn’t Think I Deserved To Be Topped, I Was Very Wrong
Over and over, the universe has instructed me: ask for what you want. Over and over, I’ve refused.
10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May
Give yourself a hand — it’s International Masturbation Month!
Netflix’s “The Principles of Pleasure” Invites Us Out of Shame and Into the Light
Pleasure can be sexual, but it also doesn’t have to be. I think I could have a healthier relationship with sex and my body by defining what pleasure means for me, without the influence of sex and attraction.
It’s Cake and Cunnilingus Day — Let’s Celebrate Accordingly!
I paired eight types of cakes with eight styles of cunnilingus to inspire your revelry.
How I Navigate Sex as a Bisexual Woman With Vaginismus
You don’t have to try to “fix” your vaginismus if you don’t want to. I’m not hyped about doing it, personally.
Muffing 101
For trans women who experience genital dysphoria, being penetrated in the front can be really meaningful.
Sex Tips for When You’re Stranded in the Canadian Wilderness Post-Plane Crash With No Rescue Team in Sight
Do you really want to be that person who survived a plane crash and then died from putting a literal stick up their ass? No, you don’t.
Positions for Fat Sex in All of Its Holiness
In short, if you know, you know: fat sex is church. Here are some of the positions that have taken me there when I knew I needed to be lifted in prayer.
You Need Help: How Can I Make Penetration Less Painful?
You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.
Sharing Is Caring — Or Did You Skip That Day In School?
Do you get a new strap for each partner or do you say “Baby…just boil it”?
Strapping As A Fat Femme Was My Black Queer Sexual Liberation
A fat Black femme explores the relationship with her body and shares how strapping became part of her sexual liberation.
I Always (Never) Feel Like — Somebody’s Watching Me
Are you gonna let them watch you strap up or are you a “BRB” kinda babe?
Suck My Silicone Or Save Your Mouth For Me?
Should you play suck and blow or what’s the point?
One Strap To Rule Them All Or Nah — Not So Much?
Do you only need one strap or is variety truly the spice of life?
An Act of Service: Strapping My Dom As a Leatherdyke Bottom
I still love service, but strapping for the first time expanded my very definition of the word.
To Strap Or Not To Strap — That Is The Question
It’s the age-old queer question — Are you strapping or nah?
Celebrate International Fisting Day With a Handful of Queer Fisting Porn
In celebration of International Fisting Day, watch these queer babes make their hands disappear.
Don’t Let Your Nail Length Stop You From Having Great Sex
1998 called — they said sorry for pushing stereotypes about nails and queer sex. Shelli and Ro are here to set the record straight.