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Parenting & Family

Adventures in (Lesbian) Baby-Making

“Whose sperm is this?” she asked me once. Maybe it was the first time. “It’s mine,” I said. I didn’t know what else to say. I had paid for it. No one else was coming to get it.

Lynne Marie February 14, 2014 29 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #114: The Marketability of Hot Blonde Twins

Topics include the TSA, college tours, sex in marriages, slavery, Ryan Leaf, Sweet Valley High, life after prison and so much more!

Riese February 14, 2014 6 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Will Be Your Valentine

Hot. Cool. Yours.

carrie February 14, 2014 4 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars 419 Recap: Shadow Play, or One With Paige Finally

In this episode, we, for no explainable reason, go back in time to the 1940s. But Emily and Paige “climb trees,” so I’m fine with it.

Hansen February 14, 2014 20 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Gay Denmark Wants You to Get Gay Married at Gay Eurovision

You’d think that Eurovision couldn’t possibly get any gayer, and you’d be wrong.

Fikri February 14, 2014 14 Comments
Valentine's Day

7 Alternatives to Your Stupid Valentine’s Day Traditions

I have a lot of strong opinions about most things and this time, it’s things people like doing on Valentine’s Day.

Brittani February 14, 2014 39 Comments
Recipes

Wilder Hungers: Valentine’s Day and Shakshouka

The highlight of my week was receiving a care package from my mother containing Airborne, Thin Mints, and concealer to hide my dark circles (she really gets me). And because I love you guys a lot, I have an entire meal for you today!

Gabriella February 14, 2014 10 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Yoncé All On Your Body Like Liquor: Check Out Beyoncé’s New LGBT-Friendly Underwear Sets

Thanks to Beyoncé, you and your lover can indulge your semi-socialized desire to put words on your asses as well as your desire to look fly while pantsless – no matter what your gender presentation, underwear needs, or style preference!

Carmen February 14, 2014 7 Comments
Sports

You Need To Read “The Sochi Project” Right Now

“Together, the images and texts unpack the complex, multivalent story of this contested region, shining a harsh light on Vladimir Putin’s claim that, ‘The Olympic family is going to feel at home in Sochi..'”

Riese February 13, 2014 13 Comments
Society + Culture

Facebook Wants You To Do You, Adds New Non-Binary Pronoun and Gender Identity Options

Facebook has released an update that allows users to move beyond binary pronouns and the male/female gender options they’ve had since the social network launched a decade ago. Here’s how to change your settings.

Kaitlyn February 13, 2014 77 Comments
Health

VIDEO: Dallas Sportcaster Shocks Our Socks Off With His Response to Gay Football Player Coming Out

Dallas sports broadcasting giant Dale Hansen spoke boldly for acceptance of Michael Sam on his popular show.

Adrian February 13, 2014 32 Comments
Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The We-Vibe Tango

“I am willing to entertain the idea that something else will feel as good against my clit — a talented human mouth, for instance — but nothing as portable even comes close.”

Guest February 13, 2014 3 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: “Gold Stars” are the New Black

A new webseries, behind-the-scenes footage from an OITNB photo shoot, the trailer for a moving documentary, and a quick comedy sketch are single and ready to mingle at the pre-V-Day video party.

Brittani February 13, 2014 10 Comments
First Person Health

26 Things Depression Feels Like According To My Diary

“Sad cloud” and “naked Christmas tree” did not make the list. You’re welcome, makers of anti-depressant commercials!

Riese February 13, 2014 35 Comments
Dating

Dear Queer Diary: Date a Girl Who Journals

As you browse through the weighty stack of applications submitted by the many humans hoping to romance you, remember: journaling is hot.

Maggie February 13, 2014 4 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 115 Recap: Oh My God It’s Like Evil In My Mouth

“The doorbell rings and it’s Emma the Wrestler with noodle kugel! We get a little primer on how Jews respond to funerals. Hint: They bring kugel. Every time they say “kugel,” I hear “kegel” and do 15.”

Vikki Reich February 13, 2014 8 Comments
Geekery

“Help Us! Great Warrior” Shows Us How To Save The World With A Hard Femme Hair Bow

“Help Us! Great Warrior” combines all of the best parts of Sword and Sorcery with a fierce, femme (yet kind of lazy) and awesome female warrior.

Mey February 12, 2014 3 Comments
Camp

A-Camp May 2014: It’s Time To Donate To Or Apply For Camperships!

Read essays from our A-Camp 4.0 campers and find out how to apply for or donate to the Campership Fund for 5.0!

the team February 12, 2014 29 Comments
Health

Bikes to Watch Out For: How Not to Die on the Road

Ten tips to make cycling less terrifying!

Fikri February 12, 2014 15 Comments
TV News & Trailers

“Transparent” TV Pilot Features Trans Mom, Queer Women, Additional Delightful Things

“An LA family with serious boundary issues have their past and future unravel when a dramatic admission causes everyone’s secrets to spill out.”

Laura Mandanas February 12, 2014 10 Comments
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