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Breakups

50 Ways to Leave Your (Lesbian) Lover

12. Sometimes Love Doesn’t Win, Quinn

Rachel May 21, 2019 30 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read Hannah Paasch’s ‘Millenneagram,’ Figure Out Who the F*ck You Are, Live Your Best Life

What’s your enneagram type? Hannah Paasch wants to help you figure that out and so much more.

Adrian May 21, 2019 10 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 416 Recap: Lost and Found

All hell breaks loose in the season finale of Legends of Tomorrow. Also Sara wears a Supergirl costume.

Valerie Anne May 21, 2019 14 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes: Gemini Season Dares You to Try New Things

With big ideas and a constant need for movement, Gemini season is all about connection, communication, and construction – we buzz with ideas, pour our hearts into new projects, share hopes and dreams.

meg May 21, 2019 12 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Late 20s Grandpa Who’s Ready to Feel Hot

“I love classical tailoring but I worry that maybe it comes across as a bit stuffy and boring? I want to convince myself, and ideally other people, that I’m hot and I’ve got a lot to offer.”

M May 21, 2019 11 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Geode Dildo

I wish this Aggro Crag were maybe just a smidgen less aggro.

Guest May 21, 2019 6 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Booksmart” Pushes Teen Comedies and Lesbian Movies to Hilarious New Heights

Booksmart honors, skewers, and completely transcends every genre it’s a part of.

Heather Hogan May 20, 2019 13 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 422 Recap: A Long Time Coming

The Superfriends enter their final battle with the big bads of the season, and also Alex and Kelly finally talk about their intensity.

Valerie Anne May 20, 2019 29 Comments
Issues Webcomics

Appalachian Farm Girl in the Pacific Northwest

“For all its vastness, rural life had no room for me.”

Ren Strapp May 20, 2019 11 Comments
Issues

Monday Roundtable: Survival Stories

Sometimes when you go outside, things don’t go according to plan.

the team May 20, 2019 14 Comments
Book Features

The Perfect Queer Poem: For Making an Altar

“Corpse Flower” gathers those petals, each one placed on the altar as every word is placed in the poem. The sweetness of a petal curling up to touch itself.

Natalie May 20, 2019 2 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 107: Losing It

Stuff those dirty ’shrooms in your face, poke her in the front and liquor in the rear and then brace yourself because Jenny’s still got her same pair of tights on.

Riese May 20, 2019 8 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Think Sex Will Save The Planet But It Seems Fun To Try

Ecosexuality and fucking to save the planet, the logistics of sharing a bed for actual sleep, sex with 30 people in 30 days and more.

Ryan Yates May 19, 2019 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Demands a Sylvia Rivera Monument

11 LGBT New Yorkers who deserve monuments, Reebok’s Pride collection, new music videos from Halsey, hot Lizzo/Charli XCX gossip, and more!

Ari May 19, 2019 9 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: That All-Consuming Love

I didn’t understand unconditional love until I met Remi.

KaeLyn May 18, 2019 26 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “The Bold Type” Gives Kat a New Lady Love

Plus updates on: The Flash, Gentleman Jack, Station 19, Charmed, Jane the Virgin, Grey’s Anatomy, and The Good Fight!

The TV Team May 17, 2019 27 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Are You Bringing To The Apocalypse?

“I can actually be athletic when I put my mind to it and I always turn into a Butch Hulk whenever someone is in need so I’m not saying I’ll be able to carry you up a mountain but if you really need me, I’m also not saying I *won’t* be able to carry you up that mountain.”

A. Tony Jerome May 17, 2019 129 Comments
Politics + Activism

Taiwan Becomes the First Country in Asia to Legalize Marriage Equality

Once the rain finally stopped, Equal Love Taiwan snapped a photo of the clouds breaking open to reveal a literal rainbow. Gay couples will be able to begin getting married on May 24th! 

Heather Hogan May 17, 2019 10 Comments
Movie News & Trailers

“Booksmart” Preview: Watch the First 6 Minutes of Olivia Wilde’s Queer High School Buddy Comedy Right Now

The film opens in sneak peeks around the country today and in wide release next Friday.

Heather Hogan May 17, 2019 9 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Into Outdoor Sports

“Turns out there’s nothing better than f*cking under cover of deep, tall grass in the sunshine. Currently protecting my field spot like a dragon.”

Darcy May 17, 2019 19 Comments
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