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Y’All Need Help #13: You’re Gonna Make It Count

Two sisters have a crush on the same girl and it’s somehow not a movie, a parent in her mid-thirties is freshly divorced, and this person wants to be involved in her partner’s religion but isn’t sure how to make it happen. Let’s solve some problems!

Laneia November 4, 2017 17 Comments
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Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Moving Forward Oh My God

Let’s gather ’round and build each other up! Deep breaths.

Carrie November 3, 2017 97 Comments
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NEW MERCH ALERT: Gender Traitor Onesies, Mommi & Tomboy Femme Tees! Plus SALES!

Doesn’t matter if you’re an adult human or a human baby, we’re bringing you some FRESH overclothes this month!

Sarah November 3, 2017 55 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are The Odd Girl Out

“Hey, so that hot friend of yours: is she… ya know, ODD?”

Darcy November 3, 2017 33 Comments
TV Reviews

We Lost One of TV’s Most Important Lesbian Characters When “Survivor’s Remorse” Got Axed

The conversation of multi-dimensional black thought, and questions of isolation or not feeling “black enough”, is one that a lot black people are familiar with. It’s smart and nuanced. It’s also a conversation that fundamentally could not be filtered through a white lens. It could not exist on a television show that wasn’t like this.

Carmen Phillips November 3, 2017 8 Comments
Webcomics

S.H.E. Episode V: Great Brexpectations

“Resume looks good. Just be the person from this resume.”

Megan+Moll November 3, 2017 5 Comments
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Masc/Femme: Reclaiming “Basic” Fall Fashion with Maggie McGill

There’s one thing I’m not chill about and that thing is autumn.

Maggie McGill November 3, 2017 13 Comments
TV Reviews

Facebook Watch’s “Strangers” Is One of the Funniest, Smartest Queer TV Shows of 2017

You laugh and cry and swoon and be bewildered that you can watch this show for free on social media.

Heather Hogan November 2, 2017 21 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Steph Beatriz!

Steph Beatriz got in bed with me last week… and I was super cool about it. Do you REALLY need to ask any further questions before you dive immediately into this episode?!

Kristin November 2, 2017 1 Comment
Geekery

14 Newsletters to Make Your Inbox a Better, Brighter Place

Checking your email doesn’t have to always be a bad experience!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 2, 2017 13 Comments
Politics + Activism

Here’s Who Tried To Ruin October For Us

On LGBTQ history month of all months!

Erin November 2, 2017 14 Comments
LGBT History

It’s the Season of the Witch and Hekate, Goth-as-Hell Goddess of Outcast Women

Hekate is the goddess of outcast women and taking power where you find it.

Siobhan November 2, 2017 14 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Sweetbitter” Gets a Lesbian Bartender, “Black Lightning” Gets a Bisexual Half-Amazon, “Thor” Cuts a Queer Moment and Other Stories

Topics include Keko coming out, Australian model Fiona Falkiner coming out, Hayley Kiyoko being visible and great, Christine Vachon, a set visit to The Runaways, everything mentioned in the headline, and also there has to be a queer character in 911 right?

Riese November 1, 2017 34 Comments
Politics + Activism

Talking the Lesbian Philanthropist Agenda with Program Officer Kristen Plumberg of the Tegan and Sara Foundation

An insider interview with the Tegan and Sara Foundation lead, working a CON X Show and generally loving everything these twins do.

Shelly Simon November 1, 2017 6 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for November 2017

Enjoy the powerfully transformative energy of this month. Work your strongest spells for healing, for an end to suffering, for ending all the structures and oppressions that currently feel immortal.

Corina Dross November 1, 2017 10 Comments
Webcomics

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #33: My Queer Bod

“I can’t be reduced. I’ve come to find resilience sexy.”

A. Andrews November 1, 2017 11 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Seriously, Sarah Paulson And Holland Taylor, This Is Too Much

Also, Cara Delevingne jumped out of a heckin’ airplane, Amandla Stenberg wrestled a robot and Samira Wiley brought you some strawberries.

Stef November 1, 2017 10 Comments
Geekery

Notes From A Queer Engineer: Robot Birds and More News About Disaster Capitalism

“Anything brown and round is fair game,” says Patricelli, who says she’s even seen Greater Sage-Grouses try to mate with dried cow poop when nothing more promising was around. “The bar is pretty low for us in trying to fool the males.”

Laura Mandanas November 1, 2017 3 Comments
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Thank You Jeanne Córdova, Love Autostraddle Dot Com

We’re closing out LGBT History Month with Jeanne Córdova — a legendary publisher and activist who died last year and included Autostraddle as one of many beneficiaries of her estate, which is why we didn’t lose our minds this year.

Riese October 31, 2017 42 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 40, October 2017

You’re really gonna wanna see this video Heather made us while on painkillers after taking apart her Roomba to see if she could put her Roomba back together.

The Editors October 31, 2017 29 Comments
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