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First Person

My Word of the Year Was “Closer”

For as long as I can remember, I’ve held a silent tradition of closing out each year with a word.

Em Win December 29, 2022 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

Autostraddle’s Most Popular Stories of 2022

From Generation Q to football gays, Stardew Valley to The Golden Girls, these were our most read posts of 2022.

Riese December 29, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Reviews

HBO’s “His Dark Materials” Makes The Garden of Eden Gloriously Gay

Dr. Mary Malone reveals that she’s a lesbian in series finale. It’s a revolutionary change from the books.

Heather Hogan December 29, 2022 8 Comments
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Literature

Rainbow Reading: Hey Siri, What’s the Opposite of Listless?

Instead of discourse, you know what we’ve got during this last mellow week? Lists. SO MANY LISTS.

Yashwina December 29, 2022 6 Comments
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Puzzles

Word Search: The Situationship

A judgement-free zone.

Vanessa December 29, 2022 4 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Naija Lit: Hausa Is a Language of Love in Arinze Ifeakandu’s “God’s Children Are Little Broken Things”

To be human is to be, or not. To love, or not.

Chinelo Anyadiegwu December 28, 2022 4 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Call Me Miss Cleo” and the Queer Legacy of TV’s Most (In)Famous Psychic

When the PRN lawsuits were settled, Cleo essentially went into hiding. But she soon found a queer coffee shop in Florida that felt like home.

Nic December 28, 2022 5 Comments
Nicole Maines as Dreamer on Supergirl / Javicia Leslie as Ryan Wilder on Batwoman
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Could Nicole Maines and Javicia Leslie Make the Leap to the DCU?

HBO’s The Last of Us won’t be TOO graphically violent, Blackpink’s tour of queer yearning, the best celeb gossip of the year, and more!

Heather Hogan December 28, 2022 3 Comments
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Food and Drink Health

Practical Magic: How to Nourish Your Body When Executive Dysfunction Has Other Plans

There’s a saying they mention when feeding babies: “fed is best.” That principle’s not just for babies, my friends!

Darcy December 28, 2022 32 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Every Few Months I Remember Chrishell Stause Is Dating G Flip

Welcome back to No Filter, the place where I gather up the best celesbian nonsense and put in one handy column for you!

Christina Tucker December 28, 2022 7 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Has Notifications Silenced

In a large bowl, whisk two cups all-purpose flour, half-cup granulated sugar, half-cup brown sugar, one and a half tsps baking powder, half a tsp baking soda, and three quarters tsp of kosher salt.

brooke December 28, 2022 7 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Saying Goodbye to “The Internet’s Most Hellish Year”

How the Cheesecake Factory became the chain restaurant of millennial dreams, on the practicing abolition in the wake of the Tory Lanez verdict, and it wasn’t your imagination — this was absolutely the worst year to be online.

Carmen Phillips December 27, 2022 2 Comments
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Society + Culture

Mira Bellwether, Author of ‘F*cking Trans Women,’ Has Died

It’s clear that Bellwether wrote this zine because it absolutely needed to be written. Now it’s her legacy.

Ro White December 27, 2022 15 Comments
Best Queer Albums 2022. Autostraddle Year End Lists. The albums CLEARING by Hyd, MUNA by Muna, Black Girl Magic by Honey Dijon, and Nymph by Shygirl.
Music

Eight of the Best Queer Albums of 2022

I’ve always used music as a way to relate to others.

Julie Gentile December 27, 2022 4 Comments
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TV Feature

Woke “Yellowstone” Cowgirls Kiss, Ruin Real Americans’ Favorite Show

Until this week, the only thing I knew about the TV show Yellowstone is that Republicans f*cking love it.

Heather Hogan December 27, 2022 39 Comments
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Identity

You Need Help: I Just Turned 65 and I’m Questioning My Sexuality

I think everyone in the queer community knows this but I think we need to say it more explicitly and more often: Queerness is a journey.

Vanessa and himani
December 27, 2022 19 Comments
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First Person

Playing House

The game is simple, really.

Autumn Fourkiller December 27, 2022 11 Comments
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Puzzles

Guessing Game: Code Blue in the Sack

👿

Sally December 27, 2022 20 Comments
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First Person

Say When

In the five years since I ended that relationship I’ve reflected on how I got into it, why I stayed, and my own part in the failure of it.

danijanae December 26, 2022 17 Comments
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Podcasts The L Word: Generation Q

“To L And Back: Generation Q Podcast 306: The Gen Q Musicale

“I am so certain that this episode will have polarized us the most of any episode we’ve done yet. I’m certain of it.”

Analyssa December 26, 2022 12 Comments
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