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A+ Roundtable: Our Orgasm Thoughts

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the team April 18, 2022 13 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Ariana DeBose Is Making a Bisexual Rom-Com Like “My Best Friend’s Wedding”

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Heather Hogan April 18, 2022 10 Comments
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Food Lists

It’s Time To Get Into Alt Pickles

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 18, 2022 14 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Hang On, Does Sarah Michelle Gellar Have Queer Cruel Intentions Fan Art in Her Home?

My literal wife and I don’t even have a photo of ourselves acting this gay hanging on our walls.

Heather Hogan April 18, 2022 7 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which 90s Movie Made You Gay?

The 1990s were an incredible time for homoeroticism in films with mostly-female casts, and if you’re anything like me, you saw every single one of them and now you’re gay!

Riese April 17, 2022 47 Comments
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Food Lists

18 Fruity, Spritzy, Bright Mocktails for Spring

Get ready for spring chilling with these mocktails in shades of pink, orange, and yellow!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 17, 2022 15 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1415 Recap: Sisterhood of the Traveling Estrogen

Do you know who has embraced villainy best? Bosco.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 16, 2022 10 Comments
In a two panel comic in colors of pastel pink, mint green, and goldenrod — one queer says mean things to a plant and makes mean faces, “Grrrr! I hate you! I hate you!” Another queer talks kind to the plant, “Aw I think it’s cute! You’re doing great buddy!”
Webcomics

Reine #33: Words of Affirmation

It’s time to ask yourself if your plants truly spark joy.

Ren Strapp April 16, 2022 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: All American’s Lesbian Exes Are Living Together, CLASSIC!

Plus updates on: Legacies, Charmed, Top Chef, and A Million Little Things!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
April 15, 2022 5 Comments
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Television TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Better Halves Champion – Carina DeLuca!

Let’s say we do this again next year, eh?

Natalie April 15, 2022 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Daydreaming of Chessy from the Parent Trap

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Darcy April 15, 2022 3 Comments
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Music

Mal Blum on Their New EP “Ain’t It Nice,” Queer Americana, and Finding Humor in Sorrow

“Who cares that I don’t usually release country, or that it’s not on brand? None of this stuff matters. It’s like, if you want to share your art, then do it, because you don’t know how long you have.”

Yashwina April 15, 2022 5 Comments
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Health

Obsessed: Elizabeth Holmes, Founder of Theranos and Noted Rich Liar

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Riese April 15, 2022 32 Comments
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Music

Syd’s Album “Broken Hearts Club” Beautifully Captures the Highs and Lows of Queer Love

Syd’s new album is a musically beautiful illustration of the excitement, joy, sensuality, passion, and pain that accompany love.

Amari Gaiter April 15, 2022 2 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #58: Money Problems

Dating with different incomes, saving to buy an apartment, being exhausted by constantly living under capitalism — and more!

the team April 15, 2022 35 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Homophobia and Hate Are Returning Back to the Original Recipes

Old-school homophobia is back, the death of the “woke corporation,” and how to turn your side hustle into your full time job.

Carmen Phillips April 14, 2022 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 406 Recap: Now, That’s What I Call Music

This week, instead of a regular recap, I thought I’d provide a ranking of the Coterie Party karaoke performances with the not-so-subtle subtext behind their song choices.

Natalie April 14, 2022 4 Comments
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Movie News & Trailers

Kristen Stewart Will Star in Bodybuilding Romance “Love Lies Bleeding” — Who Should Play Her Swole Love Interest?

Kristen Stewart will play the protective lover of a bodybuilder in “Love Lies Bleeding.” We brainstormed who should play her muscly boo and looked at a lot of biceps in the process.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 14, 2022 14 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

It’s Cake and Cunnilingus Day — Let’s Celebrate Accordingly!

I paired eight types of cakes with eight styles of cunnilingus to inspire your revelry.

Ro White April 14, 2022 17 Comments
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Book Lists

In Verse: Poetry Collections for Sexual Assault Awareness Month

Whether you’re ready to heal or just want to hear someone else’s story, these poets are experts at examining grief, loss, and recovery.

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