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Issues

Letter From The Editor: The Outsiders Issue

These are all love stories.

Riese May 1, 2019 19 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Stephanie Beatriz and Cameron Esposito Rep Leather Jacket 4 Leather Jacket Love

Also: Samira Wiley’s time-traveling, Tessa Thompson’s slow dancing with herself, and Janelle Monáe is maybe on her way to the moon.

Heather Hogan May 1, 2019 9 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Cherríe Moraga on Delving Into Her Queer Chicana Memories in “Native Country of the Heart”

Moraga’s latest, “Native Country of the Heart,” is a deep meditation on memory — reflections of the past, recalling hard moments, losing ourselves, and remembering who we are as Mexican-Americans, in more ways than one. She spoke to Autostraddle about her new book and the journey her queer feminism has taken over the course of her career.

Yvonne May 1, 2019 8 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for May 2019: Claiming Joy and Power in Your Body

Taurus season is in full bloom — whatever your relationship is to embodiment and pleasure, expect it to change this month.

Corina Dross May 1, 2019 5 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 56, April 2019

“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”

Riese April 30, 2019 38 Comments
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“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 413: Great Eggspectations

Truly there is no way to summarize this bonkers episode but just know there are books and treadmills and whips involved in Avalance’s plotline.

Valerie Anne April 30, 2019 10 Comments
TV Feature

30 Alternatives to “I Want You to Run Me Over With a Car,” Courtesy of Villanelle from “Killing Eve”

12. Punch me in line for prison cabbage

Rachel April 30, 2019 22 Comments
First Person

You’re Just You: An Accidental Love Letter to Los Angeles

“Towards the end of the night you fall and tear the skin on your knee. But you pop back up and keep skating. You’re relieved. Now that you’ve fallen once you know you’ll be okay.”

Drew Burnett Gregory April 30, 2019 22 Comments
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For Your Consideration: Asking for Directions

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but it is perfectly fine and legal to ask someone for directions when you are lost.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 30, 2019 12 Comments
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15 Gayest Moments From “Avengers: Endgame,” Which Was Great But Unfortunately Not Gay

I pulled these nuggets of little gold from all three hours of Endgame and I cannot wait to re-live them in obsessive, snarky detail with you!

Carmen Phillips April 29, 2019 32 Comments
TV Feature

Potential Trend Alert: Anne Lister Collected Her Ex-Lovers’ Pubic Hair, Kept Them In Lockets

“She soon gave me the golden lock – threw herself on the chair by me. We wept (& kissed).”

Heather Hogan April 29, 2019 25 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 419 Recap: A Dream(er) is a Wish Your Heart Makes

Alex and Kelly help James with his PTSD while Lena confides in Kara and Dreamer is an inspiration to us all.

Valerie Anne April 29, 2019 8 Comments
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“She-Ra and the Princesses of Power” Season Two Is Even More Hopeful (and Gay)

The Gay Agenda returns!

Heather Hogan April 29, 2019 19 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: New Research Suggests Men Don’t Know What They’re Talking About, Women Are Fine Without Them

Plus: Springtime Mary Oliver from the Atlantic archives, ButchCamp, grandparents are getting more gay-friendly, the stuntwomen of the MCU, teenage lesbians trolling homophobic politicians, and oh so much more.

Heather Hogan April 29, 2019 8 Comments
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“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 104: Longing

Did you know that the Autostraddle.com post for each episode of To L and Back contains a VERY useful index of ideas and trivia referenced in the episode? Because it does!

Riese April 29, 2019 17 Comments
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How To Change Your Hair Dramatically After a Breakup

Seize control of your image! Be hot as a form of revenge! Do it for you! Just feel good about something in a time when it’s so easy to feel bad about everything!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 29, 2019 17 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Stans This Lesbian Couple Who Met Touring With Beyoncé

Plus: #LesbianVisibilityDay tweets you may have missed, more confirmation on Star Trek’s gayness, Roxane Gay’s new magazine, a post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah educational program for non-binary Jewish youth, and more!

Ari April 28, 2019 4 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Warming Up The Bluetooth Vibrator

Sex-toy hacking is probably overblown. Plus how to be together in a relationship, what makes a good sub and more.

Ryan Yates April 28, 2019 3 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Peanut Butter Pretzel Bars

This recipe is perfect for this time of year when summer is approaching and a decadent treat is in order but the rising temperatures might already have you pushing the breaks on using the oven.

Reneice Charles April 27, 2019 8 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #59: Memory Train Making Local Stops

“I have a habit of searching for memories in the future.”

Yao Xiao April 27, 2019 8 Comments
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