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The Comment Awards Are Having All the Feelings

“Can confirm that mixing fake blood for your girlfriend’s Carrie costume is queer culture.”

Darcy April 27, 2018 17 Comments
Music

Janelle Monáe’s “Dirty Computer” Is Finally Here and Even Queerer Than We Imagined

Janelle Monáe made an album just for me and you, and it’s your solemn duty as a queer woman to go and listen to it right at this very second and share all your thoughts and emotions in the comments.

Natalie April 27, 2018 61 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #262: Blue Is In Fashion This Year

Topics include weight loss surgery, murder, writer’s block, algorithms for style, David Foster Wallace, The Grenfell Tower fire, how bad Troy sucks in “Reality Bites,” deaf culture and so much more!

Riese April 27, 2018 6 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: You’re New to the Queer Dating Scene, Do You Need to Change Yourself?

One person is worried being femme and bi will stop her from dating. Another is worried being fat and having no experience will. Good news! None of that will stop you!

Mey April 27, 2018 22 Comments
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Celebrate Lesbian Visibility Day With This Lesbian Playlist, Lesbians

Spend your Lesbian Visibility Day with some tunes by lesbians who make music and also acknowledge themselves as lesbians!

Riese April 26, 2018 14 Comments
First Person

Lesbian Visibility Day Roundtable: Carrying History, Worshipping Women, F*cking Up the Patriarchy

“For me, lesbian completely casts aside the idea of men. It puts me and the people I love ahead of the patriarchy. It relieves me of even pretending that I give a shit what any of them have ever thought. It thankfully gives me space to center women (and other people who aren’t men), which is all I’ve ever wanted to do.”

the team April 26, 2018 79 Comments
Visual Art

Laura Aguilar, Groundbreaking Lesbian Chicana Photographer, Dies at 58

Aguilar was a pioneer in sharing the faces and experiences of various Latina lesbians in the 90s, when there was very little representation. Aguilar’s art gives the marginalized and subcultures within subcultures — poor, fat, woman, lesbian, Latina — a place to be held and seen.

Yvonne April 26, 2018 8 Comments
Geekery

You Should Play “NieR: Automata” if You Like Hot Androids, Cute Robots, or Nude Somebodies

The combat has a frenetic arcade-iness that makes me a little giddy even as I’m being chewed up by the robot dog that was for some reason built under the metallic skirts of the robot diva that was for some reason deemed an essential part of the robot invasion force.

dufrau April 26, 2018 4 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Janelle Monáe Is Queer: Star Comes Out in Rolling Stone as Bisexual/Pansexual “Free-Ass Motherf*cker”

“Being a queer black woman in America,” Monáe tells Brittany Spanos, her interviewer, “someone who has been in relationships with both men and women — I consider myself to be a free-ass motherfucker.’”

Carmen Phillips April 26, 2018 63 Comments
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“Riverdale” Episode 219 Recap: Something Wicked This Way Comes Back

Entire town of Riverdale, r u ok? Worried about u.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 26, 2018 5 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Forget Books

A history of twentieth century women critics, why “being nice” is a scam, queer books for teens, Independent Bookstore Day and more.

Ryan Yates April 26, 2018 1 Comment
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Here’s Your First Look at Gina Rodriguez Making Eyes at Stephanie Beatriz on “Brooklyn Nine-Nine”

Plus: Lauren Morelli and Ellen page are teaming up for a reboot of a beloved LGBTQ mini-series; a trailer for Pimp; Sense8 news; The Bold Type’s second season is getting gayer; and Rachel Weisz, Emma Stone, and Olivia Colman are making a movie about a historical lesbian love triangle.

Heather Hogan April 25, 2018 19 Comments
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Community Quizzes

Beers, Droves of Queers and Scorecards Galore: My Queer Trivia Night Went Well

Were you too intimidated by our April meet-up theme to host a queer trivia night? You’re not alone! But maybe after reading this how-to from Autostraddle Staff Writer Raquel you’ll feel brave enough to host one in the future!

Raquel April 25, 2018 3 Comments
TV News & Trailers

The “Riverdale” Musical Episode Just Got a Whole Lot Gayer With This Deleted Choni Scene

I also like to imagine that Toni helped Cheryl mix the fake blood for her stunt at the end, because that seems like a sweet thing for a girlfriend to do.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 25, 2018 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

“Black on Both Sides” Disrupts Black and Trans History as You Know It

Blackness and transness interconnect in this radical history of not just black and trans people, but also where beliefs about black and trans people come from.

Ari April 25, 2018 5 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Sarah Paulson Is Flying High

Also, Hayley Kiyoko may have literally invented the thirst trap and Cameron Esposito and Rhea Butcher got haircuts.

Stef April 25, 2018 22 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Disobedience” Review: Urgent Kisses, God, and Lesbian Spitplay

“Sex with an ex is complicated business, even when it’s good. And Disobedience lives in that beautiful mess of a place. The spitting feels almost like a spiritual ritual.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 25, 2018 35 Comments
Camp

58 Ways You Beautiful Lunatics Described Yourselves When Signing Up for A-Camp X

“My purse is always full of sewing supplies and cheese snacks.”

Riese April 25, 2018 77 Comments
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TV Reviews

“The Handmaid’s Tale” Season Two Gets Even Darker, Queerer, Curiouser and Curiouser

The Handmaid’s Tale returns for Season Two on April 25th and it’s still one of the best shows to ever grace the screen, blessed be the fruit.

Riese April 25, 2018 7 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 45, April 2018

“wait there are nipples on shutterstock??”

Riese April 24, 2018 48 Comments
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