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Taylor Swift stands in a field in a cottagecore-esque peacoat for Evermore.
Music

Taylor Swift’s “evermore” Songs, Ranked by Gay Subtext

On Friday, December 11th, the Taylor Swift gay subtext industrial complex sprang into action when she dropped another surprise album during quarantine.

Lindsay Lee Wallace December 13, 2020 12 Comments
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AF+

Merry Fistmas: A Virtual Vaginal Fisting Workshop with Malic White, TODAY at 1pm PST

We’re kicking off the 13 Days of A+ with a virtual vaginal fisting workshop! Merry Fistmas will take place on Crowdcast live at 1pm PST, but the recording will be available to A+ Members for replay afterward. Live captioning provided by White Coat Captioning.

Nico December 13, 2020 8 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Knows What’s Up With Pornhub

What’s happening with Pornhub? Plus, whether a huge variety of sex positions is worth it, lesbian age-gap relationship discourse, another devastating pandemic loss and more.

Ryan Yates December 13, 2020 4 Comments
A collage of a variety of brightly colored sex toys
Christmas Sex Toys

Holigay Gift Guide: Sexy Gifts Based on Quarantine Style

It’s time to normalize giving sex toys as gifts, and not just to partners. Everyone’s stuck at home anyway!

Ryan Yates December 12, 2020
In a two panel black-and-white comic, a queer person with short hair and earrings wants to hear about all the "Hot Gos!" Gossip, anything exciting to just help break up the monotony of pandemic life.
Webcomics

Grease Bats: Gossip

“Drama! Exciting secrets! Rumors! The GOOD stuff!!”

Archie December 12, 2020 10 Comments
A Station 19 still where Maya and Carina laugh together as Maya pulls Carina by the waist into their sunlit bathroom.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: It’s Sunlight Kitchens and Sweaty Kisses on “Station 19”

Plus, we’re getting Muslim teen superhero Ms. Marvel coming to TV and here’s an update on S.W.A.T.

The TV Team December 11, 2020 11 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: Mourning Brandon Bernard and Casey Goodson Jr

In this week’s Extra! Extra! we discuss some of the recent abuses committed by the criminal justice system, revisit the topic of COVID-19 vaccine authorization (after a robust discussion on this in the comments last week) and look at a few situations unfolding around the world.

the team December 11, 2020 11 Comments
a collaged image with the cover of Best Lesbian Erotica Vol 5, featuring two women of color holding each other, and four photos of writers in the book, along with one photo of tattoo of a woman blindfolded and her wrists tied above her head.
Book Features

Meet The Writers Of Best Lesbian Erotica Vol. 5

Six contributors to Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 5 tell us about how they think about erotica as queer writers. The book came out on Dec 8, so can get your personal and gift copies in time for the holidays.

Kamala Puligandla December 11, 2020 3 Comments
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Book Lists

67 of the Best Queer Books of 2020

2020 was terrible in every way except for queer books. There were so many amazing queer books published this year! Here are 67 of the best of them.

Casey December 11, 2020 40 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Calling From the Rooftops

“Be grateful for your abundance, you privileged piece of shi*t!”

Darcy December 11, 2020 9 Comments
The cast of Ocean's 11 in front of The Bellagio.
Movie Features

Home Alone for the Holigays: Watch “Oceans 11” with Carolyn

Welcome to Home Alone for the Holigays! Where our writers welcome you to spend the day with them virtually and live-tweet one of their favorite holiday films. Come kick it with Carolyn, watch Oceans 11 and escape into their sleepy Solstice.

Ryan Yates December 11, 2020
javicia Leslie stars as the new Batwoman in a Season Two trailer drop that has her kicking some criminal ass in a dark alley with her afro swinging with some major power in the wind (she's wearing the bat suit, of course!).
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: The New “Batwoman” Trailer Drop Will Give You Goosebumps on Your Goosebumps

A love letter to queer fan fiction that you don’t want to miss. Also: the legendary Dionne Warwick, giving trans kids everything they want this Christmas, Ellen Degeneres has the Coronavirus, “Black Swan” is now a Hanukkah movie, and are pandemic cats keeping their own secrets?

Carmen Phillips December 10, 2020 3 Comments
A collage of outdoors things that you could buy a loved one this holiday season — from wool socks, to an axe, and so many in between!
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: For The Loved Ones You Want To Survive The Apocalypse

Whether you’re convinced America is on the brink of collapse and want to get your loved ones some gear to survive the coming hellscape, or you think they could use some quality hiking and camping stuff so they can safely get outdoors and away from everyone else, this gift guide has you covered.

Abbie Jones December 10, 2020 6 Comments
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Straddleverse

We Say Goodbye To Kamala As Our Editor-In-Chief And Look Ahead To 2021

Kamala has made the decision to leave Autostraddle to pursue other opportunities. We’re proud of the work that we’ve started together, and look forward to continue building our vision in 2021!

The Editors December 10, 2020 30 Comments
A collage from the Bisexual Disney Characters list: Moana, Megara, Tramp, and Mulan.
Movie Lists

Disney Characters, Ranked by Bisexuality

“I also came here to say I couldn’t figure out why the White Rabbit felt bi to me and then realized it’s because he’s stressed out.”

the team December 10, 2020 44 Comments
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Christmas

Give Money to a Mutual Aid Fund Instead of Giving Gifts This Holigay Season

Here are 16 mutual aid funds that we’re supporting this holiday season. Tell us about the ones that are closest to your heart, too!

Vanessa December 10, 2020 2 Comments
A collection of celebration objects on a table
Jewish Holidays

Dedication and Liberation, or What Does a Queer Black Hanukkah Look Like

What does Hanukkah look like when you’re a queer, Black, convert who doesn’t find deep meaning in traditional celebrations of the holiday?

Ari December 10, 2020 11 Comments
graphic with cast of happiest season
Movie Features Quizzes

Which Happiest Season Character Are You? Quiz

Don’t feel like being yourself today? Well, this quiz will tell you which Happiest Season character you are!

Riese December 10, 2020 51 Comments
Ariana DeBose and Jo Ellen Pellman play lesbians in The Prom.
Movie Reviews

Netflix’s “The Prom” Review: Broadway’s Favorite Teen Lesbians Warmed Our Unruly Hearts

Join Valerie, Drew, and Carmen as they geek out about Ryan Murphy’s Netflix adaptation of The Prom.

Valerie Anne December 9, 2020 20 Comments
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The L Word: Generation Q

Rosie O’Donnell Playing “Carrie” on “The L Word: Generation Q” Season 2 — Which Is Absolutely Tina’s Fiancée’s Name

The L Word Generation Q’s first sliver of news has arrived: lesbian icon Rosie O’Donnell will play a “brash and kindhearted” public defender in Season Two and Jordan Hull (Angie) has been upped to series regular status!

Riese December 9, 2020 20 Comments
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