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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Talk About Sleep, Because It Can Be Really Hard!

I have an embarrassing confession: every time I’m single I have insomnia.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 16, 2019 83 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Having a Hot Girl Summer

Real talk, I’ve gotten a boyfriend and two girlfriends just by saying, “do you wanna make out?”

Darcy August 16, 2019 30 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s The Best Advice You’ve Ever Received?

One piece of good advice can change the world. Chin up, loves.

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The Comment Awards Are Eating Juicy Peaches

*THIS* is how you party in Mykonos.

Darcy August 9, 2019 27 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Tell Me Your Travel Horror Stories

I know there are some of you out there who have been dumped on vacation and, like, you don’t have to talk about it, but also I do have questions.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 2, 2019 67 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Posting The Very Best Thirst Traps, TYVM

“I posted that photo just to be included in No Filter.”

Darcy August 2, 2019 22 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: It’s Flash Friday For Our Fundraiser, Let’s Talk About PERKS

If someone said to you, “Hey, we’re having a Flash Friday Sale for our Fundraiser, can you offer up a weird and quirky thing that is specific to you?”, what would you offer?

Vanessa July 26, 2019 97 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Lettering In Joy

YOU LETTERED IN BEING THIRSTY I LOVE IT I LOVE YOU!

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We Did It! We Raised $90K! Now We’re Thinking Bigger!

We hadn’t planned anything beyond our original goal, but your belief in us has taught us a new kind of hope. Today, we’re introducing a fundraising stretch goal of $25,000 intended to help bring our senior staff salaries to a more manageable place.

Heather Hogan July 24, 2019 57 Comments
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For Your Consideration: Donating to Autostraddle

For the past five-ish years, I have worked in the hellish, uncertain landscape known as the media industry. I have written for well over a dozen publications. None have made me feel more valued for my work than Autostraddle.

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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s on Your Big Gay Roadtrip Playlist?

How hard do you go on the Hayley Kiyoko when making your summer road trip playlist?

Valerie Anne July 19, 2019 68 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Donating To Autostraddle

“Hello, is this a safe space where we can discuss the complete emotional dismantling perpetrated by Heather Hogan’s letter accompanying the fundraiser?”

Darcy July 19, 2019 18 Comments
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We Need Help: Autostraddle Is Raising Money!

We’ve spent years — our whole lives, sometimes, it seems like — talking about what our community could look like if we weren’t spending all our time and energy on just staying alive, a feeling that queer and trans people know all too well. With your help, we’re excited to find out what thriving looks like. 

The Editors July 18, 2019 236 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Tell Me Your Best And Worst Roommate Stories!

I’ve decided that roommates are queer culture, so let’s talk about them!

Drew Burnett Gregory July 12, 2019 100 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Pouring Champagne in a Ticker-Tape Parade

“I’ve been a fan of soccer since Megan Rapinoe said she wasn’t going to ‘to the f*cking White House.’ So, two weeks. But this is giving me so much life! Pulling up to fandom with the U-Haul.”

Darcy July 12, 2019 8 Comments
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We Need Help: Now Hiring Team Writers!

We’re looking to bring some more writers onto our team and maybe perhaps you are one of them?

The Editors July 5, 2019 26 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Go To The Beach, Beach

What would you do at the queer and trans beach on your perfect beach day? Come pretend with me!

KaeLyn July 5, 2019 39 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Going to the Motherf*cking World Cup Final

“I wasn’t a sports gay until this article and now I love sports.”

Darcy July 5, 2019 7 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Might I Suggest A Themed Party?

Themed parties: Love them or hate them? Either way, happy Friday! Get in these comments and let’s talk about it!

Ari June 28, 2019 37 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Taking It One Day At A Time

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Darcy June 28, 2019 11 Comments
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