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Kristen Arnett, a white butch human with long straight brown hair and glasses is drawn in an MS paint style in three separate images. In the farmost left one, they are wearing a blue button up and gazing thoughtfully off to the left. In the center one, she is wearing a tank, some necklaces and rings and looking awesome. All the way to the right, he is sticking their tongue out all the way revealing a tongue ring while wearing a Jaws tee shirt. illustrations of money rain down in the background
Straddleverse

Queerness Is Messy, I Am Messy and That’s a Very Good Thing

It would have been impossible for me to write the novels and stories that I’ve created without the help of Autostraddle.

Kristen Arnett March 23, 2023 18 Comments
an MS paint style feature image with three different drawings of managing editor kayla. she is a south asian woman with long brown hair. she is wearing white and looking serious, fun and flirty all at once. in the central drawing she is holding a pink cocktail. the background is covered in drawings of money and a pyramid
Straddleverse

Who Else Is Going To Publish a History of Lesbian Cheerleaders?

At a small, indie operation like Autostraddle, I can say that the more funds we raise, the less we have to remain hyper-vigilant about our own survival, the more we can concentrate on the core of our work, the sooner I can get these projects out into the world, the more I can do the kind of erotic-academic work I love to do.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 22, 2023 12 Comments
a rainbow background covered in a chaotic amalgamation of ms paint style dogs and cats and chicks with a cat sleeping on an open laptop that is open to the autostraddle website
Straddleverse

Together, How Far Can We Go?

You all have never, ever raised money for Autostraddle this quickly.

Nico March 21, 2023 12 Comments
the brown and white comment dog, peering over their laptop with the words "hey did you see that comment?" the background is light blue, and there are a variety of hand-drawn pets, coins, and dollars in honor of this week's fundraiser.
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Riding the Lesbian Party Bus

“I still wear my actual red Straddle This boxers!!”

Darcy March 17, 2023 27 Comments
three line drawings of carmen done in an MS paint style. Carmen is a Black woman with medium short curly hair parted in the center and large glasses who is shown here wearing hoops. the illustrations are smiling and celebratory. money rains down from above.
Straddleverse

The Little Things Matter

It’s complicated (or at least, it’s by design) that underneath structures of capitalism, queer independent media is never intended to survive.

Carmen Phillips March 17, 2023 13 Comments
a collage of the various fundraiser perks items along with cartoony illustrations of various autostraddle pets
Straddleverse

Save an Indie Queer Media Site, Get Cool Perks for Hot Gays

I don’t know sounds like a deal to me!

Nico March 16, 2023 24 Comments
against a background of MS paint style autostraddle animals including Carol and an open laptop with a cat lying on it is a bunch of cartoon money. In a rainbow gradient, the words The Autostraddle Fundraiser 2023 are set large and centered
Straddleverse

We Need You To Buy Us Some Time Before Time Runs Out

If we don’t get the money we need, we’ll be gone before Pride.

Nico March 15, 2023 117 Comments
a chaotic image with an ms paint style cat and two dogs on it - including carol. the cat is heather's cat dobby. there is a rainbow bar chart, illustrations of money, and several other mathematical looking charts.
Straddleverse

Yes, Fundraising Is Part of Our Business Model: Here’s Why

Here are updates to our current financial situation. Still, the essentials of everything we’ve been saying for years are true. Fundraising is a part of our business model!

Nico March 15, 2023 72 Comments
A small brown and white dog sitting in front of a laptop with the words "hey did you see that comment?" The O in Comment is a soda can.
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bubbly Inside and Out

“‘Raw-dogging some pre-pickles in a Sodastream’ made me spit take my very boring Diet Coke.”

Darcy March 10, 2023 4 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are All Lit Up Inside

“I came for the lights and left wanting to know more about your Disney villain mom!”

Darcy March 3, 2023 6 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Back on the Apps

“Can someone make an app for that, please? We can call it SPIT!”

Darcy February 24, 2023 5 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Love You, And You, And You, Forever!

“Does this mean I’m fulfilling a lifelong dream in which not only am I NOT a danger with a bow and arrow, but actively skilled?”

Darcy February 17, 2023 7 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Writing Fanfiction About Dana Scully

“Can’t wait for the Daddy quiz and to see what all the pairings become!!!”

Darcy February 10, 2023 2 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Both Fascinating and Slightly Unhinged

“So proud that my wife Natasha Lyonne is fathering children with Drew Barrymore, who has been an agent of queer chaos since she turned Darlene Connor gay in Poison Ivy.”

Darcy February 3, 2023 7 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Splitting Wood With a Sword Like A Lesbian Avenger

“Cannot believe the M3gan sequel is not called Meg4n!”

Darcy January 27, 2023 3 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Buzzing With Antici-p-p-pation

“I’m shipping you and Tasha!”

Darcy January 20, 2023 11 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are a Nonbinary Bonbon

“Mrs. Peacock with the tuxedo jacket in the bedroom is how i die.”

Darcy January 13, 2023 5 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Leaving Space for the Great Unknown

“Finley may only have 11 numbers in her phone, but one of them is Rebecca!”

Darcy January 6, 2023 3 Comments
A collage of Autostraddle images from 2022: a young Black trans kid with make up, a surreal piece of art from Diner Week, Syd's Broken Hearts Club album cover, and an image of Brittney Griner smiling.
Straddleverse

Autostraddle Editors Select Their Favorite 2022 Posts — That They Had Nothing to Do With

Telling our stories, on our terms, requires so much love. And we are so honored to do it. We hope to make you proud.

Carmen Phillips and The Editors
December 30, 2022 4 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Eating Cheese and Contemplating Existence

“Not my gay ass thinking that by caroling I thought you meant… watching Carol?”

Darcy December 30, 2022 1 Comment
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