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The Comment Awards are Scissoring in a Hammock in the Woods

“I didn’t know that all I wanted was a movie where lesbian Kate Winslet travels back in time for dinosaur adventures until I was misled by this graphic.”

Darcy April 12, 2019 10 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s the Most Incredible Thing You’ve Ever Eaten?

Let’s make this the most delicious Friday Open Thread this site has ever seen!

Reneice Charles April 12, 2019 37 Comments
Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: The Outsiders Issue

Our spring issue wants you to get outside and find the rest of us, or yourself, or the history of a people, or something else we’ve never seen! Deadline for submissions is midnight April 26th.

Riese April 11, 2019 40 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy National Poetry Month, Let’s Share Our Favorite Poems!

“That’s how I participate in other people’s work. I carry it. The most important poems for us are the ones we carry.” – Ocean Vuong

A. Tony Jerome April 5, 2019 90 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Carolstraddling Into the Sunset

“Don’t c@ me.”

Darcy April 5, 2019 31 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Relishing the ’90s

If you wanna be my lover…

Darcy March 29, 2019 8 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Riding the Gender Roller Coaster

How did you realize and/or develop your relationship to your gender identity or gender presentation, if at all?

Archie March 29, 2019 73 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Smooching Stephanie Beatriz on Primetime

There are no accidents.

Darcy March 22, 2019 30 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Attachment Style, Cutie Patootie?

Do you know about attachment styles? I previously did not. Is it like an astrology thing? Or a Myers-Briggs thing? Or an enneagram thing? No, it’s not. Also, yes, kind of. Come find out or just hang with me!

KaeLyn March 22, 2019 79 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Full Of Love

“I found Autostraddle while googling ‘how do you know if you should leave your girlfriend?’ And reader, I did leave her. And then I went to an Autostraddle meet-up and met the lady knight of my wildest dreams.”

Darcy March 15, 2019 20 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I Need Help, Tell Me All About Your Skin Care Routine!

I have to be very honest with you – I am not a Skin Care Gay…yet!

Vanessa March 15, 2019 102 Comments
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The Autostraddle Yearbook: A Decade Of Gay Work

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives…

the team March 11, 2019 86 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Making Bisque and Bingeing Derry Girls

“Thank you for blessing us with the phrase ‘kitchen top,’ because I think that’s my actual alignment.”

Darcy March 8, 2019 13 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: When Did You Find Autostraddle And What Happened Next?

We’ve been here for 10 years! When did you join the party?

Vanessa March 8, 2019 101 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bringing This Meeting of the Baby-Sitters Club to Order

“Hello, Baby-Sitters Club.”

Darcy March 1, 2019 15 Comments
Straddleverse Television

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: How Do You Feel About Literally All The Reboots On TV Right Now?

Let’s talk about reboots, remakes, and re-imaginings! And speculate wildly about the new L Word!

Valerie Anne March 1, 2019 66 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Do Not Want a Sex Button

“I love that someone actually answered that they’re a ‘soup chef’.”

Darcy February 22, 2019 26 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: On Cats And Sunsets

One of my cats died suddenly two weeks ago, but I still have two perfect cats and get to experience the sunset every night, so everything is different, but I’m okay.

Ari February 22, 2019 48 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Love You! Yes, You!

“Crying in the gay bar right now.”

Darcy February 15, 2019 12 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I Wanna Know Who You Keep As Family

You know, I pull my family from everywhere. Tell me who makes up the family in your life, be it bio or chosen or something else entirely.

A. Tony Jerome February 15, 2019 52 Comments
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