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What We Comment About When We Comment About Commenting

The rise of social media and the triumph of trolls has led many popular websites to shut down comments or let them spiral into extinction. NOT US.

Riese July 9, 2015 359 Comments
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It’s Tell Us Everything Week on Autostraddle!

We love you, and we love what you have to say. That’s why during Tell Me Everything week we want you to leave as many comments as you can — FOR PRIZES!

Carmen July 8, 2015 436 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Flying Through The Sky

Miley’s makeout sesh, the sexuality of M&Ms and the story of NO.

carrie July 5, 2015 5 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: All the Queermos Who Are Independent, Comment Here

Get in here and get free with me! Even if it’s just for the afternoon while you grill a veggie burger in your flip-flops. I’m okay with that.

Carmen July 3, 2015 173 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Want To Marry You

Best Pride month ever!

carrie June 27, 2015 4 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Do The Limbo

What are you waiting for? Let’s wait together.

Ryan Yates June 26, 2015 159 Comments
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23 Extra-Special Things You Wanted Us To Know About You On Our Autostraddle Grown-Ups Survey

“I went on a date with Laneia once.”

Riese June 25, 2015 52 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Gal Pal-ing Around

Wolf parents, gal pal dates and tank tops.

carrie June 20, 2015 13 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Do You Do When You Finally Make It Home?

Let’s talk about that feeling of having our feet on the ground for once, ya know? Or just share pictures of your puppy so we can all squeal with delight. LET’S JUST HANG OUT, OKAY? Okay!

Adrian June 19, 2015 112 Comments
Straddleverse

Scissoring Tank Tops and New A-Camp Hoodies Are Here!

We’ve got two styles of Scissoring tanks for ya — a black Flowy Scoop Muscle Tank and a grey Unisex jersey tank. Get yours before they sell out!

Riese June 15, 2015 33 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Back In Action

The best place to come up for air during your Orange Is The New Black marathon!

carrie June 12, 2015 9 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Were You Up To While We Were At Camp?

I left the real world to hang out on the mountain but I’m not looking to leave the Autostraddle universe anytime soon, so let’s just hold each other or whatever. GET IN HERE!

Carmen June 5, 2015 147 Comments
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Friday Open Thread: Not At A-Camp (but I’m Getting Married Tomorrow)

So, we’re not at A-Camp. We can still bask in our queer feels and hang out here on the open thread. Also, Mari’s getting married tomorrow.

Mari Brighe May 29, 2015 125 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Out of This World

Punditry, road trips and texting back.

carrie May 22, 2015 2 Comments
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Friday Open Thread: House, Pajama, Dance, Rooftop, Rent — What’s Your Favorite Summer Party?

Ain’t no party like an AS party cuz we party on top of g-damb mountain. I’m talking about queer parties with brujas, loverbois, Harry Potter heads, and geeked out cyborgs. Come talk to us about that one time at that party that was the best ever.

gabby May 22, 2015 96 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Buzzing With Excitement

Queer prom adventures, Frosted Mini Wheats and bees!

carrie May 15, 2015 10 Comments
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Friday Open Thread: Longing and Lusting for the Open Road

Oh, how I wish we could go on a road trip right now! Have you ever gone road trippin’? Tell me about your best road trip IRL or in your mind. Where did you go? Or where would you go? Alone or with a friend or lover? Describe it to me!

KaeLyn May 15, 2015 187 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Do You Wear When You Want To Feel Awesome?

What do you wear when you want to feel amazing? How did you learn that it made you feel amazing?

Ryan Yates May 8, 2015 206 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Getting It Done

Ambitious sex spots, shopping on ‘shrooms and coding.

carrie May 1, 2015 5 Comments
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Friday Open Thread: Did You Forget That Very Important Thing You Had to Do?

I did! That “oh f*ck” moment where the realization of that thing you had to do appears all of a sudden from the fog of your over-stimulated brain and strikes an immediate clutch-your-chest wave of fear that ripples throughout your body. Get in here and tell us about it!

gabby May 1, 2015 248 Comments
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