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The Comment Awards Are Sleeping With Their Ex. Maybe. Possibly.

“Well, now I need ‘Consider disengaging if you’re processing more than you’re fucking’ embroidered on a pillowcase.”

Darcy February 8, 2019 12 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Has Your Diva Cup Ever Rolled Down The Aisle On A Bus Full Of People Or Was That Just Me?

I want to hear about an embarrassing moment in public you’ve had! And then I want to hear how you SURVIVED it!

Archie February 8, 2019 127 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Crushing On Carmen SanDiego

“I’ve had a crush on Carmen SanDiego’s femme badassery since before I knew what crushes were, and long before I knew I could have them on women.”

Darcy February 1, 2019 14 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I Came Out in a Minivan on the Way to New York, How About You?

Sometimes when we come out, especially after that first time…it’s kind of hilarious.

Valerie Anne February 1, 2019 146 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Think You’re Hot and You Can Too

“If Erin Sullivan has taught me anything, it’s that someone will try to use a bath bomb as a dildo.”

Darcy January 25, 2019 44 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Who Was Your First LGBTQ Inspiration Model?

Do you remember the first inspiration models or role models in your life? Come chill with me and let’s get hella nostalgic!

KaeLyn January 25, 2019 78 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Crushing On Gillian Anderson

“Dana Scully and the XXX Files? I’m into that.”

Darcy January 18, 2019 17 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: If You Could Write A Letter To Who You Were 10 Years Ago, What Would You Say?

Don’t be shy! We’re all family here and we’re all in this together.

Reneice Charles January 18, 2019 100 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Folding You Into Thirds and Setting You Upright In a Drawer

Spark joy, motherf*ckers!

Darcy January 11, 2019 47 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: A Modest Proposal That Pet Stores Are The New Queer Meet-Up Spots In 2019, Do You Agree?

You may be saying, “Alexis, you’re late to the party here,” but gentlepeople I believe I am right on time.

A. Tony Jerome January 11, 2019 101 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Cheering for You in this Brand New Year

“Gay cheerleader of the cosmos, guess I found my desired position for future job applications.”

Darcy January 4, 2019 9 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Which Fictional Character’s Energy Are You Channeling in 2019?

Happy New Year, my friends, and welcome to the first FRIDAY OPEN THREAD of 20biteen!

Heather Hogan January 4, 2019 96 Comments
Straddleverse

Call For Submissions: The Birthday Issue

Autostraddle turns ten in 2019 and in that spirit, the first theme issue of the year is BIRTHDAY. This can mean so many things! Pop in to find out more!

The Editors January 3, 2019 10 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Eating Leftover Chocolates in Bed

“I’m calling it Carbmas now.”

Darcy December 28, 2018 17 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Something Good That Happened To You In 2018?

2018 wasn’t *all* bad, was it? I mean, we called it 20GAYteen for a reason.

Natalie December 28, 2018 199 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Dancing Around A Solstice Fire

It’s a magical time of year.

Darcy December 21, 2018 22 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Can Have Nice Things

“The heart with a dot below it is the menstruation heart you cannot change my mind.”

Darcy December 14, 2018 24 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Which Romantic Comedies Remind You That Love Isn’t A Lie?

Romantic comedies are the cure to my broken heart, and maybe yours! Get in here and talk about them with me!

Ari December 14, 2018 95 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Can’t Sit Properly

“The chairs thing! THE CHAIRS THING. All my life.”

Darcy December 7, 2018 27 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Imagine a Coworking Space Just for Us

Let’s imagine if the Straddleverse became a real life coworking space! What would your ideal workspace look like?

Valerie Anne December 7, 2018 46 Comments
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