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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #214: It Was Time To Leave The Noise And The Bodies Behind

Topics include Dominos pizza, Cracker Barrel, leaving New York City, an alcoholic sportswriter, Stitch’s Great Escape, Kesha and SO MUCH MORE

Riese November 4, 2016 10 Comments
Book Lists

The Ultimate Maggie Nelson Reading List

Maggie Nelson’s The Argonauts doesn’t have an index, so I made one for it. I can promise that it is both longer and shorter than you think.

Maree October 31, 2016 17 Comments
Book Lists Halloween

Normal Blood Feelings: 5 Dark (and Sometimes Sexy) Queer Vampire Stories

If witches are a way to tell stories about women and power, vampires are a way to tell stories about women and sex.

Ryan Yates October 28, 2016 13 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Nothing Is Static

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie on Beyoncé, digital accessibility and representation as an ongoing project, every spell used in Harry Potter, Halloween reading and more.

Ryan Yates October 27, 2016 1 Comment
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #213: Can These Desires and Needs Survive Together

Topics include Dress for Success, OJ Simpson, open marriages, Star Tours, what men love about war, lesbians in the ’90s, a white supremacist who went to college and changed his mind and so much more!

Riese October 21, 2016 15 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Why Have Privacy When You Can Have Rage

No women won the Nobel Prize, on women’s privacy and how Elena Ferrante got doxxed, how witches are a way to write about women’s power, lesbian YA covers through the years and more.

Ryan Yates October 13, 2016 13 Comments
Book Features

Conversation with White Friends: Sara Quin, Amber Dawn, Rae Spoon & Dannielle Owens-Reid

Why is that people of colour have to bear the brunt of speaking out about racism while white people enjoy the privilege of remaining silent? What happens when the tables are turned?

Vivek Shraya October 13, 2016 21 Comments
Book Features LGBT History

38 Lesbian Magazines That Burned Brightly, Died Hard, Left A Mark

AfterEllen is a part of a legacy of brilliant publications created by passionate lesbian, queer and bisexual women that unfortunately no longer exist, but were cool for a while.

Riese October 12, 2016 32 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #212: She’s A Little Trigger-Happy On The Misanthropic Rage

Topics include Sea World Ohio, “Fixer Upper,” Blue Apron, Bret Easton Ellis, the Golden Suicides, a con-woman, this really cool essay about ambition and SO MUCH MORE!

Riese October 7, 2016 7 Comments
Book Features Community

GIVEAWAY: Snag a Copy of Grace Bonney’s New Book, “In the Company of Women!”

Grace Bonney, designer extraordinaire, has a gift for you: In the Company of Women, a coffee table collection profiling a diverse range of creative women about their work. Comment on this post TODAY to win a copy!

Carmen October 4, 2016 45 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Take A Break When You Need One

Feminist coloring books, favorite bi+ books of 2016 (so far), publishing algorithms, when sometimes you read less than other times and more.

Ryan Yates September 29, 2016 29 Comments
Book Lists

8 Books Featuring Lesbian May/December Romance To Curl Up With Tonight

Did you love Susan Choi’s My Education, about a sexy student/professor love affair? Here are eight more books you won’t want to miss.

Casey September 26, 2016 50 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #211: Either It’s All Those Drugs I Took In The ’60s Or I’m Really In Love

Topics include Atlantic City, Air Force One on 9/11, John Hughes movies, Edward Albee, Star Trek fandom, porn, kids on the internet and so much more!

Riese September 23, 2016 14 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: What Is Women’s Lit?

Reading bored white girls, queer YA, Power and Magic, what women’s lit is anyway and more.

Ryan Yates September 15, 2016 5 Comments
Book Features

Empowering the Feminists of the Future: A Q&A with “Powered by Girl” Author Lyn Mikel Brown

I chatted with Lyn this week about the book, youth activism, and intergenerational activism. She had a lot of amazing things to say, spoiler alert.

Carmen September 14, 2016 1 Comment
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #210: The New Sofa Has Nothing To Fear From Me

Topics include Flint, the framing of a PTA mom, perfume, Roger Ailes, the true crime genre, the Upright Citizens Brigade, Miss America, domestic spheres, Winona Ryder and more!

Riese September 9, 2016 4 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read A F*cking Book: M-E Girard’s Novel “Girl Mans Up” Powerfully Explores Minefields of Gender

“Girard’s writing is special in the way it speaks the language of our lived experience of moving through and within gender — inching, painfully slow, changeable, delightful, sexy, and made manifest in a thousand tiny ways, often between people and between words, unspoken.”

Emma Eisenberg September 8, 2016 7 Comments
Book Features

“Eat, Pray, Love” Author Elizabeth Gilbert Comes Out On Facebook

This is a happy story and also a sad story. Gilbert realized she was in love with her best friend, Rayya Elias, after Elias was diagnosed with liver and pancreatic cancer.

Heather Hogan September 7, 2016 50 Comments
Book Features

Baby-Sitters Club Creator Ann M. Martin is Queer, How Did I Not Know This

She also identifies as “a Mary Ann.”

Heather Hogan September 6, 2016 72 Comments
Book Features

Sara June Woods Wants to Write About Being Fucking Weird: The Autostraddle Interview

“I think I feel a little less desperation to be liked and a little more “fuck you if you don’t like me.” I think I enjoy flaunting my monstrousness.”

Mahdia Lynn September 2, 2016 8 Comments
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