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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #252: I Loved the Helpless People I Loved

Topics include the Santa Ana winds, murder, Weinstein’s Complicity Machine, sandwiches, black residents targeted by jaywalking (etc) tickets in Florida, “trailer trash,” IKEA cafeterias and so much more!

Riese December 8, 2017 8 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Write Your Own Escape Routes

This year’s Bad Sex Awards, Black women poets speaking truth to power, learning how to be alone, the problem with categories in literature and more.

Ryan Yates December 7, 2017 2 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: As Simple As Being

Women writers have friendships, too; women having control over their bodies; a poem from Eileen Myles and more.

Ryan Yates November 24, 2017 2 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #251: To Stand in a Shadowless Field in Three Layers of Tweed

Topics include being Midwestern, Second Life, restorative nostalgia, getting an abortion in South Dakota, Chuck E Cheese, Andrew Cunanan, Manson bloggers and so much more!

Riese November 24, 2017 13 Comments
Book Features Coming Out

How YA Novels Unexpectedly Enabled My Own Bisexual Revelation

I wonder why the story of a bisexual teenage boy is the one that allowed me to explicitly consider my identity as a bisexual adult woman for the first time.

Jackie Hedeman November 22, 2017 26 Comments
Book Features

Read A F*cking Book Club: Talking with Ariel Gore About “We Were Witches”

We’re discussing We Were Witches and sharing a brilliant interview with author Ariel Gore. Come join Autostraddle Book Club – the comments are wide open and we wanna hear everything you’ve got to say about this book.

Vanessa November 17, 2017 12 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #250: Their Weirdness Gives Them Psychic Powers and Untouchable Brilliance

In addition to telling you about this app I like, this week’s TIRTL involves stories on topics including Harvey Weinstein, a thriving small town in Iowa, girls doing murder in the woods, mall kiosks, going missing in Alaska, Sarah Polley, Power Point and more!

Riese November 10, 2017 13 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: We Are Never Lonely In Language

Reading Audre Lorde after Charlottesville, gendered terms in language when you’re non-binary, scary little girls in literature and more.

Ryan Yates November 9, 2017 2 Comments
Book Features Geekery

“Check Please” Creator Ngozi Ukazu Chats with Tillie Walden About Her New Book “Spinning”

You know what one of my most common questions at school visits is? “How do you come out?” Kids actually ask me this, in front of their peers and teachers. It’s unbelievable to me, it’s so brave.

Mey November 7, 2017 8 Comments
Book Lists

8 Queer Speculative Short Story Collections

Love queer speculative fiction but don’t have the time or energy to read novels or series? Then these eight collections and anthologies of queer speculative short fiction are for you!

Casey November 6, 2017 13 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #249: Ceiling Fans They Can Swing From Or Whatever.

Topics include Cher, Oxy, Mattresses, Cape Coral, Mackenzie Davis, TGI Fridays, TV finales, Tiny House Hunters and more!

Riese October 27, 2017 9 Comments
Book Lists

25 LGBT History Books to Add to Your Epic Queer History Reading List

Celebrate LGBT History Month by reading LGBT history books!

Ryan Yates October 27, 2017 8 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Love After Life

Consider only reading queer romance, bisexual slang, horror stories by women and more.

Ryan Yates October 26, 2017 3 Comments
Coming to Power / Jeans with Hanky in Left Pocket
Book Features LGBT History

Our Sex Is Good: Kink Writing in the 1980s–1990s

How two 1970s and 1980s lesbian BDSM books changed the national conversation around feminism, lesbianism, and kink.

Ari October 24, 2017 8 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Myriam Gurba’s Floating World in “Mean”

Gurba’s writing feels devastating and holy and hilarious all at once, like a dead sea scroll that is as fun to read as an old issue of Playboy.

Aisha October 18, 2017 4 Comments
Book Features

Read A F*cking Book Club: We’re Gonna Read “We Were Witches!”

We Were Witches by Ariel Gore is an autobiographical novel that uses magick spells and inverted fairy tales to combat queer scapegoating, domestic violence, and high-interest student loans. We’re going to read it together this month!

Vanessa October 17, 2017 8 Comments
Book Features

c c cummings: An Excerpt From Mean by Myriam Gurba

“To read a piece about lesbian e e cummings, you have to fully commit, but you could tell Dr. Brown was scared.”

Myriam Gurba October 16, 2017 6 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #248: Good F*cking Luck Fighting Off Those Bowls of Baby Snickers.

Topics include The Olive Garden, Harvey Weinstein, domestic violence, Kink.com, Dirty John the con artist, an immersive Casper mattress experience, essential oils and more!

Riese October 13, 2017 14 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: A Peculiar Malfunction

The Nobel Prize is “fun” now, “Her Body and Other Parties,” Shirley Jackson, Rupi Kaur, the most subversive thing a woman can be and more.

Ryan Yates October 12, 2017 6 Comments
Book Lists

Read These Queer Banned Books Right Now

Read queer banned books. Support their authors. And maybe buy an extra copy or two of these and leave them in a school library near you.

Ryan Yates September 29, 2017 9 Comments
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