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The book Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner as well as an author photo of Meryl Wilsner. They are wearing a yellow buttonup shirt and glasses while smiling at the camera.
Book Features

Author Meryl Wilsner on Writing MILFs, Age Gaps, and Twisting Tropes

“We never learned to write books, we only learn how to write the book that we’re writing.”

Christina Tucker October 11, 2022 13 Comments
Nightwood by Djuna Barnes surrounded by lips with a split tongue emerging from them
Book Features

The Unspeakable Shadows of Nightwood

You fear Nightwood because of what it reveals about you.

Autumn Fourkiller October 10, 2022 4 Comments
The following books: Nothing but Blackened Teeth by Cassandra Khaw, Tell Me I'm Worthless by Alison Rumfitt, White is for Witching by Helen Oyeyemi, and What Moves the Dead by T. Kingfisher
Book Lists

10 Queer Haunted House Books

Let’s get gay and scared!

Casey October 9, 2022 9 Comments
Three identical images for the cover of The Family Outing, which is written in rainbow letters on a blue background, with arrows on some of the letters.
LGBT Book Reviews

“The Family Outing” Is a Vivid Memoir of Neglect, Secrets, and the Power of Family

Over the course of five years, Jessi Hempel came out as a lesbian; her dad then came out as gay, her sister as bisexual, and her brother as trans.

Darcy October 7, 2022 4 Comments
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya takes a mirror selfie, surrounded by copies of her novelette HELEN HOUSE. A small ghost comes out of her phone.
Book Features

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya on Writing a Lesbian Horror Protagonist Who Has Been to Therapy

Autostraddle Managing Editor Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya’s debut book — Helen House, a queer horror novelette — comes out October 18.

Nico October 6, 2022 5 Comments
Book pages in the shape of a heart
Literature

Rainbow Reading: We Fell in Love (With Some Rad New Books) in October

When someone declared on Twitter “october is an inherently gay month” — they were right.

Yashwina October 6, 2022 2 Comments
Faltas by Cecilia Gentili
LGBT Book Reviews

Cecilia Gentili’s “Faltas” Is One of the Best Memoirs I’ve Ever Read

Faltas: Letters to Everyone in My Hometown Who Isn’t My Rapist is an exciting and, at times, breathtaking addition to the canon of works about “messy trans lives.”

Stef Rubino October 5, 2022 1 Comment
It Came From the Closet: Queer Reflections on Horror
LGBT Book Reviews

“It Came From the Closet” Gave Me New Appreciation for the Horror Genre

Because we’re so frequently othered, many LGBTQ+ people find ourselves in horror film monsters.

Abbie Jones October 4, 2022 2 Comments
A Scatter of Light by Malinda Lo
LGBT Book Reviews

Malinda Lo’s New Coming-of-Age Queer Novel “A Scatter of Light” Shines Brilliantly

Lo’s newest offering is beautifully composed, often feeling like a peek into your best friend’s hot (queer) girl summer.

shea wesley martin October 4, 2022 4 Comments
The Future is Disabled by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha
LGBT Book Reviews

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha’s “The Future Is Disabled” Should Be Required Reading

After reading The Future is Disabled, I feel more hopeful, and I think you will, too.

Katie October 3, 2022 15 Comments
Before We Were Trans by Kit Heyam
LGBT Book Reviews

Gender Nonconformity Has Always Existed

Trans activist and historian Kit Heyam’s new book Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender examines gender nonconformity throughout history.

Stef Rubino October 2, 2022 1 Comment
The Idiot by Elif Batuman and Either/Or by Elif Batuman
Book Features

Life Is Not a Novel

I’ve always had a very active daydream life.

Autumn Fourkiller September 30, 2022 10 Comments
The books Siren Queen by Nghi Vo, We Play Ourselves by Jen Silverman, Something to Talk About by Meryl Wilsner, and Everything Leads To You by Nina LaCour
Book Lists

Eight Queer Books Set in Los Angeles About the Movie Industry

A solid half of these are romance, which is entirely unintentional — but you’re welcome if queer celesbian romance is your jam.

Casey September 30, 2022 7 Comments
The books Pet and Bitter by Akwaeke Emezi
LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Naija Lit: Akwaeke Emezi’s “Pet” and “Bitter” Explore the Costs of a Different World

A new world isn’t possible without people believing it is.

Chinelo Anyadiegwu September 28, 2022 3 Comments
It Came From the Closet: Queer Reflections on Horror. Also, Megan Fox in the movie Jennifer's Body
Book Features First Person

In Queer Horror Anthology “It Came From the Closet,” Carmen Maria Machado Considers Jennifer’s Body

On queerbaiting, bisexuality, and Jennifer’s Body. This essay is an exclusive excerpt from the queer horror anthology It Came From the Closet, on sale next week.

Carmen Maria Machado September 27, 2022 14 Comments
An illustrated woman peeks from behind a book
Literature

Rainbow Reading: Book Hangovers Are Real and I Have One

The latest LGBTQ+ book releases are full of queer dark academia vibes.

Yashwina September 22, 2022 4 Comments
Nona the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
LGBT Book Reviews

In “Nona the Ninth,” Tamsyn Muir Zooms In on Her Goth Puzzle Box World

If you want to feel the dazzling space-goth world of Gideon and Harrow within reach, to pull it close enough to see its day-to-day details, then Nona will feel like a veritable feast.

Yashwina September 19, 2022 8 Comments
The book cover for Chasing Harmony: A silhouette of a girl sitting at a piano
Book Features

Author Melanie Bell on her YA Novel “Chasing Harmony” and the Messy Process of Growing Up Queer

“The people I met who were identified as musical prodigies had long journeys involving conflict between their abilities and personal needs and finding who they were beyond the weight of expectations. When I was younger, successes and failures felt huge, and this is the case for Anna too.”

Darcy September 17, 2022
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Book Features

Things I Read That I Love #328: You Never Called That Girl Back Even Though You Were Dating

Topics include the mall, Tinder, Gabby Petito, the abuse scandal at an acclaimed L.A high school, Choose Your Own Adventure books, Crime Junkie, amusement parks, dog breeds and more!

Riese September 16, 2022 9 Comments
Three images in a row of the pink cover of the book I'm The Girl. It features a blonde girl with dark brows and smeared red lipstick on a pink background.
LGBT Book Reviews

“I’m the Girl” Is a Harrowing, Complex Story of Abuse That’s Difficult To Read

Courtney Summers’ latest thriller tries to hold our culture accountable for its crimes against teen girls. Does it succeed?

Darcy September 13, 2022 4 Comments
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