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Book Features First Person

Growing Up Queer With a Narcissistic Mother Was Its Own Special Hell

The twisted protagonist’s mommy issues in Elle Nash’s ‘Deliver Me’ were far too relatable for comfort.

Nico July 11, 2024 3 Comments
3-picture collage: Bunny by Mona Awad, Big Swiss by Jen Beagin, You Exist Too Much by Zaina Arafat
Book Lists

Feeling Feral? Here’s 17 Novels For The Weird Girls

I love a fucking weirdo narrator — a strange girl who’s always on the outside of things, always looking too closely at everything around her, drawing conclusions nobody wants to hear, perpetually unsure of how to be a human.

Riese July 10, 2024 13 Comments
A triptych of the All-Night Pharmacy cover against an off-white textured background
LGBT Book Reviews

‘All-Night Pharmacy’ Is a Bisexual Neo-Noir About Addiction, Psychics, and Intergenerational Trauma

In this fresh take on the mystery novel, what needs to be solved is not a murder — it’s not even a missing sister or the truth of a psychic — it’s how to move past cultural and familial trauma.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 9, 2024
Carrie Carolyn Coco: My Friend, Her Murder, and an Obsession with the Unthinkable by Sarah Gerard
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Carrie Carolyn Coco’ Isn’t Like Any Other True Crime You’ve Read

With her new book Carrie Carolyn Coco: My Friend, Her Murder, and an Obsession with the Unthinkable, Sarah Gerard forces us to reckon with ourselves and how we approach the world around us.

Stef Rubino July 8, 2024 1 Comment
More Please by Emma Specter
Book Features

When It Comes to Fat Liberation, the Work Is Never Done

“I think the fewer examples there are of fat people or people writing about fatness, the more we expect from individuals, when fatphobia is a systemic problem. What I really want to see is just all of the stories.”

Stef Rubino July 3, 2024 3 Comments
Chappell Roan with the books Homie by Danez Smith, Tomboyland by Melissa Faliveno, and Quietly Hostile by Samantha Irby
Book Lists Music

Which Queer Midwest Writer To Read Based on Your Favorite Chappell Roan Song

Growing up in a Missouri trailer park, Chappell has been outspoken about the Midwest as a center of cultural revolution.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan July 2, 2024
You're Embarrassing Yourself by Desiree Akhavan. The Pairing by Casey McQuiston. A Map of My Want by Faylita Hicks
Book Lists

46 Most Anticipated Queer Books Coming Out This July and August

As usual, all genres are represented, but there’s a surprising amount of creepy reads in the thriller/horror realm coming out the rest of summer.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
July 2, 2024 6 Comments
On Her Terms by Amy Spalding
Book Features

Exclusive Cover Reveal + Excerpt: Get a Sneak Peek of Amy Spalding’s Upcoming Sapphic Rom-Com ‘On Her Terms’

Check out the first chapter of On Her Terms, a sapphic rom-com with a fake relationship plot.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 1, 2024 3 Comments
collage of three articles in this month's TIRTL
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #336: The Brat Pack, Buying Sperm, Conversational AI and Streaming Wars

Annie Hamilton befriends Tavi Gevinson and gets unhinged about it, the future of streaming, literary it-girls, MTV’s “The Real World,” Colleen Hoover has writer’s block, Kindbody sucks, a really funny piece about a “Conversational AI” conference and so much more!

Riese June 28, 2024 13 Comments
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Book Features Queer Fashion

‘Unsuitable’ Looks at the Dynamic History of Lesbian Fashion

From Sappho’s violets to monocles to bandanas in your back pocket, queer women have long used fashion as a signal to find their community.

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 27, 2024
The Book of Juju: Africana Spirituality for Healing, Liberation, and Self-Discovery
Book Features

Your Ancestors Are Your Best Friends: Juju Bae’s LGBTQ-Inclusive Approach to African Traditional Religion

Like many young Black people in the United States, I was raised in the church.

Eva Reign June 26, 2024
Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink by Tina Horn
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Why Are People Into That?’ Asks Incisive Questions About Kink

Tina Horn’s new book will challenge some of your problematic notions no matter how confident you are in your sex positivity.

Summer Tao June 19, 2024
Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous by Mae Marvel
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous’ Is a Perfect Sapphic Second-Chance Summer Romance

For fans of second-chance romance, friends to lovers, and ‘celebrity falls for regular person’ tropes.

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 13, 2024 5 Comments
Please Stop Trying To Leave Me by Alana Saab, Horse Barbie by Geena Rocero, and Wish You Weren't Here by Erin Baldwin
Book Lists

46 Most Anticipated Queer Books Coming Out In June 2024

Hot fresh reads for a hot bookish Pride month!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
June 11, 2024 4 Comments
The Other Olympians: Fascism, Queerness, and the Making of Modern Sports by Michael Waters
LGBT Book Reviews

‘The Other Olympians’ Is Essential Reading Heading Into This Year’s Summer Olympics

It’s a fascinating and, oftentimes, frustrating exploration of how we got to where we are in both the sports and gender debate and the limitation of trans rights in general.

Stef Rubino June 4, 2024 1 Comment
Autostraddle and Bookshop collab with two lesbians reading together
Book Lists

75 Books for Every Pride Vibe

Browse our curated list of books by LGBTQ authors and receive a discount on books purchased through Bookshop all Pride month long!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya June 3, 2024 3 Comments
"i want you more" by swan huntley
Book Features

‘I Want You More’ Traps a Lesbian Ghostwriter in a Manor With a Devious Food Network Star

Talking to Swan Huntley about her new queer thriller “I Want You More,” building a writing career, whether she takes her own advice, the endless internal void, loving food shows despite not being a cook.

Riese May 31, 2024 1 Comment
The 7-10 Split and A Little Kissing Between Friends
LGBT Book Reviews

This Month, We Get Two Sapphic Romances Featuring Black Main Characters

I hope this means there will be more trad pubs looking to publish Black sapphic stories, because my bookshelf is ready.

Sa'iyda Shabazz May 30, 2024
Making Gaybies by Jaya Keaney
Book Features Parenting & Family

When it Comes to Queer Fertility, There Are No Perfect Choices

I was 22 years old when I donated my eggs anonymously at a fertility clinic in New York City.

Lauren Herold May 29, 2024
Housemates novel: a triptych of the cover of Emma Copley Eisenberg's Housemates, a blue tinted image of side by side Philly homes with a pink, green, and blue palette for the the title and outline.
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Housemates’ Is a Remarkable Novel, Intimate, Expansive, and Full of Sight

It’s about seeing through images and seeing through words. It’s also a love story, about falling for the way another person sees the world, the magic of realizing someone sees in a way that is different than you yet insistently compatible.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 28, 2024 4 Comments
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