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Love the World or Get Killed Trying: the cover of the novel with Alvina Chamberland nude resting on shimmery ice.
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Love the World Or Get Killed Trying’ Is a Poetic Cry of Trans Loneliness

The achievement of Alvina Chamberland’s text is how she reveals the deeper loneliness beneath her romantic isolation.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 15, 2024
Memory Piece by Lisa Ko
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Memory Piece’ Understands the Power of an Archive

Through three interconnected characters, Lisa Ko pens a very queer book about memory, art, and revolution.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 13, 2024 2 Comments
Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner, Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls by T Kira Madden, and Time Is a Mother by Ocean Vuong
Book Lists

19 Queer Books About Losing a Parent

These queer books across all genres are all haunted in some way by the death of a parent.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 11, 2024 5 Comments
For Your Consideration, Her Royal Highness, Sizzle Reel
Book Lists

17 Queer “Celebrity Falls For Normal Person” Romance Books If You Liked ‘The Idea Of You’

If you liked “The Idea of You” but wished it was gay, these lesbian, queer and gay novels that feature romance between a celebrity and a normal person will definitely fill that aching void in your heart.

Riese May 10, 2024 1 Comment
How It Works Out by Myriam Lacroix
LGBT Book Reviews

‘How it Works Out’ Imagines Many Madcap Alternate Universes of Queer Love

It’s a gorgeous, speculative exercise in romance that’s as bound together as it is fragmented.

Aamina Inayat Khan May 8, 2024 1 Comment
Here We Go Again by Alison Cochrun
LGBT Book Reviews

A Hilarious Sapphic Road Trip Romance About Death and English Teachers

‘Here We Go Again’ by Alison Cochrun delights — despite dealing with death.

ashni April 30, 2024 2 Comments
Like Love by Maggie Nelson
LGBT Book Reviews

Maggie Nelson’s New Book Urges Us To Revel In the Art We Love

‘Like Love’ provides a creative and intellectual road map guiding us through many of Nelson’s influences, curiosities, and obsessions.

Stef Rubino April 29, 2024 1 Comment
The Call Is Coming From Inside the House by Allyson McOuat
LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Feminist Essay Collection Explores Horrors of Motherhood

The Call Is Coming From Inside The House is an ideal read for anyone interested in any one of its disparate themes: horror movies, queer parenthood, mental health, bisexuality, true crime, and more.

Casey April 18, 2024 4 Comments
Everytime You Hear That Song by Jenna Voris. Late Bloomer by Mazey Eddings. Sizzle Reel by Carlyn Greenwald.
Book Lists

Sapphic Romance Books To Give Your Heart a Spring Refresh

If you’re looking for something that evokes spring, whether literally or figuratively, this list of YA and Adult Romance has you covered.

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 16, 2024 1 Comment
Chaya Milchtein with her book Mechanic Shop Femme's Guide to Car Ownership
Book Features

Yes, Gays Can Drive: Mechanic Shop Femme Demystifies Car Ownership

“So I really look at this book as a guide for the average car owner for regular people like you who aren’t out there trying to fix their cars in their driveways, who aren’t trying to soup up their vehicles, who do not have a passion for cars.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 10, 2024 7 Comments
The following novels featuring breakup quotes: You Exist Too Much by Zaina Arafat, Nevada by Imogen Binnie, and Abandon Me by Melissa Febos
Book Lists Breakups

37 Quotes From Queer Authors About Heartbreak, Loss and Moving the F*ck On

“Even as I hold you, I am letting you go.”

Riese and Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
April 9, 2024 16 Comments
Trouble by Lex Croucher
LGBT Book Reviews

Bi4Bi Romance Thrives in This New Queer Regency-Era Rom-Com

Their romance also encapsulates the protagonist figuring out she’s a top, a journey I always love to see!

Casey April 8, 2024
Rainbow Black by Maggie Thrash
LGBT Book Reviews

Satanic Panic Depicted in Thriller ‘Rainbow Black’ Feels Strikingly Relevant to the Present

If there’s one word I could use to describe Maggie Thrash’s books, I’d use “tormented.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 5, 2024 2 Comments
postcards and stamps
Book Features Gender

Why I’m Compiling Queer and Trans Goodbye Letters to Places We’ve Left Behind

I stand with the grief of maps and the ways I bittersweetly still carry the places I left.

Lexie Bean April 3, 2024
Long Live Queer Nightlife: How the Closing ofGay Bars SParked a Revolution by Amin Ghaziani
LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Nightlife Doesn’t Need Permanent Spaces To Thrive

In Long Live Queer Nightlife, Ghaziani examines how the closing of gay bars over the last 20+ years has helped bring about a new kind of queer nightlife, one that is less focused on being a permanent fixture in one location and more focused on mobility, inclusion, and ephemerality.

Stef Rubino April 3, 2024 2 Comments
The cover of A Good Happy Girl three times. A close up of a woman eating a sandwich.
LGBT Book Reviews

‘A Good Happy Girl’ Oozes With Lesbian Kink and Familial Pain

This is a work of textures, of excess, of grease, of desire. It is a portrait of pleasure as punishment and punishment as pleasure, a gluttonous urge for more until both small joys and small discomforts are compounded into the same nauseating grotesquerie.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 2, 2024
The covers of Hijab Butch Blues, Big Swiss, and All Night Pharmacy against a grey textured background
Book Lists

Let’s Celebrate Gay Books! Congrats to the 2024 Lambda Literary Award Finalists!

Here are all the Lambda Literary Award finalists that Autostraddle wrote about this year.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 27, 2024 1 Comment
at her service book three times
LGBT Book Reviews

“At Her Service” Is a Sweet Sapphic Romance With Crucial Lesbian Kickball Representation

Amy Spalding’s second book in the “Out in Hollywood” series centers on Max, a wee masc lesbian in Hollywood roped into a self-actualization scheme by her influencer roommate and most importantly to me, playing a lot of lesbian kickball.

Riese March 25, 2024 4 Comments
Florida Man: Poems, Revisited by Tyler Gillespie
LGBT Book Reviews

This Recently Expanded Poetry Collection Touches on the Ambivalence of Being Queer in Florida

I’m still learning how to be queer in Florida.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 21, 2024
Love and Hot Chicken by Mary Liza Hartong
LGBT Book Reviews

Two Women Find Love in a Quirky Southern Town in “Love and Hot Chicken”

Slow burn romance in a small Southern town gives this queer novel its heat.

Sa'iyda Shabazz March 20, 2024 2 Comments
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