My Boss Is Withholding My Raise For The Most Annoying Reason
How can you pretend to like meetings you’re certain could’ve been an email? Also — tips for dating in a second language.
I’m Jealous That My Ex-Wife’s New Wife Is a Better Coparent Than My Girlfriend
You were ok with your girlfriend’s disinterest in parenting — until your ex-wife remarried. Also, a reader needing tips on quitting weed.
Why Halloween Feels Great to My Queer, Neurodivergent Brain
Growing up, Halloween was strictly off-limits.
Phalloplasty Is a Long Road. I’m So Happy I Chose It
I, like a lot of trans guys, wasn’t sure if I wanted a penis.
How To Perform a Cancer Self-Exam After Top Surgery
The transmasc thirst trap that could save a life.
Last Minute Halloween Costumes for Transmascs
Maybe you were scheduled for a barshift Halloweekend so you didn’t bother putting anything together and at the last minute got off. Or your situationship ended abruptly and now your couple’s costume is useless without your second half. We’ve got you covered.
Slightly Unhinged but Mostly Realistic Costume Ideas for Two Moms With Kids
Are you a queer family still deciding on the best Halloween costume for yourself, your partner and your adorable child (or children!)? We’re here to help.
‘My Long-Distance Bestie Is Hard To Talk to Because of His Chronic Illness’
Your friend isn’t in control of his illnesses and shouldn’t have to hold back his anxieties to make other people feel better.
Motti Rates His Past Halloween Costumes
I dressed so frequently as men/male characters far before realizing I was trans.
14 Halloween Quizzes You Could Take Right Now for a Very Gay October
What’s your fate in a zombie movie? What horror movie stock character are you? There are so many questions, and their accordant answers, right in here.
30 Lesbian Halloween Couples Costume Ideas
From classics like Daphne/Velma to recent pop culture pairings to conceptual ideas, we’re here to help brainstorm your best queer couples costumes ever.
21 Couples Halloween Costumes For Tall and Short Couples
Halloween costume time is the best time of year to tower over your girlfriend or best friend or partner (or vice versa).
‘I Can’t Tell if My Friend Is MAHA and It’s Freaking Me Out’
“I recently made a joke to her about seed oils and she got REALLY WEIRD.”
If You Lived Queer, You’d Be Home by Now: Supporting Local LGBTQ+ Portland
Where to go if you’re queer in Portland, including recs from the owners and workers of LGBTQ+ local businesses!
What Does Online Sex Work Look Like Behind the Camera?
We don’t just work in front of the camera. Most of us also comprise the entire operation behind the camera.
Should We Be Paying Our Friends To Babysit?
They’re doing well financially and love your kid — should you still offer money? Also; tips on giving complements to mascs and butches.
Is Your Ex Stalking You on Zelle?
What to do if you think your ex is stalking you on payment apps.
I Was Outed as Trans at Work
When I transitioned and changed my name, I went through all of my accounts and switched them to my new name. Banks and airlines were shockingly no problem. TSA precheck and Social Security just required another in-person meeting. It was the most random places that made it hard.
If You Don’t Already Have Your Halloween Couples Costumes Locked In, Are You Even Gay?
Lesbians have been Googling couples costume ideas frantically for over a month already.
‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’
Feeling bad about masturbation is a remarkably normal thing, especially for people who were immersed (drowned) in shame from the beginning.